Do You Have Too Much Month Left at the End of Your Money?
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Hey, am I on live? You're live, yes. Oh, cool. This is your moment. Do you have something planned? No, I don't. I was wondering that, well, my problem, they told me to kind of get to my question. I'm $115,000 in medical debt as of right now, and I'm 19 years old. Oh, man. What happened? Give us the quick version of what happened.

Three months ago, I got into a car crash at about 60 miles an hour, broke both my legs, and had to spend a week or two in the hospital, and I've been out of work for the last three months. What's the status on being able to get back to work? I'm just now able to kind of waddle around my house like a penguin, but...

I'm walking still not that great right now. And the doctors are kind of telling me that I'm not going to be able to go back to construction for the next year or two, at least. So is there a settlement coming out of this? I mean, were you at fault or are you going to get paid off of this? I think I was at fault, if I believe correctly, yeah. Oh, that's tough, my man. That's real tough. Yeah. And Michael, sorry for interrupting. No, go ahead.

Well, my question was, is that at 19, I've kind of been given two options of how to handle the $115,000 of debt that I'm in. And it's to either, you know, counter them and say that I'm not going to pay it and agree on a lower settlement of, you know, 60 to 80,000 or whatever.

or to just not pay it and let it really you know hit my credit score and let the credit score drop and I don't know which of those choices to go with at this point because I've never had to use my credit and I don't think I will in the next seven years well again I don't want to be straddled with that debt tell me about were you on it did you not have medical insurance at the time tell me more about that because what I'm thinking no medical insurance no ma'am do you live at home

I was living on my own in a travel trailer because, you know, it's the cheapest thing you can live in as a young teenager. But now I am. My awesome mother is taking care of me while I'm recovering. So...

The truth is, if you don't pay these, they would roll into collections and some collections agency would end up buying them for pennies on the dollar. And the truth is, when things go into collection, yeah, you're more likely to be able to strike some sort of deal and say, okay, I can pay you. If it's $115,000, I can pay you $40,000 or I can pay you $60,000. And it's usually a cash deal. I don't like that for you because...

A, like you said, you're tanking your credit and it's kind of, it just feels like a hopeless thing. What I would do is I would start with, okay, is there any type of payment plan I can be on? And there's probably some sort of, I don't want to say the term forbearance, but you know, when you're going through a hard time and they kind of give you a break there until you can start working again. Because the truth is you're not able to work at this point and we have to figure out what that means for you next, right? Yeah.

Yes, ma'am. I'm hoping to be able, I kind of, through my dad, my dad's an oil field man, and there was a plan for me to move out to the oil field and get kind of a desk job out there that would pay better than construction and allow me to work while sitting down. And that was the plan moving forward if I was going to be paying this off. It doesn't matter either way, but that was kind of my only way in my mind of being able to think that I could pay this off.

When are you going to take that job? As soon as I can walk again and get my trailer moved out to Midland. Fantastic. Okay. So there's income. And I think Jade's right. You call the hospital. Get a hardship or something. And you talk to them about what you'd like to do. And if you can settle for... Jade, what do you think about his initial idea of settling for a much lower number? Oh, I...

I think that if it comes to that, that's okay. But I would not intentionally tank my credit. Like, I would not intentionally not make the payments to tank my credit so that it gets sold off. I wouldn't do that. If that happened because of circumstances that you couldn't help, which happens every time and people call in, fine. Well, that was his second option. His first option was going to the hospital and saying, look, I just...

I don't know if I'll ever be able to pay that back. Can we do a lower number? Yeah, yeah. Okay. I do like the idea of you going to the hospital and saying, hey, obviously this is the extent of my injuries. Obviously I did not have insurance. Obviously it's going to take me some time. Is there some sort of payment plan I can work out that takes into account my hardship right now? Yeah. And I think they will do that.

But I don't want you to go into this with a hopeless mindset of saying, I'll never be able to pay this off. Because I don't believe that. I think you can. Yeah, I agree. I think you tell them, look, I'm a 19-year-old kid. I didn't have insurance. Here's why. Tell them your story. And if you could get it to 60, that's the number you threw out, that's very doable for you to pay that off. But as soon as you can get healthy, yeah, man, you're getting out to Midland.

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Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. I'm Ken Coleman alongside Jade Warshaw. The phone number for you to jump in is 888-825-5225. Today we'll focus on your money questions, of course, and also your professional questions so we can make more money and create more margin through the baby steps. 888-825-5225 is the number. Matt is joining us now in Phoenix, Arizona. Matt, how can we help?

Hi, thanks for taking my call, guys. So we are snowballing our debt and doing everything we can, but we just got a letter from the IRS. It was a notice for intent to levy possessions for our 2023 taxes. We filed the taxes and everything, and we owed about $14,000 from 2023.

So we submitted all the paperwork in a down payment to set up a payment plan to pay that back while we're kind of snowballing all of our other debt. Okay. But they somehow, they managed to cash the check for $1,000 as a down payment, but lost our paperwork to set up the down payment.

payment plan classic so it kind of got me thinking um is there debt that's like more important to pay off than other debt or should i just throw this all into the snowball because i know i have a work bonus coming up pretty soon that would pretty much wipe out that irs yes uh-huh um

So, like, should I use it for that IRS or just keep on doing the snowball? Yeah, no, you are 100% right, Matt. There is some debt that's important than others. And in this case, it's always IRS debt. So when you're working your debt snowball, we always say,

If you have IRS debt or if you're behind on your mortgage, that sort of thing, that jumps to the top of the list regardless of the fact because they can do so much damage. And let's be honest, nobody likes working with the IRS. It is a pain in the butt and you want to get them off of your tail as quickly as possible. So if you have this bonus coming up, when does it come?

End of February. Yeah, I'm knocking that out instantly. And just make sure you keep record of everything because, listen, the IRS is notorious for making mistakes. I can't tell you how many times with our business we got sent a tax bill that was incorrect and we had to fight it and had to show proof. And, you know, you're always jumping through hoops with them. So whatever you do, make sure there's a very clear paper trail so that if this thing rears its head again, you've got everything documented. Okay.

Yeah. Thanks for the call, Matt. Thanks for the call. Excuse me. My voice just went out on me there. I flimped. Yeah. Kyle is joining us now in New York City. Kyle, how can we help?

Hello, I have a quick question. I am looking to get engaged soon and my fiance has some student loan debt, about $65,000 of it. And I live at home, I own my own business, I've been able to save up quite a bit. I have about $180,000 saved up between different accounts, some in retirement, some in some brokerage accounts and others in like just normal checkings and savings accounts. I would

I was curious about how should I go about handling paying this debt? Would something like a lump sum just handling it right away be wise? Would doing it over a period of time be wise? I've never had debt, so I don't know the best route to actually paying it off. Listen, that's a great question. When do you guys get married?

We're planning to get married in October of this year. Okay. So when and only when you get married after you've said I do, I think it could be a good idea to pay off this debt depending on how much of your $180,000 saved is in non-retirement funds. So can you kind of break that down? How much of it is non-retirement? Yeah. So about $30,000 is in a Roth IRA. And then I have

like 50,000 in just like the S&P 500 and the rest is broken up between like a savings account. So like the

like the rest of the $100,000 is in savings accounts, like high-yield savings accounts and checking accounts, and also in like my business checking account. Okay, so of the $150,000, that's what we'll call liquid because the index funds, if you don't have to touch it, you don't have to. But of all of that, how much would you say would be three to six months of expenses for you and your wife once you're in your lifestyle?

Yeah, I haven't yet calculated that out. I know what mine is currently. Okay. Um, but that's something that I would have to calculate. I think that you're going to be fine. Um, but what I would do is I would just set aside three to six months of what, once you guys are married, set aside three to six months of what will be your expenses. Um,

And keep that in a high yield. And then if you still have the 60,000 liquid or 65,000 liquid to pay this off, I would pay it off. And even if you only have 55, I would do it in a lump sum and then I would cash flow the rest of it until it's gone.

Okay. Great. Yeah. Hey, I love your heart behind this. I love that for you. It's just as easy as saying, yeah, I'll write a check. That's a good sign, my friend. That's a good dude. Yeah. Very good dude. Let's go to Emily in Denver, Colorado next. Emily, how can we help?

Hi, I'm going through a divorce and have two high school sons. And I'm wondering if I should rebalance some of my cash to help fund college or if I should try to get the lowest mortgage possible when I buy a different home. How much cash are we talking about? Well, I don't know. I don't know what their plans will be, if they will go to a four-year school or do something more technical. No, I'm sorry. How much cash do you have?

How much? Well, it would be coming out of the home equity when I move homes. Okay, so let's just back up so that we know what we're dealing with. We've got to kind of get an idea of what you're talking about. So you're in a divorce. You're going to move. How much equity do you have in the home? Well, I'm in an expensive area, so we have – I'm assuming –

I will walk away with about $700,000 in home equity, $600,000 to $700,000, but the cheapest thing I can buy is probably $800,000 to $900,000 for maybe a townhome. And then how old are the boys? What grades are they in? Sophomore and junior. Do you have any college money set aside? About $12,000 to $15,000 per child. Okay.

And I'd like to help them pay for college so they don't have debt. Do you work outside the home? I do work full-time, yes. What's your income? $160,000 a year. Okay, that's good. What would you say an all-in budget for you is? Do you have a pretty good idea what your budget is on, this is not frills, but just paying for your basics and being comfortable? What's that number?

I don't have an exact budget because everything's been combined. Yeah. But I've been trying to crunch numbers and thinking I wouldn't want to mortgage more than $2,000 a month, including, you know, insurance, HOA, anything like that. Mm-hmm.

Okay. Yeah, just a rule of thumb for you to keep in mind. We would say no more than 25% of your take-home pay should be your mortgage. And that's including HOA, that's including taxes and insurance. So if 2K is...

25% or less, then you're good. Something to keep in mind here, have you priced it out in the Denver area? So if you're spending $650, yeah, you're getting like a decent-sized townhouse. Is that right? I'm just outside of Denver, and

Uh, right now the only three bedroom townhouse is 900,000 would be the cheapest I could afford. 900,000 to a million is what I'd probably be looking at for property. Have you considered going further out? Like I have friends that are, you know, 30, 25 to 30 minutes from the Denver area, family of four, and they're looking at things in the six to $700,000 range. And I've been to their house and it's fine. Yeah. Yeah.

Where I am, I'm between mountain passes, and I wouldn't want my kids to have to drive mountain passes in the winter to get to school. I hear what you're saying. Okay. So there is a balance for me on that cost. Two things to keep in mind here, and I'll speak on the home side. Can you speak on the college side? We have to...

have very clean and clear expectations and very realistic expectations because the money that's going to come from this sale is sounds like a lot, but it's not a lot. And I think you're starting to feel that. And so expectations on college, are they the types of kids that will go to college? You've got some money saved. They're going to have to work and they're going to have to come up with scholarships and grants. And then there's the father.

So I would tell you that this is not all on you. I think you've got to make the right decision for your home. Keeping your expenses low as you're now out on your own. That's your number one priority. Not cash flowing their college. And that's another good point. It's just you now. You've got kids that will be coming home, but that won't be a part of the home full time. And that's going to weigh into what you purchase when it comes to this home. Yeah. So sorry you're going through this, but take care of you first. The boys will be fine. This is the Ramsey Show.

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We have some credit cards that are 0% interest for a certain amount of time. Since these have a higher balance and are at the bottom of our snowball list, they would revert to full interest by the time we started aggressively paying them. Would you suggest paying the remainder of the 0% interest off ahead of the other debts to keep them from jumping to 24 to 26% interest? Oh, okay. That's a lot of percentages. What I think you're getting at is...

moving the debts out of order to avoid paying interest towards the end of your snowball, I might add. And no, I wouldn't. I would keep them in order because the truth is you're going to be going so fast by then. And the amount that you're going to be throwing at the debt is going to happen so quickly. My guess is the math on this is going to be negligible because it's probably going to be the difference of a couple of months that this is going to take place. And

I would use this as fuel. Like when I know, Ken, if they come on the weather report and say that a snowstorm is coming, what do you do? I laugh at how Middle Tennessee is going to react and realize that if we need any bread or dairy product, I should probably go now. Yeah. Thus contributing to the problem I'm laughing about. Yeah, you prepare is what I'm getting at. That's probably not the answer you were looking for. No, that's fine. What you're saying is you prep.

You know it's coming, so you do what you have to do to be prepared for it. And it's the same thing. When you know that this interest is going to hit, you will have prepared for it. You will have thought, okay. And if anything else, you might have tried to avoid it by going faster earlier so that you don't get to that point. So I think that this can be used as fuel to pay off the other debts faster. Yeah, I agree. Good advice. Levi is joining us now in Minneapolis. Levi, how can we help?

Hey, so I guess to kind of jump into it, I'll give you guys my situation and where I'm at and everything with my life. I'm 22 years old. I am engaged with a one-year-old. We had our little one not too long ago, and...

And ever since we found out about her, I've been on a debt free journey. I had about $15,000 in debt, which had a mix of, uh, it was, uh, home equity loan kind of thing. And then some credit cards and stuff like that. I got all that paid off in about eight months.

