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A Toolkit for Families: Practical Wisdom That Makes You Closer to the People You Love

2022/12/22
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The Mel Robbins Podcast

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Mel Robbins: 父母应该以身作则,向孩子展示开放和诚实的态度,并积极倾听孩子的想法和感受。同时,父母也需要为孩子设定合理的界限,确保孩子的安全和健康成长。 Chris Robbins: 父母应该帮助孩子找到自我,而不是试图成为孩子的朋友。父母应该注重与孩子的连接,而不是一味地纠正孩子的错误。 Sawyer Robbins: 从小就应该教导孩子说实话不会受到惩罚,这有助于建立孩子对父母的信任,并鼓励孩子与父母坦诚沟通。 Kendall Robbins: 父母应该真正倾听孩子的声音,理解孩子的情绪和感受,而不是只是听孩子说话。父母应该允许孩子犯错,并帮助孩子从错误中学习。 Oakley Robbins: 父母的支持和理解对孩子非常重要,即使孩子遇到困难,父母也应该给予孩子帮助和鼓励。

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This chapter explores the importance of open communication in families. The Robbins family shares their experiences and strategies for creating a safe space where children feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings, even about sensitive topics like drinking and drugs. The key is creating a non-judgmental environment where honesty is rewarded.
  • Never punish children for telling the truth.
  • Emphasize connection over correction.
  • Listen and internalize what your kids are saying, showing empathy.

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I’ve got a very special invitation for you today.

 

Grab a spot on the couch next to me and my family here in Southern Vermont. 

 

Join our family as our three kids discuss all the parenting mistakes Chris and I made – and the things we did that built trust and brought us all closer.

 

I’m really excited and proud to share this with you, even though there are moments where my kids absolutely school me.

 

They also share wisdom and insights that are so profound, you’ll hear Chris break down and cry.

 

This really isn’t a conversation about parenting at all. It’s about how you create a close and meaningful connection with anyone.

 

So whether you’re wondering how to get closer to your family or your friends, everything we discuss applies to all relationships.

 

This episode goes deep – we cover drinking, drugs, addiction, and what to do when teenagers stop talking to you or someone you love is dating someone that you don’t like.

 

And, since so many of you have written in asking about my approach to parenting after hearing our kids on various episodes of this podcast, I’m also sharing our parenting philosophy.

 

My family is getting real and raw in this discussion, and we’re inviting you to be a part. So join us. I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this episode, and one thing you might want to consider is listening to it with your family. I guarantee you, it will spark very interesting discussions.

 

Xo Mel 

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

 

0:32: Why I recorded today’s episode

3:25: Meet the Robbins family

6:02: You keep asking: How are my kids so open with me?

7:30: A frank discussion on drinking

12:33: Why people don’t listen to you

14:10: What Chris and I think the whole point of parenting really is

18:27: Let’s talk about addiction, including groundbreaking new research from Mt. Sinai

25:15: Our #1 piece of advice that will keep people honest with you

30:55: What we mean when we say people in your life are “lie detectors”

33:07: Why showing your feelings to loved ones is so powerful

36:58: How to build connection with anyone

40:52: When you keep repeating patterns you wish you could break

44:44: Why you need to let kids be themselves

50:52: Why you shouldn’t let people bounce from uncomfortable situations

52:39: “I don’t like who my kid is dating” – advice that applies for any relationship

1:01:52: Our #1 piece of advice for you

 

For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast)