A 2023 poll from Yahoo News and YouGov found that 43% of women reported increased stress and anxiety during the holidays, compared to 32% of men. This disparity is attributed to women often taking on more responsibilities, such as preparing the house, buying gifts, cooking meals, and ensuring a picture-perfect holiday for everyone.
The five pillars of resilience are belonging, perspective, acceptance, hope, and humor. Belonging emphasizes the importance of having a supportive 'home team.' Perspective involves seeing the big picture and managing perceptions. Acceptance focuses on controlling what’s within one’s power. Hope acts as a motivator, and humor provides a reprieve from stress.
Research shows that swearing, when not directed at others, can improve pain tolerance and help process emotions. A study involving cold water submersion found that participants who used real swear words could withstand pain longer than those who used milder expressions. Swearing allows the body to release emotion, reducing stress.
Solitude helps reduce financial stress by allowing individuals to get off autopilot and reflect on their spending habits and financial narratives. Practices like journaling, meditation, or simply slowing down can re-regulate the nervous system, providing clarity and reducing impulsive financial decisions.
Nature shifts the brain from a mindset of scarcity to sufficiency. Being outdoors, even briefly, helps the nervous system calm down and reduces feelings of competition or lack. This perspective shift can alleviate stress, including financial stress, by fostering a sense of abundance.
Music aids stress recovery by allowing the brain to process emotions. It can motivate, such as during exercise, or enhance focus during deep work. Instrumental soundtracks, like those by Hans Zimmer, can help achieve a state of flow and improve productivity by pairing specific music with tasks.
A Safe Harbor account is part of a 401k plan where employers make mandatory contributions that vest immediately. Employees cannot withdraw or roll over these funds until they leave the company. It ensures fairness across employees of different income levels and encourages retirement savings.
Converting a traditional IRA to a Roth IRA requires paying taxes on the converted amount, as it is considered taxable income. There is no legal way to avoid these taxes unless the IRA has incurred significant losses, which is unlikely. However, having a mix of traditional and Roth assets can provide tax diversification in retirement.
This holiday season has been….stressful. And if it feels like you’re feeling more holiday stress this year than your male partner, you probably are. A 2023 poll from Yahoo News and YouGov found that 43% of women said their level of stress and anxiety increases during the holidays (compared to 32% of men).
Resiliency and stress expert Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe) shares her top tips for entering the New Year with less stress. Because when we’re less stressed we have more space to manage our needs (including our financial needs), and we can start planning for the future.
CHAPTERS:
**00:00 **Why the holidays are so stressful
**06:31 **Redefining resiliency
**9:01 **The five pillars of resilience
**20:31 **A prescription for stress recovery
33:46 Mailbag Question 1: What is a safe harbor account?
**36:01 **Mailbag Question 2: I’m 60 years old. Should I convert my traditional IRA into a Roth IRA?
TAKEAWAYS:
Resilience is often misunderstood. It’s not just about being born with it but building it through lived experiences and relationships.
Stress itself isn’t the enemy. It’s the overexposure to stress (distress) that harms us.
Research suggests that swearing (when not directed at others) can improve pain tolerance.
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