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Mattering in Love: Stop Settling—Choose Love That Sees You (Part 1) EP 576

2025/2/21
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Passion Struck with John R. Miles

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John R. Miles: 我在节目中探讨了爱情中重要性的概念,以及你如何看待自己的价值观会直接影响你所吸引和接受的关系。很多人停留在让他们感觉被忽视、被低估和情感枯竭的关系中,不是因为他们不想要爱,而是因为他们不相信自己真的重要。我分享了自己的亲身经历,说明了如何选择伴侣而不是选择自己,以及如何从匮乏心态转向富足心态。我提出了几个关键问题,例如:你是否觉得需要赢得爱,还是相信自己值得被爱?你是否在约会中展现真实的自我,还是在调整自己以取悦他人?你是否爱上了他们的本来面目,还是你希望他们成为的样子?我强调了在爱情中,一致性比努力更重要,真正的爱情会让你感觉被重视、安全和被选择。 Tasha Urich: 当我们根据真正重要的事情行事时,我们会更加投入、更有创造力、更充实,并且能够更好地为他人服务。这同样适用于爱情。 Vanessa Bennett: 我不会再和任何不在同一页的人约会了,我宁愿单身。在一段关系中,重要的是情感安全、沟通和自我意识,而不是化学反应和吸引力。 John Kim: 人们在约会中犯的最大错误是试图被喜欢而不是被了解。在一段关系中,要展现真实的自我,而不是为了取悦他人而改变自己。 Marisa Franco: 人们陷入爱情的陷阱之一是爱上潜力,而不是现实。他们忽视危险信号,因为他们相信对方会改变。他们为不一致找借口,因为美好的时刻感觉如此美妙。他们留下来,是因为他们害怕没有浪漫的爱情意味着什么。当人们相信潜力而不是现实时,他们会忽略关键的迹象。最好的考验不是他们在容易的时候出现多少,而是在不方便的时候他们出现多少。

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What if the missing piece in your love life isn’t about finding the right person—but about how you see yourself?

In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles explores the concept of mattering in love—why the way you perceive your own worth directly impacts the relationships you attract and accept.

Too many people stay in relationships that leave them feeling unseen, undervalued, and emotionally drained—not because they don’t want love, but because they don’t believe they truly matter.

Download the Leave Behind in the full show notes at: https://passionstruck.com/mattering-in-love/)

John breaks down:✅ How your self-worth dictates your relationship choices✅ The danger of chasing validation instead of genuine connection✅ Why so many people mistake attachment for love✅ How to stop settling and start building relationships where you feel chosen, valued, and seen

If you’ve ever felt like you had to earn someone’s affection, if you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or if love has felt more like a struggle than a source of joy, this episode will change your perspective.

💡 Mattering in love starts with you—and when you believe you matter, the way you experience love will never be the same.

Tune in now and start making the shift toward love that truly fulfills you.

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