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我迫不及待想在我们的现场演出中看到你们穿着这些！！ 我们的邮政信箱！！ Two Hot Takes. 5042 Wilshire BLVD. #470. 洛杉矶, CA 90036 Patreon上的额外内容: https://www.patreon.com/TwoHotTakes 我们的SubReddit提交你的故事！！！ https://reddit.app.link/twohottakes YouTube上的完整视频集: https://www.youtube.com/c/TwoHotTakes

NextEvo: 优惠码: THT 在 NextEvo.com Lume: LumeDeodorant.com 优惠码: THT Talkspace: Talkspace.com/THT Caden Lane: CadenLane.com/THT 优惠码: THT </context> <raw_text>0 就像，我只是觉得，是的，他在我拒绝他的时候对我非常粗鲁和厌女。这值得告诉你的姐妹。是的。好吧，事实是他显然仍然怀有这些情感。我的意思是，那些群聊是最近的。对。就像他仍然……而且她不知道这一切发生在她面前，但我认为她绝对应该告诉她的姐妹。绝对。我觉得这很难，因为，

我姐姐很幸福。她恋爱了，但她也不知道她嫁给了谁。确实。就像这个家伙能够表现出疯狂、可怕、精神病的行为。对。她需要知道。是的。这是你的姐妹。你知道，如果这是一个家庭成员，你知道，整个想法就是，嗯，我不知道。我会让我的家人知道。

如果他们如果我说，你不知道这个人，他们在骗你。所以我会让你知道。我真的觉得我会坐下来开个家庭会议，分享这些截图，并说，嘿，他的一个朋友联系了我。我们都需要知道这些信息。因为我的生活因为这个而被毁了。

我不知道你想如何继续你的婚姻，但就我个人而言，我不想再和他有任何联系。这对我来说是一个界限。而且每个人都需要有这样的信息共享，因为否则我可以看到父母会说，哦，你知道，原谅吧。在故事中发生这种事情的次数让我感到震惊。这真是令人疲惫。你必须在这一点上预期父母会说，嗯……

我们不知道，或者他是个好人，或者他只是受伤。不是的。是的。这太疯狂了。该死。

OP有很多评论，真的很多。人们肯定在谈论起诉。你和你的配偶可以因诽谤而起诉吗？我对这些事情不太了解。老实说，不确定这里的警察是否在乎。所以也许他们不住在美国或其他地方。好吧，这种行为极其像连环杀手，省略号。OP回应说，所以你理解我的恐惧，顶级评论确实有点提到这一点

如果这个家伙找到你的姐妹并和她约会只是为了靠近你，我不会感到震惊。OP确实回应说，我也这样觉得。这让事情变得更糟。我讨厌这其中还有孩子。是的，三个。这真糟糕。我认为这并不会改变她应该采取的任何行动。但这真糟糕。这个情况真糟糕。是的。真的很糟糕。那是个怪物。我认为不幸的是……

我认为姐姐会和他在一起。就像我只是，如果我们想象一下事情的发展，如果他们生活中的其他一切都很完美，我认为她不会让这毁了她的生活。是的。更可怕的是，他可以伪装得如此好，以至于连OP都觉得，哦，是的，我认为一切都很好。然后结果是，不，他一直痴迷到一种程度……

几乎是虚构的。她应该把他从她的生活中剔除。如果这意味着把她的姐妹从她的生活中剔除，我不知道你该怎么办。这是一个无论如何都没有好结果的情况。不。你真的需要为了你自己的安全。是的。哦，是的。这对你来说已经不安全或健康了。对。我们确实对裸照有一些见解，以及OP认为他是如何得到这些照片的。

有人评论说，我只想说，

她没有责任去额外隐藏这些照片。这太疯狂了。尤其是现在，有我在Reddit故事中听说的所有软件。我们遇到过这样的情况，人们发现，哦，我们的朋友在和我们一起制作AI内容。就像，没有……

这不是你的责任。而且对于某些人来说，几乎没有逃脱的可能，直到法律制定出来。这真是不公平。是的。但是，嗯，AI开始看起来如此逼真。我的意思是，即使是深度伪造，这种情况已经发生了好几年，这真是可恶。

现在正在流传，因为我认为泰勒·斯威夫特开始被卷入其中，他们在谈论立法，这太棒了。就像这需要发生，但这不是受害者的责任，他们有点在走那条线，就像，他们在责备受害者吗？是的。但是OP确实回应说，它们在我的iPhone和我丈夫的手机上。

如果他有这些照片，他怎么会没有意识到，哦，她把这些发给我？就像，你知道我的意思吗？啊！对。是的，尤其是那时。但是OP在不久后评论说，哦，天哪，我刚想起一件事。我的姐妹有我的密码。他是IT人员，但也许不是他黑了我的账户或其他复杂的事情。也许她只是给了他密码。是的。我的意思是，如果在他们的iPhone上，那可能……

而且这个家伙懂IT，这可能是他访问的东西。这仍然是对隐私的严重侵犯，我认为这仍然是如此危险和疯狂的行为。

不，这是……是的。我不知道。我不知道该说什么。这太疯狂了。不。这仍然是非常新鲜的。我是说，这才一天。我觉得……我觉得我们会在这个上面得到更新。所以我们都会保持关注。OP还有很多评论。所以如果你想深入了解，我会确保。摩根，发布链接。发布链接。记住。我会尽量发布一个链接，你们可以去阅读。但是我认为OP……

得到了朋友和家人的良好支持，她评论说，他们至少相信她，这很好，然后确实说，我非常受伤和生气，因为他不相信我，但让我们面对现实，如果他是这样的话，我可能也会这样做。那么，等一下，他们回到一起了吗？配偶还没有回到她身边吗？对此没有评论。我希望这只是一天。是的，仅仅一天。我希望这能解决，因为如果只是一天，他现在很生气。

但如果他能，你知道，如果他们能澄清这个情况。我认为是的。我认为这是可以挽救的，尤其是有这么多证据。是的。就像这个家伙坦白。她现在有所有的证据。如果他们真的相爱，我会能够原谅。我会能够说，对不起。我们必须超越这一点。我仍然爱你。所以我认为还有希望。对。我们会关注更新。希望一切顺利。是的。我的意思是，配偶看到那个证据，然后

我不知道如果你是配偶，发现她的姐夫做了这些，你该怎么办。我是说。希望没有什么会让你被控告的。确实，是的。不，我的意思是，他可能会试图杀了他。是的。我是说这是真的。是的，是的，是的。我是说，人们在其他故事中这样做过。是的。所以，是的，我会走法律途径，为你所有的痛苦获得一些赔偿。可怕。可怕。

迈克·蒂里科在这里与一些2024年美国队运动员。你对明天的团队有什么信息？对年轻运动员来说，永远不要忘记你最初开始做这件事的原因。你必须追求你热爱的事情。无论胜负，我总是会面带微笑。

找到你做这件事的乐趣会让你继续做下去。做真实的自己，做你自己，享受乐趣。快乐正在为美国队在奥运会和残奥会期间提供动力。康卡斯特自豪地为明天的团队带来这种灵感。好吧，下一个故事确实需要一点触发警告。如果你对动物受伤敏感，我建议跳过这个故事，因为

嗯，它会在我们变好之前变得更糟。好的。好的。该死。是的。所以这个故事来自AITAH，14小时前。标题是，我不想让我的男朋友靠近我的宠物，因为他的父母告诉我，我是个混蛋吗？

