Attracting Customers To Your Small Business | Part 2: Returning Customers
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I almost would argue that the reoccurring customer is, I don't want to say more important because new customers are the lifeline of your business. I understand that, especially if you're growing. But those reoccurring customers are going to be the people that over time are going to spend a lot of money with you.

hey everyone welcome to the sob marketing podcast where we celebrate the sob that you are and if you haven't figured it out yet we mean small owned business we don't mean sob listen we know that as a small business owner you are working hard on the daily to keep your business fully operational while trying to promote it and while some days it may feel like the business is owning you

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in being able to manage your marketing in-house. That's what we're all about. So Chelsea, what, oh, before we get started, let me remind you guys, there is a TLDL section, Too Long Didn't Listen. If you are on the run because you're a small business owner and you are so, so busy, go ahead and skip to that TLDL section. Chelsea will give you a synopsis of the conversation we have today. And then when you have time, we want you to come back and listen to the full length episode.

episode because you need to get all of that context and all of the conversation. So Chelsea, tell us what is the topic for today? Well, Vivian, before we get started, I told Vivian I was going to call her out on

on here. And so I'm going to keep my word. Move your move your arm a little bit. OK. OK. Do you see the color of our chairs? And then do you see Vivian's shirt? It's like the same yellow. Yellow and yellow. She's blending in. Yeah. I have to tell you something funny since you brought it up. OK. We were traveling back from Alabama recently and there was a

on the side of the road coming out of Atlanta. It was a state farm, shocking insurance. I'm talking about insurance again. It was a state farm insurance billboard and the lady actually was wearing, so their colors are red. She was wearing a red dress. So from afar, as we approached the billboard, it looked like it was just a floating head and

And I was kind of concerned. And then when we got closer, I was like, oh, no, she wore a red dress and they put her against a red background. I don't know why State Farm, if you're listening to this, you might want to tell your agents like for picture day, don't wear anything related to red because, you know, otherwise they're going to look like floating heads on billboards on the side of the interstate. Oh, gosh, that's that's funny that, you know, I

I'm surprised they put that billboard up. Well, I was too, to be honest. I was kind of surprised that somebody in their marketing or advertising department didn't reach out to the agent and say like, hey, can you provide us a different headshot? The only thing I could think is they do these big national buys. And this is a part of a, you know, it's an advantage when you join their teams that they provide.

put these ads out there for you so that you don't have to handle it. So I think someone was just like, hey, let me mark it off my to do list and move on. Yeah. Yeah. That's probably what happened. OK, moving on. Let's let's start the episode. Vivian, today we are talking about we're doing part two. OK. Part two of our series about attracting customers. Today we are focusing on reoccurring or repeat customers.

So like we talked last week, we focused on new customers, how to attract them with the goals, messaging, content, channels, all that stuff is for new customers. Now we're going to do that for returning customers because y'all it's different. If you haven't listened to last week's episode, part one, you could listen to them out of order, but I suggest listening to both of them. Yeah. Do it chronologically. You guys think of it this way. Well,

Well, because listen, you, in order to even get someone to be a reoccurring customer or a repeat customer, you need them to first be a customer, a new customer, right? She proved me wrong. Go listen to the new customer one because the strategies are going to be a tad different. And so new customers...

We're talking about how to get people through that door, how to get people to actually take out their wallet and give you their hard earned money. Yeah. All right. This conversation, it's a little different because at this point they've already given you their hard earned money once. Yeah. Once. Okay. The goal now is like, hey, give me more of it. Okay. Several times. Like not just a second time, but you know, we want you to come back for a third, a fourth, a fifth purchase.

And so that's where the conversations could be a little different. So I do think it's helpful to know how to get them through the door. And then, yes, you can focus on how to get them to come back like 20 gajillion times. That's fair. That's fair. Okay. So I was wrong. Listen to last week's first. Listen to your big sister, Vivian. Oh, my God. That's why I'm the big sister.

You're the big sister because you were born first. That's how that works. Let's move on. Vivian, where do you want to start? Do you want to start with goals? Yeah, let's go ahead and start with goals because I do think that...

When you approach your marketing, understanding your goal is going to be extremely helpful in allowing you to gain perspective on how much time you give the marketing initiative and also the strategies you employ. Absolutely. So your goals, of course, when it comes to returning customers is going to be a little bit different. You're going to focus on building and nurturing the relationship that you've started with the

the customer you're going to focus on retention and loyalty brand loyalty is a big deal for businesses and it can sometimes be very difficult to get someone to be loyal to your brand you know what's a great example of iffy brand loyalty okay what industry toilet paper okay because if you're like me i'm buying whatever toilet paper is on sale i don't care like as long as it's not like

the one ply. Right. Right. Not calling out Angel Soft or anything. Like if it's, if it's the real thing, then I'm not getting that. But besides that, I'm not loyal to a specific brand. Now there are people like Vivian who are very loyal to their brand because she wants the, what is it? All organic. Yeah. The stuff without chemicals in it. Yeah. Which good for you. Only the best for my booty. Yeah.

But that's a great example of, you know, that specific toilet paper company found a way to get brand loyalty in an industry that doesn't really have that.

Yeah, I will say for most people... Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe people are very loyal to their toilet papers, and I'm just... I don't know what I'm talking about. Yeah, so you guys proved Chelsea wrong, right? In the comments below that you're loyal to your toilet paper, tell us which kind you use so we all know how you're treating your booties. Um...

No, but okay. To your point, there are some industries that are, uh, we could say the same thing for toothpaste. All right. So toothpaste, I don't think. And now if you guys have taken a trip to your local Walmart and walk down the toothpaste aisle, more power to you because like there are 20 gajillion different brands of toothpaste. Now, similarly for someone like me, I'm looking for stuff that doesn't have like, um, I think flammable.

fluoride and all that stuff in it so i do look for a very specific brand this i y'all i actually do have brand loyalty when it comes to toothpaste okay but that's because i have sensitive teeth so i use sensodyne okay yeah and so so that is the thing there can be you can carve yourself a um

a way to bring people back through brand loyalty. And I think the biggest part, this all kind of goes hand in hand, right? So Chelsea just said, as a wrap up, you know, your goals are going to be different than when you're attracting a new customer, because once

they have come through the door once they've experienced your small business your product your service now you shift your focus to nurturing yes now you're like what can i do to be able to build that relationship okay just because they bought from you one time does not mean you have a relationship with them okay they've gone on one date with you y'all you gotta you gotta do a little

more. Okay. You got to work a little bit to be sure that they come back for a second date and a third date. And really that's going to be the, um, the loyalty part of it. What experiences with your business can you create to have them think, wow, I really want to do business with them. Like,

you know, moving forward. Even better if you could get them to shun other businesses in your industry to say, no, I will only purchase from this person because I've had such great, you know, experience with them. Yeah. A great example of a way to figure out

What it is you need to do to build that brand loyalty, Vivian, is just to ask for feedback. Yeah. After that first initial interaction, that first purchase, ask for feedback. Because not only will that help you find any of the kinks in your process, but

But it'll also help you better understand what your customers are focusing on when they're going through all of your channels, when they're going through their purchasing journey. You're going to be doing several different things at once too when you do that. So for one, you're able to get the feedback and utilize it to your advantage, like Chelsea said. The other thing is this is a great opportunity for them to be able to start leaving you reviews

whether that be on Google or whether that be on Amazon if you're selling a product on Amazon whatever platform you're using so it is very imperative and it's a good idea to include this in your process and to automate it so that way you're not having to think about this you know at all it's just something that automatically happens when somebody purchases your product and

And this all ties into messaging as well. And the thing that I love the most about messaging when it comes to returning customers, see, I'm a big nerd. And I like all of it. I like when we can get into the nitty gritty stuff, focusing on personalization and using all of the tools you have to give returning customers a very personalized experience and

That's going to make the difference. That's going to make them stick with you. Yeah. If you've been here long enough, if you've heard a few of our other episodes before, you have probably heard me say a time or two that personalization in 2025 is not the same personalization that we've been talking about in like 2014. Okay. It's not high insert name comma. That's happened to me twice now in my life.

Oh, yes. Well, when they forgot to insert name. No, I'm talking about like if they actually put the name. I just wanted to let everyone know, don't do that because I very distinctly remember both of these people. Well, both of these companies. Businesses. I remember you so specifically because you didn't bother to put my name.

I thought you were going to be talking to Bob on the other end. She's like, I remember your name, Bob. You didn't actually fill the field with my name. You kind of put my name

doing? Okay. I'm sorry. Go ahead. So my point being, you know, whereas we used to think personalization meant, uh, customizing an email or customizing a text to include someone's name. So like, hi Vivian, you're receiving this email because X, Y, Z. That's not nowadays. Personalization is basically taking the information and data that you have on people's past purchases or experiences with your business and, uh,

leveraging it moving forward, right. To create the experience they will have with you. So a perfect example of this is let's say that, um, I am going to a spa because Lord knows I need one. Okay. I need to go like I'm past due. Um, I go to a spa and I sign up for their Swedish massage. Okay. And

They now have that information on me. They now have the time length of the massage that I booked, the type of massage that I have, and also maybe the time of the week that I like am coming in. They can utilize that data in however...

you know, they feel is necessary to try to nudge me in the future into making a future purchase. That could look like, let's say I booked it on a Tuesday, right? My appointment was on a Tuesday. That could look like them running a special promotion to send out

out to people that book Monday through Wednesday because they know maybe they can take time off or maybe they're just avoiding the weekend rush. So they could send messaging to me that says, avoid the weekend rush, book your next appointment on a Monday and get this because they already know I'm prone to doing this because I've already done it once before. Absolutely.

Vivian. Yeah. They could go even deeper. And now y'all be a little careful with this. Don't be creepy. Okay. But specifically for your example, it could be that your massage therapist, you and them are talking and you're like, you know what? My shoulders are the big problem. Yes.

If they have any products that are specifically for your shoulders, for dealing with pain there, if they have any specials that's like book an hour massage and get an extra 20 minutes on your back, on your shoulders specifically, like they could go even deeper and focus on those products and services that focus on your shoulders because you told your massage therapist that.

Yeah. And let me, uh, for one, let me tell you something funny. Um, I don't know about you guys. You guys tell me which person you are. Okay. We do a, uh, every year we do a girls weekend at a spa Chateau Elan in Georgia. Vivian does. She doesn't include me. No, this is me and my girlfriends. Okay. That's fine. Um, but so it's very nice. And, um,

We always get a massage or, you know, some of them they'll get pedicures or whatever. I'm a massage girly. So I always want people rubbing my shoulders. All right. So I do that after every appointment they will ask, the masseuse will then ask like, um, or no, maybe this time I did a facial. That's what it was. I did the facial and she was like, afterwards they're trying to pitch you the products. Yep. Okay. My other girlfriend also got a facial. They pitched her the products. Okay.

only one of us walked out with product that day and it was not me because I am pretty strong when it comes to telling someone no, okay? Like I can easily, it doesn't, for me, it doesn't make me embarrassed to tell people no, all right? Like she's, you know, trying to sell me this $40 product and I'm just like, no, I'll pass.

she'll ask me again and she's like what do you use now and i'm like well i really don't use anything but that's okay like i'll pass i'm fine okay my girlfriend came out with it though and i think it's always um it's always interesting because it's either that thing where where you're like oh i just feel bad telling someone like hey i'm gonna pass on this but so you guys tell me which one are you let's use that example though

Okay. You have a client that's come in and gotten a facial. Let's say it is the person that purchased the product. You know, if you have the key here is always going to be what systems are you using to be able to gather this information? How are you, you know, how...

are you collecting the information? Because that's the only way you're going to be able to leverage it and use it later, right? So obviously they have a point of sale system where they go in there, type in what product the person bought. Now it would be,

a good idea that if let's say they buy a two ounce bottle of a product, they know that typically a person will run out within 30 days. Then at day 30, they can send a postcard that says, Hey, have you run out? Do you need to reorder? Here's a QR code, go ahead and scan it. And you can make the purchase online, whatever it is. Leveraging that data is going to be super important just because that is then what is creating the personalization.

Okay. So it's no longer the email that's like, hi Vivian, thanks for your purchase. It is now the, hi Vivian, by the way, since you bought that two ounce bottle of that facial serum, are you out? Because now you're on day 30. If so, we've made it super convenient for you to reorder. Absolutely. And y'all, it doesn't even have to be that like niche. Intense. Thank you. That's a good word for it. It doesn't have to be that intense. A simpler example is if you're a boutique,

Someone comes in and buys jewelry. They sign up for your email list. If you have 50% off your, like, I don't know, dishware, don't send them that email. But if you have 50% off your jewelry, send them that email. Yeah, the idea being, and I think the point you were trying to drive home there is the customized ones.

You explained this wrong. Let me explain it better. Okay, go ahead. You didn't explain it wrong. What I'm saying, though, is in order to drive this home, though, the idea behind customizing stuff is that the person feels like they feel seen. Yes. Right? Like, hey, you noticed what I bought. You now know my interest. And...

It'd be very similar to like, I don't know, if someone is buying baseball cards, you wouldn't send them a postcard to buy basketball cards. Yeah. Right. Because they haven't shown any interest in basketball cards. Now, if if that's your way as a small business owner to see if there's interest there or what population of the people that buy your baseball cards are interested in your basketball cards.

I mean, that's up to you. You can decide if you want to spend your money there, but the personalization part of it is using the information you have on someone to tailor an experience where they feel like, oh, you know, they know because I bought that ring there. They know now I might be interested in necklaces and not dishes because Chelsea does not cook.

Do they even sell dishes at boutiques? I don't know. They do. Some of them have like jewelry and dishes and pillows and, you know, all the things, candles, everything. Okay. Well, let's move on to messaging. We've already kind of talked about messaging at this point too. It's going to be personalized. Ongoing support is important. And this is going to come back to your, you know, you're asking for feedback. You want to make sure that

your customers are having a good experience with you. Because if they're not, then guess what? They're not going to come back. So just making sure, one, you're asking them, how's your experience? But two, if someone is having a bad experience, you need to rectify that.

A great example of this will be Meta. Yes, those little swindlers. If you guys haven't listened to that episode, we did an episode on Meta Verified. We had it for a month just to see what it would be like so we could tell you guys if it's worth the money or not. Ultimately, not worth the money. We didn't even get some of the features we were promised. And I went back and forth with their support team,

basically for the entire month and never got it rectified. So that's a great example of really bad support. I do want to put an asterisk there. We did not expect, um,

The trial of the meta verified was not only for one month. It was not like, Hey, we're only gonna try it one month. And if we don't see movement, that's it. The reason we quit after one month is because they at bare minimum did not even give us the features that quote unquote we paid for. Yeah. And that was, and I wanted to make that distinction because if you guys don't know, um,

We have two YouTube channels. We have the SOB Marketing Podcast YouTube channel, where if you guys are listening to this on audio only, you could go see our pretty ugly faces on the YouTube channel. But we also have the Seasoned Marketer YouTube channel. And when I had posted that video about our experience with MetaVerified, there was a gentleman that said,

hey, you know, maybe giving it more time. And I replied back to him and I said, oh, no, absolutely. We went in with the intention of giving it time to work, but we quit because we're not going to pay $80 a month for something if at bare minimum, they're not even giving us the thing they're telling us they're going to give us the feature. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Like that, that was the whole thing. And the experience that Chelsea had with their support actually made us

like uh quit and cancel our subscription because of the lack of support she got yes and so that's the other lost a returning customer yes yes and so that's the that's

plays into what you just brought up, which is ongoing support is extremely important for the reason that for one, you do want to be the first to be notified. If there's a problem with a transaction, with an experience, you want to be given the opportunity to be able to fix it for them because otherwise you guys know these people are going to be going on these Facebook groups talking about your business. Okay.

Okay, you can have no clue unless, you know, you randomly get on there one day and like put your business name in the search field. Which, I mean, you should also try to do. We do recommend you do that every once in a while. But the point being like, you'd rather have them come complain to you than go complain to the public. Another thing.

form of messaging because you are trying to build a relationship with your recurring customers. This is also when you can have a little bit of fun with it. VIP, behind the scenes, get a little more personal. And as small businesses, please do this because it

you're you, right? Like you're the one person behind your small business. It's easy for you to get personal with your returning customers. Yeah. I'm trying to think of, um, you know, let's say you're not somebody that has a personal brand. So let's say you don't want to be the face of your business. You just want to sell the product or the service. Think of it. Uh, and we've talked about how unhinged this is, but Duolingo, uh,

We've talked about, though, how they... Okay, Wendy's has done the same thing on, like, X, right? Like, they're the funny, like, we're gonna, you know, kind of dog you, but, you know, everyone likes it and they think it's hilarious. You have...

the capability to be able to interject a little bit of brand personality in the communication. And that is the fun part, especially when you start talking about behind the scenes or the VIP stuff, because people do start to have a buy-in.

Right. And that's where the brand loyalty will kick in where they're like, hey, you know, I just have I love this brand for various reasons. And that's why I'm going to continue to buy. Vivian, another form of messaging, I think really important for retaining customers is sharing appreciation. Y'all, why do you think so many businesses send you a birthday email like a happy birthday email? It's because this is what they well, yeah, it works. And that's what they're trying to do. It helps customers.

your business, your brand stay top of mind while also continuing to nurture that relationship. Oh, they remembered my birthday. Vivian, great example of this. Our vet that we take our cats to every year send us a postcard for our cat's birthdays.

Oh, do you guys, how do you guys know your cat's birthday? Oh, I don't. Tim will come home and be like, you know, today's pup's birthday. And I'll be like, oh my God, I need to buy him something. I don't know. Well, how does Tim know when his birthday is? He just made a day? Well, no, I think either the shelter told him or they gave like a guesstimate.

I just think if you haven't seen the cat being birthed, how do you know when the cat's actual birthday is? Because I feel like a vet would be able to tell. The vet can't tell to the date. They can give you like, oh, I think this cat is like, you know, six months old, three months old, but like they can't tell you to the date. What?

Twice a year, I get a postcard that says either happy birthday pup or happy birthday Smokey. Okay? And I love it, too. I'm like, aww, for my cat. Aww. Yeah. I don't get it. Okay, whatever. I mean, it...

Kudos to that vet who, you know, Chelsea really does feel a great sense of pride when she gets those birthday cards for the cast. I once worked with an ad agency where I had to go through and revise all of their work.

because it would be laden with misspellings and wrong information. We were spending thousands of dollars for me to do double the work. Sometimes you don't need an ad agency. You just need resources to be able to figure it out on your own.

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slash S-O-B, all lowercase. Join today and feel confident in your marketing. All right, so I guess can we go ahead and move into strategy? Like maybe what are some strategies that would work really well for boosting reoccurring customers? A great one, Vivian, loyalty programs. So last episode, we talked about referrals, right?

This is kind of the same thing. We're putting the onus on the consumer, except for with loyalty programs, it's more of you're encouraging and rewarding them for sticking with you. A lot of food industries will do this, like a

Buy nine, your tenth is free, stuff like that. The Eclectic Chef in downtown Somerville, they do punch cards. And when you've gotten to the end of your punch card, you get a free entree. They already know Tim. He walks in, they already start making his food because he gets the same thing every single time. And he loves his little punch card. He gets so excited when he gets a free meal. But that's a great example of...

One, customer experience, because they know Tim. They know what he's going to get. They already start making it before he's even ordered so that they can get them in and out real quick. Tim loves that. Right. And then two, the loyalty program helps him be more willing to be like, oh, you know what? Well, if I spend money on this, at least it'll get me closer to.

a free meal yeah yeah it's funny how uh marketing math works right like we talk about girl math it's marketing math y'all you're like yeah let me spend an extra 20 bucks to get five dollars off like yeah uh two things i want to mention for one if you guys have been listening to this episode and you think you hear a rooster in the background

It is not your imagination. Just know my rooster is being really loud for whatever reason. So, yes, you are hearing a rooster very faintly in the background. You're not going bananas. You don't need to call your psychiatrist. And number two, I do think...

Loyalty programs. We actually talked about this in one of our recent SOB community calls. If you guys don't know, Chelsea and I, you can join for $50 a month, which is very reasonable, and join our community every week. We actually hop on an hour-long Zoom call with other small businesses, and we talk shop worldwide.

We talk marketing. So they get to ask questions. We bring some maybe updates, news on, you know, Instagram's latest update, stuff like that. And,

Someone in our community had brought up ideas for reoccurring customers, bringing them back in and also the loyalty program very particularly because they are an apparel company. And so that's what they were talking about. Hey, we we sell online. What is the best mechanism or is there an app that I can use to attach on the back end of Shopify to be able to.

log and track how much somebody is spending and then to be able to send them some type of promotion of like hey because you spent over a hundred dollars two hundred dollars enjoy five dollars ten dollars off and so um if those types of conversations are you know of interest to you i highly recommend that you join our group because that's the kind of stuff we talk about and it was nice because we have um

another community member that has a, um, record store and he was able to share his experience. And so they were able to kind of bounce ideas off of each other and connect in that way. But, um,

Loyalty programs are great. You guys can get very creative with this stuff. And let me tell you something. If you use a POS system, a point of sale system already, most of them have this integrated. Okay. So you could very easily turn it on, you know, and call them perks. Definitely something we recommend that everybody at least consider. Yeah. Another marketing strategy, Vivian. Branding.

Staying on brand. What do I mean by this? Yeah, what do you mean by this? Tell me more. If your consumer, if your customer has a specific experience that they enjoy the first time that they shop with you and then they come back and they have a completely different experience, you're not on brand. You're not giving them the same experience. You're not staying within the type of branding that you tried to create and

And because they came back expecting a specific type of experience and got something else instead, they're probably not going to come back. People love predictability. Don't underestimate that. And what you're doing is you're trying to manage expectations. So,

If you can get to a point where you're like, when people come in, we want them to expect this level of service or we want them to expect this experience from us. And it's our role and responsibility to be able to create that and recreate that every single time. Agree with you. I do think that plays a big part because.

what you're doing is you're throwing somebody off. They go in and they have a great experience with you. They purchase, uh, we were just talking about earlier before we hit record, we were talking about, uh, flower companies, florist. Yeah. Okay, great. I order, uh, we recently, unfortunately one of my best friends, her mother-in-law passed. And so we sent her flowers. Um,

If we were to need it on a specific date and we place the order and they were not delivered on that specific date, we would never be ordering them.

from them again. Right. So that's the type of stuff, you know, if you guys are saying, Hey, we'll get your delivery there by this day. And then you miss the mark or maybe you hit the mark the first time. And then every time after that, you miss the mark, you're sending the mixed signals. Right. And they're like, am I willing to take the chance that maybe I'm not going to get the delivery I need. Right. By the expected date. Yeah.

I just, I want to reiterate for you guys that you can't just focus on giving good service to new customers. You have to stay consistent and treat all of your customers with the same level of service, with the same level of respect and stuff like that. Like you can't dip. Yeah. You can't fall off because then you're not going to get repeat customers. Well, and I would almost,

I don't know how you feel about this, Chelsea. All right. Working. We said this in the last in part one of this episode. OK. A new customer cost five times more.

to get them in through the door. Yes. So you are working really hard. You are having to cut through clutter, a lot of clutter, right? Especially online these days, you're having to cut through clutter. You're having to spend money potentially on ads, uh, and you're paying more for all of that. So that's a lot of effort to get someone through the door. Yes. I almost,

would argue that the reoccurring customer is, I don't want to say more important because new customers are the lifeline of your business. I understand that, especially if you're growing, but those reoccurring customers are going to be the people that

over time are going to spend a lot of money with you. And so if you're deciding who to give the better service for, if you, you're like, you know, Chelsea, I can't be consistent. I got to pick one. Either I'm going to give good service to new customers or to, uh, you know, existing customers. I don't know. Give it to the existing ones. Yeah. I don't know. I, I do think, um, and obviously you guys, um,

It's important to be consistent, consistent across the board. Yeah. But I do think that if you are not paying attention to reoccurring customers right now, you're doing a big disservice to your business because you're leaving a lot of money on the table. Yeah. And you're spending a lot of money. Yeah. So you're spending a lot of money to get people there and then they're dipping out. Yeah. Email marketing. Okay. Perfect. That's what I want to talk about next because

Like I mentioned a little earlier, personalization, picking and choosing the kind of messages you're sending people, email marketing and text marketing, those are going to be your, what's the word I'm looking for? Your drivers, your catalysts for being able to do that. Yeah, because y'all know around here, we love some email. We love it. Okay. Because at the end of the day, and think of it this way,

Five times, you're spending five times more money to get that new customer in. Yes. If you're utilizing any type of like ads or anything like that for social media, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, whatever it is, if you are not getting them into your email list, like,

What are you doing? Because you're basically dishing out all this money to have another platform dictate how you're communicating to them. You know, we're not Chicken Little. We don't like, you know, to tell you guys that. Do you know who Chicken Little is? No, I know who Chicken Little is. Why did you get involved? Because I didn't know where you were going with that. And then I finally realized where you were going. But, like, it took...

it was taking too long. And so if you guys ever wonder why Chelsea and I argue about these things, okay. First of all, okay. We have 15 years age difference between us. And I did not know for one, I've taught her in the span of this podcast, like not this episode, been the, you know, our entire podcast. Okay. Uh, I taught her what a brand evangelist was cause she didn't know the word

Evangelist. Evangelist. Yeah. Okay. Also... That's a religion, right? No, it's a person. It's describing a person. Okay, okay. Go ahead. And also, she did not know what...

Oh, you made fun of me for using the word pocketbook the other day. I stand by that. Okay, that's what's called a pocketbook, a handbag. Okay. And also, you didn't know what it meant if I didn't know you from Adam. Okay, well, you don't... I taught you what a Seder is. You didn't know what a Seder was. I taught you what the food of the underworld is. It's a pomegranate.

True. I did not know the food of the underworld. Yeah, I taught you some Gen Z slang. I taught dad that too, so sometimes now he'll text me a printer emoji. Fax no printer. Fax no printer. I still don't know what that means, but whatever. Okay, don't worry about it. Okay, so your chicken little... No, finish your chicken little metaphor. Yeah, so going back to chicken little, what I'm saying is

You know, we don't like to tell you guys the world is falling. All right. Okay. But we always want you to approach like if the reason we tell you to get people, you're spending money on social media for people to follow you. Wonderful. Get them into your ecosystem, i.e. an email list. Because if...

Chicken Little, what he says holds true. And tomorrow, Instagram goes away. TikTok is shut down. Well, TikTok was shut down for a day, y'all. Yeah. Like, it can happen. Yes. We just don't want you to build your business on quicksand. And the quicksand is...

relying on a platform that you do not own and you do not control. And that is at the end of the day, we don't want that for you. We don't want that for your customers. So you get a new customer in, figure out a way to get them onto your email list, like what Chelsea is saying, because then that email list becomes the vehicle for what she just told you. All of this stuff, the communication, the loyalty programs, all of that stuff,

All of that can be done through your email or your SMS, aka text, marketing. Yeah.

Yes. All right. So as far as strategies go, those are two very solid or channels, right? Those are solid things that you can do to get reoccurring customers back. Yes. And they're super effective. And you guys, most of the time they cost, they're very reasonably priced. Yeah. We definitely want to touch on the...

upselling and cross-selling part of it because that's really something that's unique to repeat customers. Absolutely. So I'm sure all of you guys know what upselling and cross-selling is, but in case you don't, it's when someone is looking to purchase one product and you offer to them a product that's related to it or a product that's

or more personalized, different in a way that costs more. So that's the upselling or the cross-selling, which is a different product that relates back to the original product.

I'm glad we're bringing this up because that is so much easier to do with repeat customers. And going back to personalization, it's especially easier to do because you can personalize the options a little more. And that way, one, you know the kind of products they're interested in. And because you know that, it's easier for you to keep recommending. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah.

Yeah. Well, and also probably because if you're using, let's say, um, if you're a Shopify store, you have a store on Shopify, I'm sure there's an app or something that you can use as a plugin to be able to track some of this stuff. So then when you have that customer information already in the database,

then it's more likely to be able to pull it up and then match this cross-selling stuff a little easier or the upselling. Last strategy I want to talk about

focusing and taking time to nurture a community. What do I mean by this? I feel like I've said that a lot this episode. Yeah, what do you mean by this? I'm pretty sure I've never said that before too. It's just this episode for some reason. It's the phrase of the day. Apparently. Example, this is the SOB marketing podcast. On social media, I call all of our followers SOBs. I'm like, hey SOBs, how you doing?

That is specific to our community. Yeah, so none of you better be out there trying to take it, okay? But everyone who is a part of our community, who is engaged, they know what SOB means. They respond to it. Maybe, I don't know. Maybe I should stop with this example. Different example. Okay.

Lady Gaga. Okay, Lady Gaga. Her or even, um, no, let's stick with Lady Gaga because that's the one I know. Her fans are little monsters, right? They are. They are. I was about to say Gaga Mites. You say Gaga Mites? What? They're Gaga Mites. No, stop!

little monsters okay that's what she calls them affectionately that's what they're called okay that's what the fandom is called like taylor swift fans are called swifties i can't believe i didn't even think of that well i know why you didn't think of it because you're not a fan yeah okay yeah that's true uh

That was the example. Creating community. You're all engaged in the same thing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's, um, and I know if you guys are listening to this podcast, you might be podcast listeners. Uh, you probably are of other podcasts, podcasts, other podcasts. Uh,

And so there are a lot of people that can do this in very different ways. So you can take the same idea and apply it to your small business, right? Yes. One of the ways that some people do this is I think I forget which one.

it's not Sephora, but one of them, they use their email list as like they've named it, right? So like Insider's Look or whatever it is. I'm pretty sure that is Sephora. Is that Sephora? Okay. I'm pretty sure. And so what that does though is it starts to create this community where you feel like,

oh, hey, by the way, I'm a part of like this email list that sends us special offers or whatever. And they don't offer this stuff to anybody else that's not on the list. And so those are small ways where you can start to kind of create that community. The other thing, you know, for us, we made the decision that,

hey, if we're all about small businesses and we're all about marketing, then one of the ways we can create that community is by also creating a standalone community where people can pay that monthly fee, join, and we provide the support. And so many, many different ways to go about it. I'm sure that if you're listening, small business owner, you probably...

have something already that you're doing to this extent yeah if you're not think on it um you guys can always send us an email help at the season marketer.com we are more than happy to come up with ideas trust me like we'll give your followers a name yeah the gaga mites no not that

I mean, like, I'm trying to think what else. You can always add ites to the end of anything, or... Maybe don't ask us to name your followers. Well, you can ask me, specifically. Okay, okay. Yeah, I feel like I'd be good at this. Vivian, do you think we're ready for the TLDL? I think we definitely are before we...

Go off the rails even more. Okay. Okay, y'all. So this was part two of our series about attracting customers. We focused on reoccurring or returning customers this time around. So your goals are going to be nurturing relationships. It's going to be retention and loyalty. Your messaging is going to focus on personalization and why you should stick with us.

The content is going to be personalized. It's going to focus on ongoing support and it's going to be a little more in depth in terms of your brand. So think VIP, think behind the scenes, that sort of thing. Your marketing strategies and channels are going to include upselling and cross-selling. It's going to include loyalty programs, email and text marketing, and focusing on creating a community.

Again, I want to remind y'all, if you skipped this TLDL and didn't listen to the entire episode, go listen to the entire conversation because just hearing me list these things...

Might not be as useful as I don't know hearing us go deep and explain each of these concepts So go listen to the whole conversation Yes, and let me remind you if you have not already hit subscribe do it do it I'm encouraging you go ahead hit that button right now so that you know in the future whenever we drop an episode Chelsea I think that was it for our conversation today. Oh

Okay, well, y'all go out there and attract reoccurring customers and go be the best SOB you can be.