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匿名伴侣 1:选择伴侣意味着选择一段人生故事,而这段故事可能并非你所预期的。在有了孩子之后,我的感受被忽视,感觉自己被‘降级’了,变成了家庭中不重要的一部分。长期处于这种失望的情绪中,非常痛苦。这是一种长达二十多年的失望,难以言喻。 匿名伴侣 2:在婚姻中,我常常感到沮丧和无助,会通过哭泣来释放压力。这种负面情绪的产生,部分原因在于我将伴侣视为自己的延伸,以至于在与伴侣的互动中,我常常忽略了伴侣的独立性和个体需求。 Esther Perel:作为一名婚姻治疗师,我可以倾听并帮助夫妻双方进行有效的沟通,因为我与他们没有任何关系。我的角色是帮助他们找到彼此沟通的桥梁,从而解决他们之间存在的问题。在节目的过程中,十对匿名夫妻分享了他们最私密和真实的对话,展现了现代爱情中所面临的各种挑战。 匿名伴侣 1:在婚姻关系中,我们常常会面临各种意想不到的挑战。我的伴侣和我的想法并不总是能够达成一致,这让我感到非常沮丧。我曾经试图向我的伴侣表达我的感受,但是我的努力并没有得到回应。 匿名伴侣 2:在婚姻中,我们常常会面临沟通的障碍。我们彼此之间缺乏有效的沟通,这导致了我们之间许多误解和冲突。我曾经试图向我的伴侣表达我的感受,但是我的努力并没有得到回应。 Esther Perel:在婚姻关系中,有效的沟通至关重要。夫妻双方需要学会倾听彼此的声音,理解彼此的需求,并共同努力解决问题。在节目的过程中,我帮助这些夫妻双方进行有效的沟通,并引导他们找到解决问题的途径。

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When you pick a partner, you pick a story. And often, you will be recruited for a play that you didn't audition for. I told her I didn't know it was going to be like this, that once we had a child, that I would be downgraded. Because it's now all about the kids. What's it like to be someone's disappointment for 20-something years? It's hard.

"Where Should We Begin with Esther Perel" is an Audible Original Series, bringing you into the office of the iconic relationship therapist as she counsels real couples on modern love. You can both tell me all kinds of things and I can listen to each of you. I'm married to none of you. So it's very easy. But you need to reach each other. These 10 anonymous couples have chosen to share their most intimate and unscripted conversations.

I was going in the bathroom and I was burying my face in a towel and biting it and howling and crying, frustrated. Esther helps each couple put words to things they felt but didn't quite know how to say. Sometimes I treat you poorly because I see him as an extension of... Him is not here. You are here. Because I see you as an extension of me. Mm-hmm.

Together, we're going to aim for a different conversation, a different exchange. Okay. How do I do that? I will try to help you. So, where should we begin? Where should we begin with Esther Perel? Coming to Apple Podcasts in October or wherever you listen. You can hear all the episodes right now and even more original content in the channel section of the Audible app. Learn more at audible.com slash Esther or simply download the Audible app.