丢弃账户，因为我的男朋友也有Reddit，但他不关注这个线程。以防万一。我，24岁女性，和我的男朋友，23岁男性，交往了两年。我们在动物收容所相遇，当时我在寻找收养我现在的第三只狗。我们对动物的热爱最初将我们吸引在一起。我们谈了几个月才开始约会，我很快就见到了他的父母。

我们并不住在一起，但我们经常互相拜访。我们谈过这个，并同意在采取下一步之前再等一段时间。

那个时间最终来临，当我们决定应该采取下一步时。我去找他的父母谈谈，而他在工作，讨论这个问题。他们似乎对我们终于谈论严肃的事情感到很高兴。一切都进行得很顺利，直到我提到我和几只宠物住在一起，他们会和我一起搬走。我有大约三只狗，两只猫和一只乌龟。就在那时，他们的脸色变了。

他们问我儿子是否知道他们的存在，以及我是否信任他们的儿子和他们在一起。这是个奇怪的问题，但在我回答他们的问题后，他们给我的表情让我更加担忧。妈妈告诉我，他们没有宠物的原因是因为他们的儿子会杀死它们。

他在青少年时期会结束任何他遇到的动物。父亲告诉我，引用，他没有理由这样做。他只是这样做，然后把它们扔掉。我感到恐惧。

我无法理解这一切。他们继续告诉我他们曾经拥有的所有宠物。他们说他在17岁时停止了，他们认为他已经长大了。我只是感谢他们让我知道，然后离开了。我仍然爱这个人，但现在我不知道该怎么想。我推迟了我们一起搬家的计划，借口是我的租约快到期了，我想等到那时再说。

他问我能否过来，我拒绝了，而在我让他进来的时候，我请朋友看着我的宠物。他问过他们，表示他想念他们。他带来了食物和新玩具给他们，这让我感到不想让他靠近他们而感到内疚。当他来拜访时，我找不到保姆看着他们，我会密切关注他，并主动避开我的宠物。

自从他的父母告诉我之后，我一直生活在他有一天会杀死他们的想法中。他没有表现出想要伤害他们的迹象。他对他们很好，我的猫甚至在他来时坐在他的腿上。但现在，我不想让他靠近他们。我是个混蛋吗？好的，在我们进入严肃的事情之前，这些父母就像，

哦，所以你有宠物，是吗？你知道，格雷格在青少年时期会杀死我们所有的宠物，但他长大了。他长大了？就像，什么？父母和她谈论这些事情的方式，我想，如果我的孩子在青少年时期，尤其是，我在等他三岁的时候。是的。我想，好吧。在他不知道发生了什么之前，他是个青少年。是的。完全是杰弗里·达默式的杀动物。我想，伙计，我……

他们有没有让他接受治疗？他们做过什么吗？这感觉就像他们只是接受了这件事。他们不断换新宠物，而他不断杀死它们。他们就像，是的，又来了。这太糟糕了。我感到困惑，但这是我听过的最糟糕的故事。但我只是对父母和他们的处理方式感到困惑。但我可以说，如果我在……

这很难，因为我觉得这很可悲地说，你听说过这件事，尤其是与男性有关。这显然是未来连环杀手的最明显迹象之一。我无法做到。如果你在一个地方试图把你的宠物藏起来，你就不能和那个伴侣在一起。不，这结束了。你完了。我甚至不知道。

我认为我无法沟通和解决这个问题。也许，人们会说我在这方面是错的。没关系。

我必须走。我必须找个借口离开。不，我和你完全一样。我认为你无法继续前进。而且，我的意思是，你看到我锁上工作室的门，就像，我在安全方面有点偏执，但他甚至带食物过来，我想，好吧，那食物已经被下毒了吗？就像，是否有……

恶意的意图，比如玩具是像那种玩具一样被涂抹了什么，无论他现在可能有多好的意图，在我脑海的后面，也许在OP的脑海中，你甚至不能假设这是一种好的意图，因为你了解到的信息。

而且，直到17岁。好吧。是什么？17岁和364天。是在18岁之前吗？他只是想不被当作成年人起诉。这就是他停止的原因，还是他搬出去变得更狡猾了。是的。他在动物收容所。我知道。他在那里干什么？等等，这个翻转太疯狂了。这很奇怪。你不会从杀动物到去动物收容所。就像，

他为什么在那？是的。不，尤其是这并不遥远，因为他仍然年轻。是的。他们二十出头。二十出头。所以这只是，你知道，他们说，哦，当他17岁时，就像，不，六年前，他停止了这种行为。我想，这太近了，太近了。他们已经交往两年了。是的。所以他距离这种行为只有几年。我，

不，我出局。我完全出局。是的。除非父母完全在撒谎。

但那也会很可怕和奇怪。我可能会因为这个而出局。即使即使那不是他的错，如果他的父母只是编造了一个疯狂的谎言，但我仍然会感到害怕并离开那里。是的，这真的很奇怪。我对父母感到困惑，他们为什么不让他接受治疗。但OP确实有一些评论，还有一点额外的信息。

他说他的父母在他年轻时确实惩罚了他很多。引用，我当时做了很多愚蠢的事情，他们会打我。他说。就我所知，他从未接受过治疗。他告诉我他曾经有几只宠物，但它们死了。我不太记得他告诉我它们是怎么死的。他看起来很伤心，不想推动这个话题。他对我的宠物很好，并且会经常要求见它们。有时他只是要求过来玩我的狗。

他说他在18岁时开始在动物收容所做志愿者，并且一直持续到现在。他在19岁时搬出去，并不常拜访他的父母或与他们交谈。伙计，这个转变太疯狂了。我真的很害怕。我也不信任它。哦，天哪。这真糟糕。是的。这真糟糕。

你会指责他吗，还是为了你自己的安全，直接分手？哦，如果我在她的位置上，尤其是如果我要指责他，我需要一群大约10个男人在我身后。我需要，我想我们必须有一个，我会有，因为我完全准备好了。如果这是真的，那么你是。我不知道你能做什么，我不知道你的反应会是什么。是的，我不会责怪她只是离开那里而不。

是的。你必须。哦，很多，那些也是评论。OP现在就跑。哦，我的天。是的。你必须，就像，我要换个角度来看这个。如果他的父母有自恋倾向，他们编造这个故事来让他们的儿子留在家里。那就是我说的。但即使是这样，即使是这样，我仍然会感到困惑，我会说，我得离开这里。你知道吗？因为如果是这样，我为儿子感到难过。

但我不知道。我不知道。对我来说，这是一个相当疯狂的假设。我不是说这不可能是真的。是的。但奇怪。是的。好吧，OP确实回复说，他在19岁时搬出去。他已经多年没有和他们住在一起了。所以我不知道。就像，这似乎没有合理的理由。是的。然后就像，这并不太合理。对我来说不太可信。

任何事情都是可能的。是的。但这不是我脑海中跳出的想法。还有很多父母会告诉人们这样的事情，但他们也会淡化这样的行为。就像，是的，你知道，我以前做过这些事情。但他们警告她的事实很奇怪。这听起来就像一部恐怖电影的开头。我同意。截止到11小时前，OP还没有和他对峙。

所以我们看看这会如何发展。但顶级评论，不是混蛋。到底是什么？你没有过度反应。如果他自己的父母告诉你他曾经伤害动物，那是一个巨大的红旗。我明白。他在你的宠物周围表现得很好。但你真的能冒这个险吗？他在动物收容所做什么？找新受害者？不，不行。父母告诉你他的过去真是个福音。所以他在动物收容所工作，但他没有自己的宠物。我不喜欢这样。

