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How to Fall (and Stay) in Love

2025/2/12
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Speaker 1: 在第一次约会时,我们一起看日落、在寒冷的海浪中玩耍、喝热巧克力,那一刻我知道自己爱上他了。送他离开后,我忍不住说了“oh shit”,意识到自己陷入了爱河。 Speaker 2: 我无法停止想念她,不能忍受与她分离,没有她我感到身体不适。我只想让她吻我。 Speaker 3: 我能清晰地记得她站在楼梯上对我微笑招手的样子,仿佛就在昨天。她的笑容和挥手让我心动。 Speaker 4: 我看着他,心想我爱这个男人,我需要一辈子都听到他的心跳。那一刻,我知道我恋爱了。 Speaker 5: 他带我去了一个可以随便吃的奶酪和巧克力自助餐,这简直就是通往我内心的方式。他的细心和浪漫让我感到被爱。 Speaker 6: 她未经告知就点了一磅生牛肉,并且吃光了,我的心以前所未有的方式打开了。她的独特和真诚让我深深着迷。 Speaker 7: 他坐在沙发上掸掉脚上的灰尘,准备穿袜子,那一刻我就知道了。这个平凡的瞬间让我感受到了爱的魔力。 Speaker 8: 当她走进演唱会,我们目光相遇的那一刻,我的生活一分为二。她的出现改变了我的人生轨迹。 Speaker 9: 我们在电话里聊了几个月,充满了催产素,我们相爱了,今年夏天将在后院结婚。电话里的交流让我们彼此了解,最终走到了一起。 Speaker 10: 我们在日出时拥抱在一起,那一刻我知道他就是那个对的人。拥抱的温暖和舒适让我确信他就是我的真爱。 Speaker 11: 我看着他,感觉像回到了家。一阵眩晕涌上心头,感觉内心的小女孩完全释放了出来。和他在一起,我感到安全和自由。 Speaker 12: 我感到一道金色的光芒在我的胸膛中爆发开来。这种强烈的幸福感让我意识到自己恋爱了。 Speaker 13: 感觉所有的拼图都拼在了一起,被爱和深爱某人感觉太棒了。一切都变得完整和有意义。 Speaker 14: 他对我说“但我还有更多可以给你”,那一刻我感到我内心的防御开始崩溃,意识到他是我可以共度余生的人。他的真诚和付出打动了我。 Speaker 15: 在火车上,我意识到我们会相爱。我们之间的吸引力是如此强烈。 Speaker 16: 我觉得我能和这个人一起生活。他的幽默和真诚让我感到舒适和快乐。 Speaker 17: 我意识到我不想没有她度过余生,我们决定结婚。我们之间的爱是如此强烈,以至于我们决定共度一生。 Speaker 18: 我意识到我爱上了他,因为他关心我,并且表达了一种我还不了解的连接。他的关心让我感到被爱和被保护。 Speaker 19: 我爱上了我的伴侣,因为我想和他聊很久很久。我们之间的交流是如此愉快和轻松。 Speaker 20: 我意识到他的真诚,以及生活将会变得有趣,我知道我爱他。他的真诚和幽默让我感到快乐和满足。 Speaker 21: 我们在车里畅谈未来,在雨中对视,那一刻世界都融化了。我们之间的默契和情感是如此强烈。 Speaker 22: 我意识到我会和凯蒂结婚,因为听到一首歌时,我突然明白了歌词的含义。音乐成为了我们爱情的象征。 Speaker 23: 我爱上了我的女朋友,因为我看到她用拳头打蟑螂。她的勇敢和果断让我感到敬佩。 Speaker 24: 我爱上了他,即使我已经90岁了。年龄不是爱的障碍。 Speaker 25: 我爱上了他,因为我忍不住闻了他的帽子,并且紧紧地抓在胸前。他的气味让我感到安心和幸福。 Speaker 26: 我爱上了他,因为他用Eminem的歌词安慰我,并且支持我去参加演唱会。他的幽默和支持让我感到被爱和被理解。

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This chapter compiles various listeners' anecdotes about the unexpected moments they realized they were falling in love. These range from grand romantic gestures to seemingly insignificant everyday occurrences, highlighting the diverse and unpredictable nature of love.
  • Listeners share diverse and unexpected moments of falling in love.
  • Love is experienced differently by each individual.
  • Small, everyday moments can be just as significant as grand romantic gestures.

Shownotes Transcript

The Modern Love team asked you to share with us the moment you knew you were falling in love, and you delivered. Your stories took us to so many places — dinner dates, subway rides, sunsets, concerts — and showed us the many shapes of love. There were so many that we could not list them all.

In this episode, we listen back to your voice messages. Then, Daniel Jones, the editor of Modern Love, joins us to discuss the “36 Questions That Lead to Love)” and what they reveal about how we fall in love. And Mandy Len Catron, the writer who popularized the 36 questions in her Modern Love essay, “To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This),” reads her essay and tells us whether she’s still in love with the same man 10 years later.

Here’s how to submit a Modern Love essay to The New York Times).

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