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Ep 455: Let’s Stress Less in 2025

2024/12/25
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Jean Chatzky: 节假日女性的压力水平高于男性,因为女性承担了大部分的准备工作。减轻压力能让人有更多空间去管理自身需求,包括财务需求,并为未来做规划。 Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe: 韧性并非天生,而是可以通过生活经验和人际关系培养。韧性的五个支柱包括归属感、视角、接纳、希望和幽默。压力本身并非坏事,而是压力过大(痛苦)才会对我们造成伤害。独处能帮助我们摆脱自动驾驶模式,获得清晰的思考;与合适的人建立联系可以减轻压力;待在户外能让人感觉充裕,而不是匮乏;音乐可以帮助我们处理情绪;感恩能够激发积极情绪,帮助我们缓解压力;适度地咒骂可以提高疼痛耐受力。 Kelly Haltgren: 她认为自己是韧性的人,因为她认为生活不会随着年龄增长而变得更容易,并且她小时候经常搬家,这让她学会了适应。 Jean Chatzky: 安全港口401(k)计划是为了让公司内不同收入水平的员工都能公平地参与退休计划。在安全港口401(k)计划中,雇主必须进行强制性供款,这些资金会立即归属员工。将传统IRA转换为Roth IRA需要缴纳税款,除非投资出现重大损失。建议在退休前10年内进行Roth供款,以平衡传统资产和Roth资产。

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Why do women experience more holiday stress than men according to a 2023 poll?

A 2023 poll from Yahoo News and YouGov found that 43% of women reported increased stress and anxiety during the holidays, compared to 32% of men. This disparity is attributed to women often taking on more responsibilities, such as preparing the house, buying gifts, cooking meals, and ensuring a picture-perfect holiday for everyone.

What are the five pillars of resilience according to Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe?

The five pillars of resilience are belonging, perspective, acceptance, hope, and humor. Belonging emphasizes the importance of having a supportive 'home team.' Perspective involves seeing the big picture and managing perceptions. Acceptance focuses on controlling what’s within one’s power. Hope acts as a motivator, and humor provides a reprieve from stress.

How does swearing impact stress and pain tolerance according to research?

Research shows that swearing, when not directed at others, can improve pain tolerance and help process emotions. A study involving cold water submersion found that participants who used real swear words could withstand pain longer than those who used milder expressions. Swearing allows the body to release emotion, reducing stress.

What is the role of solitude in reducing financial stress?

Solitude helps reduce financial stress by allowing individuals to get off autopilot and reflect on their spending habits and financial narratives. Practices like journaling, meditation, or simply slowing down can re-regulate the nervous system, providing clarity and reducing impulsive financial decisions.

Why is nature considered a force of recovery for stress?

Nature shifts the brain from a mindset of scarcity to sufficiency. Being outdoors, even briefly, helps the nervous system calm down and reduces feelings of competition or lack. This perspective shift can alleviate stress, including financial stress, by fostering a sense of abundance.

How does music help in stress recovery?

Music aids stress recovery by allowing the brain to process emotions. It can motivate, such as during exercise, or enhance focus during deep work. Instrumental soundtracks, like those by Hans Zimmer, can help achieve a state of flow and improve productivity by pairing specific music with tasks.

What is a Safe Harbor account in a 401k plan?

A Safe Harbor account is part of a 401k plan where employers make mandatory contributions that vest immediately. Employees cannot withdraw or roll over these funds until they leave the company. It ensures fairness across employees of different income levels and encourages retirement savings.

What are the tax implications of converting a traditional IRA to a Roth IRA?

Converting a traditional IRA to a Roth IRA requires paying taxes on the converted amount, as it is considered taxable income. There is no legal way to avoid these taxes unless the IRA has incurred significant losses, which is unlikely. However, having a mix of traditional and Roth assets can provide tax diversification in retirement.

Shownotes Transcript

This holiday season has been….stressful. And if it feels like you’re feeling more holiday stress this year than your male partner, you probably are. A 2023 poll from Yahoo News and YouGov found that 43% of women said their level of stress and anxiety increases during the holidays (compared to 32% of men). 

Resiliency and stress expert Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe) shares her top tips for entering the New Year with less stress. Because when we’re less stressed we have more space to manage our needs (including our financial needs), and we can start planning for the future. 

CHAPTERS:

**00:00 **Why the holidays are so stressful

**06:31 **Redefining resiliency 

**9:01 **The five pillars of resilience

**20:31 **A prescription for stress recovery

33:46 Mailbag Question 1: What is a safe harbor account? 

**36:01 **Mailbag Question 2: I’m 60 years old. Should I convert my traditional IRA into a Roth IRA? 

TAKEAWAYS:

  • Resilience is often misunderstood. It’s not just about being born with it but building it through lived experiences and relationships. 

  • Stress itself isn’t the enemy. It’s the overexposure to stress (distress) that harms us.

  • Research suggests that swearing (when not directed at others) can improve pain tolerance.

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