是的，OP确实对此进行了评论。基本上，他只是想回馈并帮助，因为他非常热爱动物。所以这对他来说是双赢。这很可疑。是的。这绝对可疑。不，这听起来像是反基督。太方便了。该死。哦，天哪。这真糟糕。这也很近。是的。伙计。是的。

你真的找到了那些毁灭性的故事。我知道。好吧，所以我觉得……我甚至没有介绍我们今天的主题。我们的主题是你听过的最糟糕的故事。我知道。创伤性的肖恩。这是今天的主题。它有点像……

到底发生了什么？是的。你是什么意思？就像，你的意思是什么？而且，我不得不读它，所以现在你必须和我一起分享痛苦。对。所以有点那样，但我们将在下一个故事中轻松一点。不，没关系。我可以应对。会变得

更好。我可以应对。暂时我只是有点震惊。我知道。不，我在那件事上最后要说的是，我好奇你的看法。我说了很多，年龄在25岁以下，如果某人在一段关系中，

尤其是这种程度的事情，但即使是更小的事情。如果你在25岁以下而且在你所处的关系中不快乐，我就像，快点离开。就去吧。你年轻。体验其他关系。这是我的心态。

你知道，就像我一样。如果你没有孩子就不要结婚。就像我的意思是，即使你结婚了，但尤其是当你23岁时。是的。尤其是坦率地说，像女性和25岁以下的男性约会。我就像，他还不知道自己是谁。所以你不知道你真正约会的是谁。所以如果你不快乐，尤其是如果他们表现出任何危险行为，快点离开。是的，这根本不值得。

我会结束，但我完全同意。我认为很多人给自己施加了不必要的压力，去达到这些里程碑。我在25岁时找到了我的人。两年后我们订婚。27岁结婚。30岁生孩子。不要给自己施加这种压力。不。不要给自己施加这种压力。每个人都有自己的节奏。你把这当作一个教训。你躲过了最大的子弹。哦，我的天。就像，你……

会因此变得更好，你会在未来拥有内心的平静。因为如果你和这个人呆在一起，你会不断地睁一只眼，回头看，这不是生活的方式。是的。如果父母值得相信，那是一个真实的故事，她很有可能会醒来，听到关于他杀死某人的故事。是的。就像，老实说。是的。是的。

我的意思是，他们谈论动物时，伤害动物就像是连环杀手的入门。就像，如果你的脑袋里一切正常，你就不会伤害无辜的东西。就像这里有些东西。对。

最糟糕的是什么？今天是这个吗？还是说最突出的是什么？对动物的暴力总是让人震惊。对不起，大家。不，不。我在这里。就像我可以承受听这些故事和谈论它们。你可以坚持。你可以应对。只是我只是想说

当我读到一个人时，我就像在我的坏人评分上，你有多糟糕？哦，是的。这是上面的。它超出了像，你是个混蛋。就像，哦，你是个可怕的可怕的怪物。是的。但我希望父母在撒谎。

我希望如此。希望一切顺利。我是说，总是有机会。总是有机会。你读过椰子故事吗？椰子故事？哦，我的天，肖恩。伙计，你真的让我觉得自己是个业余爱好者。你读过屎刀吗？当然，我读过屎刀。好的。当然，我读过屎刀。所有在听的人都在尖叫着，不要再读椰子故事了。椰子故事。是的。也许我听过，但我不认为我读过椰子故事。你绝对

一定会记得它。是旧的吗，还是新的？它在Reddit名人堂中。很有趣。是的。嗯。我让你思考一下。好的。好的。好吧，我知道我在这之后要做什么。每个人都在尖叫，不。不能那么糟糕。它涉及到蛆，所以。哦。这可能真的很糟糕。好的。但它不是叫蛆故事。它叫椰子故事。很好。好的。

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我女儿之前也曾这样表现，当他以不同于预期的方式发展他的职业时，但我不想建议我的女婿继续他的职业，可能只是为了让它这次变成现实。他想要建议，而现在我也需要建议。好的。

不要生我的气。好的。但我知道今天我要上这个节目，所以我确实查看了你们的subreddit。你看到这个了吗？我看到了这个。很好。好的。你准备好了。所以我也准备好了。好的。这个对我来说很有趣，因为我爸爸和我祖父都在空军。好的。所以我爸爸飞F-16。好笑的是……在我们面前炫耀。哦，是的。是的，我根本不知道怎么飞，但他们会。好的。

这对我来说很有趣，因为我很确定……

我的意思是，他已经是测试飞行员了。是的。安全性在这里会有什么不同？我实际上很确定宇航员并不是每天都去太空。没有。但测试飞行员可能飞得更频繁。是的。这也是那种事情，你知道你在飞机上比在车里上班或回家时要安全得多。我知道。你没有意识到这一点。你被掉下来的椰子砸中的可能性比被鲨鱼攻击的可能性还要大。好的。

像这样的东西。是的，我很确定。哦，我的天。没有，我完全——但你明白我的意思。外面有奇怪的事情。是的。但我不明白。她一定是在想电影和我们在电影中谈论的所有事情，但我很确定宇航员实际上总体上并不是太危险，但我认为你也有可能成为宇航员却不去太空。是的。这个工作有很多部分。真的有很多。我—

所以我的未婚夫就像，哦，我的天，他对太空太着迷了。他会像，我以为你要说，他是宇航员。不，他想成为。他真的是个宇航员，我讨厌他。哦不，他想成为，但有一个点是他差点进入空军，因为他想成为第一个去火星的人。所以根据我所知道的和这个家伙的年龄，他可能正在争取成为其中之一，

如果他现在进入这个项目，他将朝着火星任务努力。

我想，我是，这太酷了。太酷了。我想相信，这是一个单独的对话。你想相信这是真的？我想相信，我想相信我会看到人们去火星。是的。我从来不想去。我没有这个愿望。不，不。让我留在这里。但我会喜欢在地球上知道有那些人在那里。这太酷了。我想把火星改造成一个适合居住的地方。我们来吧。我们去吧。你知道的，我们在那儿喝星巴克。但，我，我不，

我对它是否会很快发生持怀疑态度。就像，我不认为这个家伙能争取到这个机会。这很有趣，因为他们正在尝试……他们现在正在计划任务以建立月球基地。太酷了。月球将成为火星任务的中心。所以我认为他们预测……太酷了，伙计。我觉得我听说过四年。我非常像……

就地球而言，我想要更少的人类的东西。是的。更少的技术。我想要更多的森林和一切。但当我们谈论月球时，我想，把它变成一个完整的基地。我会把它覆盖。你至少会去月球吗？

我在我们的播客中说过，我会去太空，如果我可以去一小会儿。是的。我不想去太久，但我觉得这是一个巨大的承诺。如果你去月球，你必须在那里待一段时间，你知道吗？是的。我不在乎。你认为我们真的去过月球吗？

哦，是的。好的。是的。只是看看你对此的看法。不，我在你的播客上已经表明我不相信月球是真的，地球是平的，但也是空心的。不。是的，我们去过那里。好的。巴兹·奥尔德林在这里打人，谁说他没有去过。我认为他在那里。他在那里。他在那里。好的。是的，显然SpaceX将在2024年去火星。什么？

我们要去火星。今年。好的。我希望我被证明是错的。但让我们看看载人任务何时开始。是的。最早在2030年代。

好的。所以等一下，SpaceX是要再送一个无人机过去吗？是的，他们试图发送，我认为，补给。酷。更多的土壤样本，所有这些东西。我不知道。就像，再次，这有点像你的观点，测试飞行员的工作可能比这些经过严格准备的太空任务更具风险，因为，我的意思是，在挑战者事故之后，像老师和普通人被杀的那样。我不认为NASA，因为资金问题，他们不能承受糟糕的事故和糟糕的公关。他们必须把事情搞定。我刚开始在Apple上观看奥斯汀·巴特勒的节目《空中大师》。太好了。是的。太好了。但我开始看它时，我想，故事情节听起来很熟悉。作为来自明尼苏达州杜鲁斯的人，我，

