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131: It's Grandma Time!

2024/11/14
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Chelsea: 讲述了祖母多年来对她进行言语霸凌的经历,包括对她身材和容貌的恶意评论,以及在怀孕期间祖母依然对她进行攻击。她寻求建议,如何让祖母停止这种行为,同时又不破坏家庭关系。 Dan: 建议Chelsea采取两种策略:一是原谅祖母,让她意识到自己无法成为Chelsea,从而化解冲突;二是与祖母进行一场“吐槽大战”,以幽默的方式回击她的攻击,让她意识到自己的言行。 Jake: 指出霸凌者最害怕的是被嘲笑和讽刺,建议Chelsea用幽默的方式应对祖母的言语霸凌。 Dan: 建议Chelsea如果直接对抗祖母,需要得到全家人的支持,否则可能会陷入与老人的无谓争吵。建议Chelsea可以联合家人一起应对祖母的言语霸凌,或者在祖母发表恶意评论时,大家一起大笑,让她意识到自己的言行很可笑。

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Why is Chelsea's grandmother so mean to her?

Chelsea's grandmother is consumed with envy and has always wanted everything that Chelsea is since she was born. This envy manifests as mean comments and bullying behavior.

How did Dan suggest Chelsea handle her mean grandmother?

Dan suggested Chelsea confront her grandmother by saying, 'Rose, I forgive you. Because I understand, Rose. I understand. You can't be me. And it's okay. And I forgive you.' This approach aims to melt her grandmother's heart and potentially improve her behavior.

What was Erin's problem at work?

Erin's problem was that a coworker, while smoking outside the office, would sit or lean on a bike rack in such a way that his pants would fall down, exposing his butt crack to Erin's view from her office window.

How did Gareth suggest Erin handle the butt crack situation?

Gareth suggested Erin send a mole, either someone who smokes or herself pretending to smoke, to approach the coworker and casually mention that his butt is showing. This approach aims to inform the coworker without directly confronting him.

What was the follow-up issue from episode 126?

The follow-up was about a dance class where a woman would often dance with the caller, making her uncomfortable. The caller implemented the knee brace idea to deter the woman, which worked as the woman stopped dancing with her.

How did the caller solve the dance class problem without using the knee brace?

The caller realized she was giving too much attention to the woman, which encouraged the unwanted dancing. She decided to be polite but not overly attentive, which successfully deterred the woman from dancing with her.

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Chelsea from Vermont, 27, shares her experience with her mean grandmother, who has been bullying her since she was 12. The hosts offer advice on how to handle the situation.
  • Grandma Rose is 4'8" and has been bullying Chelsea since she was 12.
  • Chelsea is seven and a half months pregnant and still faces her grandmother's insults.
  • The hosts suggest treating her like a roast comic to confuse her or rallying the family to confront her together.

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Jake and his brother Dan talk to a caller about responding to a bully grandma. Later, Gareth and special guest Vic Michaelis (Dropout's Very Important People) help a caller with a buttcrack situation at work. Finally, Gareth and the Shark follow up with the first caller from episode 126 "Shirt Title Merch Business with Catherine Reitman."

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