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795. Q&AF: Overcoming Rejection And Jealousy, Becoming Decisive & Keeping Yourself Happy And Motivated

2024/10/14
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REAL AF with Andy Frisella

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REAL AF 播客主持人,专注于讨论和分析时事新闻和政治事件。
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Andy: 面对曾经为之付出努力的公司如今取得巨大成功,而自己却因选择成为全职妈妈而被忽视的现实,应该保持理性。过去所做的贡献不代表未来的成功,公司的发展与个人的选择无关。要理解每个选择都有两面性,公司在你不参与的情况下继续前进,这很正常。不要嫉妒或怨恨,要认识到自己曾经参与过一些特别的事情,并珍惜这段经历。 Andy: 要认识到,并非所有机会都那么特别,要珍惜那些能投入时间、精力和技能的项目。如果在当前的工作中感到倦怠,需要反思是暂时疲惫还是需要改变。很多地方并不重视员工的成长和职业发展,要珍惜那些能让你参与创造和建设的地方。离开前应该做好沟通,避免桥梁断裂。 Andy: 要现实地看待自己的选择,离开后公司继续成功并不代表你有权感到嫉妒或怨恨。成功没有保质期,价值取决于持续的贡献。要认识到,大多数公司并不重视员工的过去贡献,一旦生产力下降,价值就会过期。要学会在不烧毁桥梁的情况下,维护人际关系。 Andy: 要勇敢地做出决定,并承担责任。不要因为自己的选择而责怪公司。如果想重回公司,要积极争取,展现自己的价值。如果决定离开,要吸取教训,避免重蹈覆辙。

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A stay-at-home mom who left her company six years ago feels rejected and jealous after her former boss ignores her request to return. Andy advises her to be realistic about her decision and understand that companies move on. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing special work opportunities and not burning bridges.
  • Value expires when contribution stops.
  • Companies are not always loyal.
  • Maintain relationships to avoid burning bridges.
  • Own responsibility for decisions.

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On today's episode, Andy answers your questions on how to overcome the feeling of rejection and jealousy of a successful company after you've left, what's the best way to become more decisive in a positive manner, and how to keep yourself happy and motivated while improving your life and career.