我们有一个专门致力于这位名叫理查德·邦的飞行员的二战博物馆。以他的名字命名了一座桥。大事。他是战斗中击杀人数最多的记录保持者。所以他有40个。他是个王牌，或者说那是什么意思。是的。他最终死于

作为测试飞行员。所以甚至不是在二战期间。他在加州伯班克测试一架新的洛克希德飞机时发生事故而死。所以他在战争中活了下来。二战，可以说是空中游击战的时代，结果却死在加州伯班克测试飞机。是的。所以这就是测试飞行员。是的。

对。没有。是的。那真糟糕。是的。但我想回到火星的事情，一旦人们去那里，我认为那是终身承诺。我不认为你会回来。根据我在互联网上随机阅读的文章，我认为如果有人上火星飞船，

从火星返回的能力是不存在的。像那些，去的第一批人是去那里，他们必须留在那里。那些殖民者。我知道。是的。去他们的。好的。那么，这是一件不同的事情。

是的，我会感到不安。但我觉得那不是她的担忧。是的，你可以在以后解决这个问题。是的。也许他到2030年时已经退休，如果他28岁。你知道，他们退休得很年轻。我不知道。这是个愚蠢的笑话，但他的儿子，飞行员，他是大鸟吗？你得给我解释一下这个。大鸟几乎要上挑战者号，我相信。

哦，我的天。芝麻街的大鸟，对吧？这是一些Smosh内部笑话的传说。哦，我的天。好的，但实际上，我真的很容易上当。我实际上相当确定。我们正在进行研究。我的团队现在正在进行这项研究。关于历史。

它在历史频道上。好的，所以这是真的。它是真的。天哪。是的，大鸟。哦，我的天。我们有一个嘉宾，伊莉丝。哇。伊莉丝来自，她在我们很久以前的《不要笑挑战》系列中有这个笑话，她说，这是一个平行宇宙，大鸟在挑战者号上。这是一个疯狂的笑话。我从来没有说过，让我澄清一下。我从来没有开过挑战者的玩笑，但。

只是为了记录，伙计们。Smosh的伊恩·赫科斯在我们的频道上开过好几个玩笑。他们会怎么做？就像，他们会像……

他能够飞出去，因为他是只鸟。他们会怎么做来保持大鸟的角色在《芝麻街》中的情节？你看过那部其他的Apple节目吗？是什么？早间秀？太空的那个。为了全人类？为了全人类。它在我的列表上。这是一个替代现实。如果俄罗斯首先登上月球。如果俄罗斯首先登上月球，但如果《为了全人类》的某个季节采用了这个前提？大鸟。如果大鸟在挑战者号上，然后他们讲述地球会有多不同？

哇。文化可能会改变。我们设法把一个不太黑暗的故事变得黑暗。我们让它变得糟糕。我们仍然找到了一种方法。我们让它变得可怕。我们仍然找到了一种方法。是的，我觉得他必须去追求它。我觉得无论他在这里做出什么选择，这都是一种两难境地。是的，这很糟糕。这很糟糕，他被置于这样的境地。我希望……

我希望这只是一个虚张声势，但这显然不是一个伟大的虚张声势，她之前显然已经施展过。是的。而且这不是你真的想要去发现的事情。是的。

我明白了。焦虑。没错。就像我的未婚夫想去月球。他的目标是有一天去太空。如果他在活着的时候没能去那里，他希望他的身体被射向太空。好的。这是合理的。更好。就像直接发射过去。显然这是个事情。是的。你可以买它。是的。但我告诉他，我说，如果有外星人发现了你的身体并把你带回来怎么办？

那会太有趣了。就像，你可能会成为某个外星实验室的测试品。哦，我的天。是的。你发现500年后，一个外星人把你带回来并把你埋在俄亥俄州。哦，天哪。你就像，那就是你的遗产。俄亥俄州。抱歉，俄亥俄州的朋友们。听众们。就像，哇。是的。我做了什么？我想，俄亥俄州比威斯康星州更糟糕。是的。可能是威斯康星州。是的。可能是威斯康星州。是的。

加州贝克斯菲尔德。那里有什么？我不知道。或者在下面。我甚至不知道它在哪里。它在某个地方。无关紧要。是的。该死。我们刚惹恼了几个州和城市。这都是开玩笑。你们知道我在开玩笑。但……

热门评论，他已经是测试飞行员了。这是地球上最危险的工作之一。去太空有什么比这更危险的？另一个人说，这也是我在想的。NASA飞行员实际上听起来是一个更安全的工作选择。是的。他们不能失去那些人。不，他们负担不起。他们在他们和他们的训练上投入了太多。对。是的，人们就像……

考虑到测试飞行员继续飞行，而大多数宇航员并没有真正进行太空任务，从统计意义上讲，这确实更真实。然后不知怎么的，特勤局被牵扯进来了，有人说，如果他们是特勤局特工，我会离开我的丈夫。去他的。说真的，特勤局比垃圾工更安全。

正是那些人们没有意识到的平凡事物才是最危险的。垃圾车确实让我感到害怕。我在它们旁边开车时真的很害怕。它们是怪物。疯狂。你能想象被困在里面吗？哦，天哪。我想过这个。哦，然后你看到那些小浣熊被困在里面的视频。垃圾桶。我没见过那些视频。你没见过？哦，我的天。我一度在TikTok上看到了浣熊和狐狸。我不知道怎么回事。这些人四处检查大垃圾箱。

哦，那是那个浣熊，他们打开门，浣熊正抓着门的两边？是的，他们试图出去。是的。哦，我爱它们。它们太可爱了。太甜了。我一直想要一只浣熊。

我想我们读过一个关于浣熊参加婚礼的Reddit故事。我也读过那个。是的。Pebble。Pebble是最棒的。是的。我们将一些人和动物归类为传奇。你知道，他们不是混蛋。他们是传奇。Pebble是传奇。是的。绝对。那是个很好的说法。是的。好的。继续。

下一个来自“我是不是混蛋？”三天前。标题是，我是不是混蛋？在得知我不再为我侄女的第三个生日做蛋糕后，原谅我的嫂子，提前三天通知她。

我，28岁女性，喜欢烘焙，经常为朋友做蛋糕。自从2018年我见到我的岳父岳母以来，我也会为他们做。我的嫂子让我为她女儿的生日做蛋糕，她的生日就在这个周末。她在十月问我，我们详细讨论了她想要的内容。这不是我第一次为她做蛋糕，但这是我作为她正式的嫂子的第一次，我感觉我真的成为了这个家庭的一部分。

三天前，我在购物时遇到了我岳父岳母的一个家庭朋友。这个人我并不太喜欢。她是个坏八卦，似乎在分享关于他人的八卦时带有一些恶意。

我试图对每个人都礼貌，通常不和她说话。但她拦住我，特意问我我和我丈夫什么时候要孩子。然后她提到我作为寄养儿童和私生子的身份，她以一种看似关心的方式提到，但实际上是她的侵扰和残忍。她提到我的岳父岳母和嫂子担心我们的孩子没有人。

