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3 Lessons From One of the Hardest Years of My Life

2022/12/26
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一位专注于领导力和个人成长的著名_motivational speaker_和播客主持人。
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Mel Robbins: 人生总是试图教会你一些东西。在顺境中,它教你什么有效,哪些习惯和人让你感觉良好,以及成功的生活是什么样的。在逆境中,它则揭示你生活中哪些方面出了问题,试图唤醒你。 我的2023年非常艰难,我经历了背叛、孤独、倦怠等等。我意识到,生活中的摩擦正是人生试图用大锤敲醒你的地方。它迫使你关注生活中那些让你感到痛苦和挣扎的地方。 通过反思,我找到了很多让我痛苦的事情:独自生活,远离家人,工作压力巨大,人际关系的背叛等等。这些摩擦点都指向了生活中需要改变的地方。 不要执迷不悟,要从这些摩擦中吸取教训,调整你的生活方式,与让你感到快乐和充实的人和事相处。 Mel Robbins: 你的借口都是胡说八道,都是源于恐惧。我们常常用各种借口来逃避改变,害怕尝试,害怕失败,害怕太晚,害怕失望等等。 我曾经也害怕开始播客,害怕自己太晚,害怕做得不好,害怕没有观众。但事实证明,这些都是恐惧在作祟。 如果你也有想做的事情,却迟迟没有行动,请扪心自问,是什么阻碍了你?答案只有一个:你的恐惧。克服恐惧,迈出第一步,你就会发现,你比自己想象的更强大。 不要再让恐惧控制你,不要再为自己的借口找理由。行动起来,你就能改变一切。 Mel Robbins: 改变不容易,但它是可能的,而且值得去做,你也能做到。 改变意味着要直面自己的恐惧和不适,要处理人际关系中的问题,要改变自己的行为习惯。这需要勇气,需要毅力,更需要时间。 我经历了团队重组,处理了背叛,进行了婚姻咨询,这些都不是容易的事情。但我知道,只要我坚持下去,就能看到希望。 不要害怕挑战,不要害怕失败,要相信自己有能力去改变。一步一个脚印,你就能创造一个更美好的生活。 改变的过程虽然艰难,但最终的回报是值得的。当你克服了困难,你将会为自己感到骄傲,你将会收获前所未有的快乐和满足。

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Have you ever had one of those years where life seems to punch you in the face?

 

Where one thing after another knocks you down, over and over, until you start to feel like you are never getting back up.

 

Well, that was this past year for me.

 

People I trusted betrayed me. Plus, I was living 150 miles away from my husband and son, alone in Boston during the week for work. I never saw my friends because I was too busy working. I wasn’t exercising. I wasn’t taking care of myself in general. Honestly, I felt really lonely all the time.

 

And looking back at pictures of myself from that time, it’s easy to see all of that in my face.

 

I think we all know that the greatest lessons in life come from the most challenging things that you face. And while it’s true, it’s not easy when you are in the middle of it.

 

This past year taught me 3 invaluable lessons, and today I’m sharing them with you. 

 

I know you’re going to nod along because you know these lessons are true.

 

I don’t know why they are so damn hard to learn, but my hope is that by sharing what I struggled through and what I learned from, it will save you the headache and heartache that this year put me through.

 

Xo Mel 

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

 

0:24: The gory details from the hardest year of my life

7:02: Lesson #1 from this year

8:30: The journal prompt that gave me a wake up call

11:43: How to identify the friction in your life and a major warning if you don’t pay attention

15:21: Lesson #2 from this year

16:55: How this podcast almost never came to be

22:36: The epiphany our son Oakley had

27:04: If you’re tired of your excuses… try THIS

28:49: Lesson #3 from this year

32:31: The mental health crisis I experienced this year and what it taught me

 

For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast)