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My Husband Weaponizes Scripture to Control Me

2025/6/25
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John Delony: 我认为用圣经经文来结束争吵,并且以此来要求妻子顺从的行为是荒谬且具有虐待性质的。这是一种对圣经经文的歪曲解读,它并非赋予丈夫控制妻子的权力,而是强调夫妻间的互相尊重和爱护。妻子应该有权表达自己的需求,而丈夫不应该利用宗教信仰来压制妻子。 我理解你身处信仰的框架内,这让你感到束缚,但你应该知道,你的感受和需求是重要的,你不应该被压迫。你应该有权要求丈夫在家庭事务中做出更多贡献,而他不能以工作为借口逃避责任。 我希望你能重新获得你的自主权,并找到解决问题的方法。这可能需要寻求专业帮助,比如婚姻咨询师,或者与信任的朋友和家人倾诉。记住,你不是孤单的,有很多好男人会尊重和爱护你。 Nicole: 我和丈夫结婚三年了,他经常用圣经经文来结束我们的争吵,这让我感到非常沮丧和无力。他总是用“妻子要顺服丈夫”的经文来压迫我,即使我提出一些合理的需求,比如希望他多做家务,他也会用经文来反驳我,甚至会因此引发长时间的争吵。 我感到被忽视和不尊重,我的感受和需求被他完全忽略。他总是沉迷于电子游戏,而家务活大部分都由我来承担。我感到非常疲惫和无力,不知道该如何回应他的要求。 我从小在比较传统的家庭环境中长大,但我的婚姻不应该重蹈覆辙。我希望我们能够建立一个平等和互相尊重的婚姻关系,而不是一个由他控制的、不平等的关系。

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A wife is struggling with her husband's demand for submission, using Bible verses to justify his behavior. The host discusses the abusive nature of this approach and encourages the caller to prioritize her own well-being and autonomy.
  • Husband uses religious texts to control wife
  • Wife feels dismissed and unvalued
  • Counseling and self-reflection are recommended

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On today’s episode, we hear about:

•       A wife struggling to feel valued by her demanding husband

•       A woman wondering how to tell her son he’s the product of a one-night stand

•       A woman coming to terms with the fact that her relationship is over

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