我告诉我丈夫，当他下班回家时，我很崩溃。可能看起来很傻，但我觉得他的家人背叛了我对他们的信任，他们做了我要求他们不要做的事情，那就是告诉别人我的历史。这不是我想要向所有认识我的人宣传的事情。我的丈夫质问了他的父母和妹妹，他们说他们只提到给“几位亲密的朋友”。

当我丈夫说这不合适时，他们为此辩护。嫂子说，反正人们最终会知道的。他问她，如果他们从未告诉他们，他们怎么会知道。

我的历史是，我的父母都与他人结婚，并与他们的其他配偶生了孩子，当他们有外遇时。我是结果。在我五岁生日的前一天，我们一起发生了车祸。我的父母和另一辆车上的人都死了。我是唯一的幸存者，

我在医院待了几周。我的父母双方的家人都不想要我，我在寄养家庭长大，直到我一生的其余时间。我从未找到一个家庭。在听到嫂子说了她所说的话，并意识到他们是多么毫无歉意，听到他们对我所做的事情有多么漠不关心后，我问我能否和嫂子谈一会儿，并告诉她，在违背我的意愿并对我造成如此小的关心后，不要指望我给她做蛋糕。

她发疯了，说距离生日派对只有三天，我丈夫支持我，说，那又怎样？她和他们的父母给他的手机发了很多信息，以至于他不得不屏蔽他们。我担心我在这么短的时间内拒绝会有点混蛋。我是混蛋吗？

好吧，我的看法是，不。完全不是。不。这是一个三岁生日派对。就像，是的，你有三天。他们三岁。他们不在乎。去超市。字面上随便扔点东西给三岁的小孩。他们会吃的。他们不在乎。如果好吃，如果甜……

三岁的我，我不记得我三岁时蛋糕是什么样子的。没有。我吃任何东西。我想我从我大约……哦，那个裙子蛋糕？那是最酷的蛋糕。我记得去参加一个生日派对，看到那个。好的，我会记得。那是个酷蛋糕。我确实记得。那甚至不是我的生日。我有点想要那个。我想我今年还想要一次。那真不错。是的，太经典了。但是……

三天的通知已经足够了。是的。呃，显然这对故事并不重要，但，呃，这有帮助。这有帮助。好的。即使是一天，像，是的，你搞砸了，你打破了这个人的信任。他们现在不会为你做任何事情，当你打破他们的信任时，但尤其是，这对我来说不是一件大事，像这样给他们的手机发那么多信息。是的。他们是自私的。他们是自私的人。

而且他们可能感到内疚。或者也许。我不知道。我不知道他们是否只是有点防御和气灯，或者他们真的不在乎。这太疯狂了。我只是，我不知道。这真糟糕。我真的为OP感到难过，因为听起来这绝对是最创伤的童年。

但真正悲伤的是，像，OP已经承担了她来到这个世界的故事，以及你知道，这场事故悲剧，作为，像，这是我必须承受的负担。对，是的。然后这些人却把它武器化对付她，说，好吧，我们担心你们可能会有的任何未来孩子，因为，你知道，你没有任何家人。好的，那么，一，我们有你们，对吧？

那么你在称自己为切碎的肝吗？但还有……

人们经常失去父母。就因为我有这样的开始并不意味着我就不算是一个人。对。像，什么？他们在某种程度上以某种王室法庭的心态运作，像，嗯，你的家族血统，不幸的是，不好。它们……他们在这方面表现得很奇怪，我就像，我有点不在乎谁的家人……我不……当我以任何形式与人见面时，我不会考虑……

他们的父母或他们的家庭。我就像，你是一个个体。我尊重你作为一个个体。说这话真奇怪。我认识的很多人也是。我是说，这听起来很悲伤，但就像，

很多人没有父母，即使他们的父母还活着。所以，很多人有不可靠的家庭。我觉得这几乎比没有家庭更常见。我同意。是的。所以这真是一个奇怪的事情，拿来压制某人。这不是她的身份。她不应该担心人们会如何看待她。

根本不。那真糟糕。这真的很悲伤。因为没有家庭长大已经够困难了，但还要被评判……这是我甚至不知道人们会评判的事情。是的。那真令人震惊。是的。那是一些……

老派的。老实说，比你想象的更令人惊讶和普遍。就像，我妈妈，我有两个兄弟姐妹。哥哥，弟弟。我们都有不同的父亲。长大时，人们会真的因为这个而评判我们。就像，我在小学时真的被叫做私生子。什么？字面上。字面上，就像中世纪时代。就像你来自《权力的游戏》。中世纪时代。是的，那是如此……

你不过是个私生子。字面上。就像，什么鬼？就像，真的很……我会去像孩子家里玩，我记得在三年级时，他们的父母会问我，哦，你的父母在家吗？你的父母在一起吗？不，我的父母不在一起。哦。

哦，好的。什么？我记得就像昨天一样，因为在那个年龄，这太创伤了。太疯狂了。是的，人们真的很评判，像一个私生子出生的婴儿。我认为南方的人们对此仍然有点傻。我想，是的。在美国各地，有不同的地方会以非常不同的方式看待这个。是的，这很傻。这是其中之一。有很多地方，我就像，好的，我理解我的经历不同

在洛杉矶待了这么久与某些地方的不同，因为我觉得在这里你不会因为这个而受到评判。没有。根本没有。因为事实上，我觉得我认识的大多数人，我觉得疯狂的是，当有人说，我的父母仍然在一起时。你会像，什么？哇。哇。是的。太疯狂了。我知道。这真是疯狂。

这条评论的热门评论。不是混蛋。他们在你面前把你当作家人，愿意让你为他们烘焙蛋糕，但他们却无法不向他人分享你的个人背景，在明确要求不这样做之后。这是对信任的巨大侵犯，我很高兴听到你的丈夫支持你并与他的家人设定了界限。我也很抱歉听到你正在经历这一切。这一定是令人心碎的。

这有多令人耳目一新？丈夫。丈夫。太好了。当你经常阅读这些时，你开始为它永远不会发生做好准备。是的。因为是什么？十次中有九次，他们不会。哦，我的天。他们站在岳父岳母那边，说，你反应过度。丈夫从来没有支持他们。我觉得父母很少支持他们。兄弟姐妹的次数。我会说，兄弟姐妹是最有可能的。他们是50-50。也许75-25。但这可能是所有人中最好的比例，对吧？我同意。

太悲伤了。是的。OP确实回应。是的。我觉得有点像另一个家庭刚刚证明他们根本不在乎我。在经历了整个童年后，再次面对这一切并不容易。可怜的家伙，我知道。至少她有一个伟大的丈夫。是的。这就是下面的评论所说的。家庭是你自己创造的。你的丈夫是个明星，他刚刚证明了他有多关心你。

这很好。是的。如果你要让其中一个人让你失望，她得到了两个中更好的一个。因为如果你的丈夫让你失望，那就像，真该死。是的。OP还有其他一些评论。

显然，他们试图让人们询问更多关于他们告诉谁的具体信息。OP说，他们与一小群朋友分享了所有这些，这大约有10个人。他们有时会举办这些晚宴。我丈夫从来不喜欢他们，所以我们从未去过。但在其中一次晚宴上，他们告诉了他们，这让我无法想象。

分享这个，怎么会提到，怎么会找到上下文来使其相关，这太多了，告诉是的，这不是像你可以意外地说出的小信息，而是一个完整的故事。是的。

好吧，我认为这里有人评论说，那个八卦的朋友说的方式听起来像他们认为这是一种八卦。引用，你知道，她是个寄养孩子。就像他们知道了一些他们迫不及待想分享的事情。他们不在乎。OP说，对我来说是私生子的部分。我小时候经常被提到。太疯狂了。

这太疯狂了。是的。人们经常出轨。就像，糟糕吗？是的。出轨错吗？是的。是孩子的错吗？不。就像……对。我对这个有点困惑。我也很困惑。这听起来……就像我说的，这听起来像是我正在阅读的某种虚构的幻想世界。是的。好吧，还有人甚至问，究竟这和你有自己的孩子有什么关系？我完全不理解。

我不明白这一切从何而来。没有。OP回应说，暗示是我的孩子将承受作为私生子的负担，他们将不知道他们家族的一整面，因此这将使他们的生活变得糟糕。我将把孩子带入这个世界，他们将像我一样被仇恨，仅仅因为他们的出生，成为我。正如我们之前讨论的，我确实认为像，

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I just think there's a lot of stuff on the tier list of what kids are going to go for before they care about your lineage. Yeah, I mean, there's people out there like Robert De Niro still having kids. Scorsese's having kids. And his daughter, I think there's what, like 60 years between him and the daughter he's making TikToks with. And she is very beloved on social media. So like embrace it. It's just a part of your story. Yeah, I don't think, no.

She's fine. Yeah. She and her husband are fine. Yeah. I like how he was so supportive. Honestly, good. And good. Like these friends were not friends. No. You found the true colors of that group. And now you know. Now you can avoid it. That's often my thought with those types of stories. Like you didn't lose a friend. You found out they weren't your friend. Exactly. Okay. Moving along. Would you ever let someone use your home for a home birth?

Oh, wow. You know? Maybe you have a pool in your backyard and they wanted a pool berth? You know, I don't have a pool. Do you have a bathtub? My bathtub's not great. I think I would... I think my reaction would be similar to this. I'd be like, oh, yeah. Oh, gosh. You know, I think they're doing...

I think I'm having some maintenance done and I can't remember exactly. When's your home birth going to be? There's asbestos in my walls. Yeah. There's some lead paint. Oh, gosh. I, you know. Neighbor cooks meth. It's just not. Yeah. You know, my neighbor, he's Heisenberg. My husband, he's

He wants to be an astronaut. I'm trying to make that not happen, but he also murders our pets. There's a lot going on right now. Yeah, you don't want to get involved. Yeah, so I'd say no, not right now. Yeah. So this is coming from AITAH one day ago. Am I the asshole for not letting my sister use my house for her home birth?

My younger sister is currently four months pregnant and has always been scared of hospitals. I knew this wouldn't be easy for her, but she's decided to forego the hospital altogether and wants a home birth. The only issue is she and her significant other live in a thin-walled apartment, so for obvious reasons, she can't do it there without someone thinking something's wrong.

Here's where the issue comes up. I have a house, a shitty small one bedroom, but a house. She wants to have the baby there so she can have a home birth somewhere familiar and safe. There's a few issues I have with that. For one, I have a one bedroom, so she'd either be giving birth in my bed or on my couch, neither of which I look forward to cleaning up, not to mention there's the risk of something going wrong and not to sound insensitive, but I don't want to be found liable for anything.

I called to explain all of that to her, and she guilt-tripped me, calling me a bad sister, saying I was being selfish. I reminded her that she should probably just go to the hospital like a normal person, or if she didn't like the idea of that, she was welcome to call off the pregnancy since there's still time. Okay. Now she's been shaming me to everyone in the family, and I have relatives on my back saying I should just let her have the baby here.

That took a turn. That one comment. I was not expecting. There we go. There we go with what I said of like, you're not the asshole. Okay, you're an asshole for saying that. Like, that was weird. Yeah. That's a wild one to say. That's strange.

Also, four months. Four months, yeah. That's a little far. You just get rid of that. What the fuck? That's crazy. She's not... But going back, she's not the asshole for saying no. No, it's her house. One bedroom house. I've never heard of that. Yeah. Huh. It's a small setup. That sounds cool. Maybe 800 square feet. That's tight quarters. In LA, that's probably like... Still a million. Two million dollars. Yeah. Yeah.

No, that's completely fair. It's your home. And, you know, that's that's fair for her to want to do that. Yeah. You know, that's that's within your own parameters of how you get it done.

I don't know anything about the science or medical stuff behind births or home births. So I can't speak to the safety or all of the ramifications and things. That's probably why I would also say no is because I'm just like, I am so uneducated on this. Yeah. I don't feel comfortable saying,

having it in my space. I would be the same way. I would assume it is dangerous. Maybe I'm wrong. I don't know. I mean, it depends. Is it truly an unassisted home birth? She's just showing up, no team, no doula, no midwife. That's true. There's a bunch of other people that could be involved in this. If you have a well-educated

or midwife, they would be able to recognize signs of distress and then hopefully be able to call like an ambulance. And then you go to the hospital. And then you go to a hospital. But like maybe she's doing this because of costs and it's cheaper, but there are places where you can give birth that don't resemble a hospital. Right. Because she said she's scared of hospitals. Yeah. Which understandable. Like they're scary sometimes. Totally. Oh, for sure. You know, pass with them. Yeah. Yeah.

But to just show up at your sister's place. To pressure your sister and to make her feel guilty for that. It's just... Yeah. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. These types of stories sometimes are hard for me to relate to because I'm a person who operates on the mindset of like, I can't assume someone's going to do something for me or allow me to just have it just at their place like...

I, I'm, if I like want to do something to that extent, I'm like, okay, how do I do this myself? Um, or with your partner, your problem solver, you'd take it upon yourself versus assume other people. Expecting someone else is going to just solve it for me. Um,

Yeah. I assume there's probably still ways for her to have a home birth somewhere. I would think so. But... Which the top comment does pick up on. There are birthing centers that exist specifically for what she wants. She doesn't need to take over your house, and a center would have connections to the hospital in case it became medically necessary. Yeah. Somehow, I think sister is thinking of ways to give birth for free. That's the next comment. Which... Yeah. Hey. Hey.

It's expensive. No, it's some bullshit. It's crazy. Do you know that if you get a C-section, they charge you for taking the baby and putting the baby on your chest? Yeah, I believe it. They do crazy stuff. They charge you for Band-Aids. It's that whole trend of ask for the itemized receipt. Oh, yeah. And then they suddenly cut a bunch of stuff off because they start to realize how much it looks stupid. Yep, Band-Aid, $500. Yeah. No, it's all a giant scam. Yeah. Oh, God.

God, as someone that was in healthcare, it is by far one of the most frustrating systems. Oh, so annoying. Yeah. So annoying. Yeah, this is interesting. I think she needs to look into alternative methods. I'm really fascinated by home births and like pool births. I actually am very curious about dolphin-assisted births. Sorry, what? Yeah, you can give birth- Dolphin-assisted birth. Yeah, you can give birth with a dolphin.

Yeah. Okay. Yep. Dolphins love pregnant women because they can hear the baby in there. Okay. Yeah. How does the dolphin assist? So there's something about the dolphin's sonar that apparently women report decreased pain. They're getting into it. I don't know how clinical they've gotten, but it is a thing.

Let me see if I can find a picture for you. Look, I don't know what I would even try to argue. I'm so baffled. Yeah. Some people are very, very opposed to it. They think it's a bad idea, probably based off of the one dolphin study that NASA did. But...

Did you hear about that one? No. Oh, yeah. I'm getting so much thrown at me in a row. We're on dolphin births right now. And now we're moving on to dolphins in space. Well, this is so dolphins are extremely smart. Like they have such a crazy brain and like their white matter and all this stuff is just like way more advanced than ours. So they thought we could teach dolphins how to talk.

Or at least communicate with us in cohesive ways. Sure, sure. So there was this one study that NASA did, and they had a couple dolphin trainers work with these dolphins to get them to communicate. And one of the ladies ended up satisfying the dolphin. Okay. So it just, it took a turn. Wait, where was the communication? Like they were talking though? Yeah.

I still don't... Maybe I shouldn't ask any more questions. So they were using devices to facilitate...

Conversation. Conversation. Yeah. Like they strapped a little readers up to the dolphin's head to read brainwaves and all this stuff. But the one dolphin started becoming very sexually frustrated. And so the marine biologist, you know, tech person ended up like jacking off the dolphin. Okay. Yeah. There's a lot on it.

Okay. Yeah. No, I'm not surprised. I know enough about dolphins to not be too surprised by that result. But so the communication... It didn't end up working.

There was no really talking. Oh, okay. They understood them a little more, but no, dolphins did not end up talking. No dolphin words, no. They understood them enough to know that they're disgusting. Turns out they're just as awful as every other dude. Yeah. Wow. Okay. This person, gentle birth method. I gave birth with dolphins.

There's a whole article on it. I'll post it. I'll post it. I guess like if you're going to have birth assisted by any animal, I guess. Sure. Take dolphins. I'm curious. I'm really curious. I'd maybe dabble.

Okay. After that other story you just told me, you're like, yeah, sure. All right. Well, maybe we're separated by a net or something, you know? But the sonar can still get through to me. Okay. All right. Hey. We'll see how it goes. It's a long way off. I respect it. I respect it fully. Oh, man. I'm just scaring the shit out of you today. No, no. I...

My reactions are genuine, but I'm having a great time. Okay, good. You're just thinking about revenge when I come on next week. Right. That's right. Yeah. Okay. No. Yeah. All is fair in Reddit war. I'll cook up some really awful stuff. Okay. Yeah. Okay. One last one from us. We're ending on a little bit lighter of a note. You said that about several of these. Well, you found a way to make it dark. We're ending on a lighter note. So my boyfriend kills...

animals like okay i did say that was gonna get worse oh you did you did say that okay okay okay so this one from the too hot take subreddit it's four days old am i the asshole for calling my husband a dick for thinking our new home is more his than it is mine

My 35 female husband, 37 male, and I have recently moved into a new home, a bigger home, where we're hoping on raising our kids. Five female, three female, two male. Well, I do not currently work. I have a degree to get a job that will pay me well, but my husband and I both decided that I should stop working for a bit to help with the kids. My husband makes a lot, in my opinion and in general, and it's mostly his money paying for the house.

And because of this fact, he has taken a liking to calling our house, quote, his house instead of our house. This has annoyed me a bit, but I've just been going along with it. And every time I bring it up, he goes, yeah, right. I reached my breaking point about two days ago when my husband had his friends over and he made a remark saying, quote, my money did this.

I was very, very upset at the remark, but I waited until his friends left. Then I kind of flipped him off, to which I eventually called him a huge dick for continuing to say his after I told him that I don't like the phrase. He's been sleeping in the guest room since, and we haven't really been talking. I'm asking here to see if I'm the ass for what I said.

No. No, I don't think so. The hell? No. That's crazy. I would be so annoyed because we all know like stay-at-home moms and the cost. Like if you total up like each job a stay-at-home mom does, like a cook, a cleaner, like it surmounts to over six figures. Yeah. Especially nowadays. Yeah. Oh my God. I also think it's just like lonely to think that way. Like this is my house. I'm like, that's sad.

That's sad you're not sharing this space like you're not part of a team that all is together here I don't know. I just think it's like isolating yourself. I

You know, when you, you know, because there's that element of like, oh, he's putting himself above her. But it's still kind of making yourself alone in that way. I don't know. It's, I'm not surprised to come across these types of stories so much. But it's sad. I don't know what you do. I mean, she's not the asshole in this situation, but it's just like, where else is this type of behavior showing up? You know, is this the one thing where he's super selfish and shitty? Or is this...

a microcosm of a bigger thing. Yeah, it would be interesting to see if he's like that in other areas because it does kind of beg the question then, does he respect her sacrifice of staying home and taking on three kids and saving them childcare and all of those things? And she has the ability to go work. She could easily do that and contribute to the house. She's making a sacrifice and I would say arguably has the harder job

than he does of just going to work every day and getting able to check out from kids for eight hours a day. Like,

I don't understand how so many dudes think this way because if you've been around kids of almost any age, under the age of 10, for like an hour, you know of just like that's the hardest job. I could not do that. Love them, but whoo-wee. Yeah, and I mean, yeah, I think kids are awesome. I have nieces and nephew and stuff, but I –

After a day of hanging out with them, I'm like, this is brutal. Yeah. This is so tough. I think I would love being a parent, but I acknowledge that I'm like, it's so exhausting. Yeah. And if you have someone who's taking on that fully, oh my God. You should be showing them that respect and praise as often as you can. Yeah. It's goofy. And it's such a...

It's such a like schematic of something like it's, I have this pet peeve with language a lot where just changing one word just can irritate you so much. And the example I have is with like, say you have a friend, right? And your friend is talking about someone, you know, or you might even be friends with, like, it could be a mutual friend of yours, but instead of saying like, oh yeah, like, you know, our friend, Sarah, they go, yeah, my friend, Sarah. And it's like,

But I'm friends with Sarah, too. And it's so...

I don't know why it even bothers me. Like I'm hearing it now and I'm like, why is that even a thing? But it's just the language where it just feels like you're discrediting like my relationship with Sarah too. Like I want to be included. I want to be in on the fun and the inside joke. And like, I'm here too. Like, what are we? Like I live here, me and your three kids live here. And there's, there's obviously room for like slip ups. And it's been like, Oh, I'm just talking that way. But he's made it abundantly clear that,

Because he's not, it's not just slip ups. He's saying, look at what my money has bought. He fully believes this, buys it,

I don't know. And to be willing to sacrifice your relationship over something of that level, it's like, she's not asking for anything. She's asking for you to just show her respect. That amounts to no nothing for you. It would be so easy for him. The amount of times you read Reddit stories where a dude throws away a relationship for something that is physically nothing.

I'm just always blown away by it. I'm like, it's not that hard. All you have to do is say something different. All you have to do is change your thinking. Just see her point of view. Yeah. That's literally all you have to do. Yeah. Or just even apologize. Like, apologize and then correct the behavior going forward. Bro. Like... I know. I know.

This has been seen by 2.9 million people. Wow. Which that to me, like, it always blows my mind how expansive Reddit can be and how far and wide it reaches. Did that come from your subreddit? Yeah. That's crazy. Your subreddit is nuts, dude. It's popping off. I've come across it a lot over the years. It's popping. It's always so funny because we come across a story. Yeah. I'll be looking at it like, this one's awesome. I'll be like, oh, it's too hot takes. You can use it. No, no. You can use it. Other people do.

Really? Yeah. There's other podcasts that use the stories. Some of them don't give credit. Well, if we ever do, we obviously... I know. You're good people. I feel like you have to shout out the subreddit no matter what it is. I agree. Because it has different vibes. Well, it has different context too, like Petty Revenge versus AITA. Like you're going to know. Am I the Devil is when it gets real good. Yeah. Oh my God, that one. Am I the Angels? Good too. So comments have now been locked. Thank you to Outtakes moderators. Someone goes...

This reminds me of an old joke about a man who comes home from work to find his kids running wild in the front yard, still in their PJs, covered in mud. He goes into the house, and it's in total disarray. The dog threw up on the floor. The baby is screaming in his playpen with a stinky diaper. Dirty breakfast dishes are still on the table. No dinner cooked. Toys everywhere. Cran marks all over the walls. In the middle of it all is his wife, just laying on the sofa, serenely reading a book. The husband demands, quote, what the hell happened?

The wife says, well, you know how you've been coming home every night, getting pissed and demanding to know what I did all day. Today, I didn't do it. There you go. Mic drop. Yeah.

There is a little bit of an edit from OP. I didn't expect this to blow up, but let me just make some things clear. My husband isn't a narcissist or a financial abuser. The house is one of the only things he actually calls his. Most of our other things or assets he calls ours, even though he's bought most of them. This post is just mainly about the house.

No, we will not be getting a divorce. I love my husband and I know he loves me too, but he can be a bit overconfident. He's a good dad and is determined to give me and my children a nice life. Okay. So don't call it your house then, asshole. Yeah, I don't know. It's also that it's tough. It's this weird mindset of like, well, he bought it. It's like, well, no, you...

You would have that money if you weren't making this sacrifice to raise your children together. So like, I don't think it's like this idea that that's not his money. No. Like if you total up what that child care would cost, if you weren't taking care of him, if you were working a job, it would be more money than most jobs. So I don't know. I think it's.

I disagree with a little bit of that, but I trust her that this is just more like... Sometimes there's dilemmas where I view it as like a sitcom dilemma. Yeah. And I'm like, okay, this isn't a situation where you need to get divorced or you just run. That was a reach. Even for me, which I'm quick to jump to divorce. Yeah. It's just like...

I don't know. It's just like, okay, I could see this dilemma on, you know, everybody loves Raymond or something. Yeah. I wish OP would have given a little bit more context about his upbringing in the edit to just be like, you know, maybe he went through something as a child because then I could see it being more like acceptable, but,

For example, like if he grew up without a lot of money, his single mom didn't have a house, bounced around. Then I could be like, maybe he just has that scarcity mindset with money and is so proud of what he did with his money. My money did this. Maybe it's just such a point of pride for him based on those previous insecurities he dealt with.

then I'd be like, okay, I see the full picture here. I wish, I wish we just had some, some more context. That's always the tough thing with all these stories is I'm like, there could be one sentence missing that changes my whole POV on the whole thing. And obviously it all runs on the premise of like, is this person telling the truth? Yeah. But yeah, there's a million things that could always be added. Um,

And we also don't even know how he sounds as he's saying it, which to me, I'm someone like body language almost matters more than what the actual words are sometimes. So I don't know when it's stuff like this. Who knows? Most of the other stories, though, today, pretty clear. Yeah. At least the the.

the discussion was pretty simple. I wasn't, I'm not too worried about my stances on any of these. You feel like you're in the clear with the people? I think, I think most of them. Okay. And I stay pretty open-minded. A lot of times after we read stories, I read our comments and people point out

ways that I things that I missed or ways I might have been wrong and I'm always very like oh snap I yeah I hear that absolutely my opinion's often different by the time the episode even airs yes my my opinion's different and they'll be like oh Shane was wrong on that I'm like I know I literally agree oh it is so painful to be the one editing because I'll literally edit and be like

Oh my God. How did I miss that? No, no, no. Morgan, stop. Like, I want to add this in. Like, I feel the same way because there's so many different ways to analyze a problem. And like, you could have missed one detail that like totally flips it. And you're just like,

I didn't even pick up on that. I was so focused on this. I totally miss that. Happens every time. It's interesting just sitting here, listening to you tell them as opposed to reading them because I feel like I miss super key details sometimes when I'm reading it. I don't know how, like I just, a sentence as I'm reading it,

I'm not comprehending the importance of it sometimes. I don't know. Yeah. But listening to it, just purely listening to it, I feel like I catch on to a little bit more sometimes. Did you take an ACT or an SAT? Neither. Oh, you're just, yeah. I was an actor kid. Yeah, you just didn't need it. I was doing options for youth.

Just genius. Savant child star. Yeah. Yeah, sure. Sure. No, I basically didn't go to high school. That's crazy. And then I was like, all right, I'll give, I'll do college. You were a kid with a Kugel. Or what are the Kegel? Not a Kegel. Not a Kegel. Kugel. Kegel account. Everyone's dying. Pelvic floor exercise. Yeah. No. I've been doing Kegels for a while. I got a lot of money saved up. How'd your, how'd your Kugel go? It went okay. I didn't actually get, iCarly didn't pay that much. Yeah.

Yeah. No, you're not getting a lot of money from guest stars on Nickelodeon. That's a bummer. Yeah. That's the life of the actor, man. That's a tough gig. I just met another Disney star recently. And like, you would think she basically had her own show. And like,</raw_text>

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我迫不及待想在这些商品上见到你们，特别是在我们的现场演出中！！ 我们的邮政信箱！！ Two Hot Takes. 5042 Wilshire BLVD. #470. 洛杉矶, CA 90036 Patreon上的额外内容: https://www.patreon.com/TwoHotTakes 我们的SubReddit提交你的故事！！！ https://reddit.app.link/twohottakes YouTube上提供完整视频集: https://www.youtube.com/c/TwoHotTakes

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而且，我觉得两者都有。这很有趣，我回想起来有很多次，我会想，我怎么会错过那个？我坐在那里阅读。我觉得有时候我专注于发音。我有时会陷入表演中，像是，我是否清楚地表达了这一切，而不是吸收信息？是的。好吧，你也是盲目进入的。你知道，我不知道。我真的不知道。所以这也是我在想的事情，我无法准备，我是那种需要一点时间的人。

你知道，当我听到一个故事时，如果我能有几分钟来真正处理，我的真实观点通常会在稍后出现。是的。你得筛选一些东西。我喜欢反复思考。所以Reddit的故事对我来说很可怕，因为我第一次听到一个故事。是的。然后我会想，好吧，什么是完美的分层故事？

对这个常常复杂的情况的回应和看法。大多数情况下有很多灰色地带。而且还有很多文化、不同国家、不同地方和不同法律的因素，你会错过，因为我不是某个专家。我真的只是一个普通人。我试图让这一点变得清晰。真有趣的是，我觉得这有点像一个梗

我们的观众谈论我的心理学学士学位，就好像我是一名医生一样，我想说，这真的没什么。我没有知识。我没有资格做任何事情。只是一个在这里的家伙。我有资格在洛杉矶当调酒师。好吧，连这个都不算。但，你知道。嘿。心理学学士学位，好吧。

这就是它能给你的全部。好吧。这是个大事。心理学，这很难。哦，是的，这很有趣。这是一份艰难的工作。是的。

是的。非常感谢你来这里。我觉得你表现得很棒。谢谢。人们会告诉你。我是说，你会知道的。嘿，我们只是在这里。我们只是人类，试图在Reddit的泥潭和所有这些问题中摸索。但谢谢你来这里。人们可以在哪里找到你并收听你的节目？好吧，谢谢。这真是太有趣了。你可以找到我。我在Smosh，Smosh Pit，那里我...

相信你下周会来我们的节目，是的，我将会阅读Reddit的故事。

这会很不错。所有Shayne的链接都会在这一集的描述中。所以一定要去看看。换个方式看他阅读Reddit故事，而不是我。我知道你们很多人喜欢听着入睡，而Shayne的阅读也很好。所以把它加入到你的轮换中。但谢谢你们在这里。再次提醒，我们即将开始巡演。所以确保你们买到票，因为到时候可能会售罄。

在这期节目发布时，商品正在出售，Patreon一如既往地提供精彩内容。但在下次之前，大家，再见。再见。