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Live Like You Mean It: The Compass of Congruent Connection w/ John R. Miles | EP 630

2025/6/27
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Passion Struck with John R. Miles

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John R. Miles: 在本期节目中,我探讨了深层连接中经常被忽略的最终层面:一致性,即言行一致。一致性具有吸引力,因为它在充满表演的世界中显得真实和安全。人们与你的完整性相连,而不是与你的言语相连。一致性是指内在与外在的统一,尤其是在压力下。你无法在内在矛盾的基础上建立有意义的连接。不一致性会带来焦虑、倦怠和与内在的脱节。一致性不是完美,而是诚实,是让声音与价值观匹配。重要的是成为自己信任的人,而一致性是实现这一目标的方式。布莱恩·威尔逊的生活体现了一致性的美丽和斗争。他的音乐表达了他内心的感受,即使他的乐队和观众不理解。我们纪念布莱恩·威尔逊的故事,不仅是作为一个教训,也是一种致敬。

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In this powerful close to The Connected Life series, John Miles pays tribute to the late Brian Wilson—co-founder of The Beach Boys—by exploring the theme of congruence: the often invisible alignment between our inner lives and outer expression. Using Wilson’s life as both mirror and message, this episode unpacks how misalignment creates disconnection and how real connection begins with self-trust. You’ll also learn how to apply the Connection Compass—a practical framework to help you stay aligned, grounded, and emotionally present even under pressure.  

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And if that framework sparked something in you—if you're thinking, “This is exactly what I need, but I’m not sure I’ll remember it in the moment…”—I’ve got something for you.

I created a free Connection Compass Guide inside The Ignition Room on Substack.

It’s packed with:

  • Real-life language to use when you’re triggered
  • Journaling prompts to unpack your reactions
  • A printable one-sheet to keep visible—on your desk, fridge, or even in your wallet

If you want to train your nervous system to respond, not just react—

👉 you can grab it now at theignitedlife.net).

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