Um, I am a full-time electrician making about $55,000 a year. And then I also do a lot of side work doing electrical stuff and handyman things on the side. Uh, now that my daughter, she's getting up to the age of where she's kind of starting to realize like, Oh, dad's around dad's not around. I've been really wanting to spend more time with her. I have my three to six months emergency fund and fully debt free. And we're getting married in September. Um,

I, we are cash flowing the whole wedding. We pretty much have everything accounted for. We have our tax returns going to be the last little bit about of our money that's coming back to pay for the rest of the wedding. But my main question is, is,

I don't know if I want to keep on doing these side jobs. Like, I mean, I cut back a little bit. I was getting more calls from people the more I did on a daily basis to do stuff on the weekends and I was getting burnt out. So I cut back a little, but I'm wondering if I should cut back even more now rather than only do a couple of months now.

because I'm only being able to afford like around 6% of my income to invest in retirement. And I feel like I should be doing more even though I'm 22, but I mean, I'm, I've

I got a good growth rate for my income. I mean, that's going to almost double in the next two years once I get past my journeyman's test. So I guess that's where you guys are at for that. Well, first of all, I want to congratulate you on you find out you got a baby on the way, and you talk about adulting and growing up and manning up. I just want to call out, way to go, Levi. Way to go.

way to go. You're paying off your debt. You got a fully funded emergency fund. I mean, I'm just very impressed. So my only question that I have, Jade, and Levi, for you, is you said you're not able to afford more than putting 6% away for retirement. And I guess I don't understand that. What do you mean by I can't afford it?

Well, I mean, I could, I can afford it. It's just more, I guess. So for say the comfortability of everything, like I'm thinking like I have,

I have all this time ahead of me. I'm like looking at how much I'm investing now. If I continue investing what I have now, I'll have over $3 million by the time I retire, which is going to be more to live off of. But I'm wondering like if I kind of hold back so that way we don't have to give up like all of our lifestyles so I can do more fun things with the little one on the weekends and stuff like that and just do this 6% for the next two years. And then once I pass my test and that's a $10 an hour bump. And then from there I can...

Can you keep my same lifestyle and then invest that full 15%? Listen, I'm curious to know what my friend's going to say here. She's got a big old smile on her face, so I'm going to get out of the way. But my reaction to this is...

You are rationalizing this, and if you rationalize it now, you're going to rationalize it later when you have more income to do more fun stuff. And I think that the crux of the issue that started you down this path is you've been working like a madman, doing a great job, can't

Can you cut back a little bit? Should you cut back a little bit? I think yes and yes, but I would use that extra, that extra weekend, one or two weekends instead of four. And that's how I would fund my 15%. You know what I mean? I just, I would go ahead and start doing it now because my friend, the,

Don't get Jade started on her investment calculator. That's all I would say. Well, he's already run it and $3 million is great. Listen, I'm smiling because you're 22. You have so much life to live. And I love that you have a path for your income to go up. And it will. Right now, my biggest question...

The questions formulating in my mind as you were talking are more so along. You said that you make $55,000 a year, which is really good. But that's including side hustles. So my first question is, well, if you drop the side hustles, what will you be making a year? And I don't like that number only because it's already lower than the median in the United States. And I kind of want you at least above the median. The median or above is what I would love for you. The next question I had was...

The wife, you know, when you guys get married here coming up, you know, what's the plan? Is she going to have income? Because that definitely factors into this right now. It will factor into as soon as you get married. So tell us about that.

Yeah, so 55,000, that's my standard electrician job. And then on top of that, I have side hustles, which this year has been better this year than the last two. I've been picked up. I picked up a lot more. I've probably, this entire 2024, I probably made around 15,000 in side hustles throughout the year. 15,000, okay.

Yep. And then once we get married, we have one little one right now and my fiance, she's working part-time, working with my mom at my mom's home daycare. So doing that, we get free childcare and then she also makes an income of around $20,000 a year. But once we have this second kid, my mom can't afford to pay for, have two kids there because it factors into her numbers. So the plan is to have

my wife go be a stay-at-home mom at that point and then I will just be the main breadwinner at the time and then she would do like being like a sub and stuff for the daycare here and there when my grandparents could watch the kids and stuff like that so I mean her income maybe be like $10,000 a year after that. Those are the numbers you need to run and run them clearly and both you and your wife have to

to decide this is the life we've agreed on. John Deloney and I have talked about this many times that sometimes what you're signing up for is the used Camry lifestyle.

And if you decide, hey, I don't want to do these side hustles. My wife's going to stay home. That is 100% your prerogative. But just know that making $55,000 a year, that is going to mean you're on a used Camry lifestyle. And there's nothing wrong with that. Just know I want you investing at least 15% off of your base income so that you're used to putting away $687 every single month, whether you side hustle or not.

And if that's a problem, check out where your mortgage or rent payment lies because if it's tight, that's likely why. But congrats on just stepping into being an adult and being responsible at the age of 22. I got a sense that he's going to be okay, whatever he does. This is The Ramsey Show.

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Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. I'm Ken Coleman. Jade Warshaw is alongside. The phone number to jump in is 888-825-5225, 888-825-5225. And we are here for you. And my friend tells me right before we go live, she goes, I got to throw a little thought at you. You watched the inauguration? I did. Of course you did. Now, we need to explain that because people make assumptions.

I am a student of the process. I love the peaceful transfer of power. I like the tradition. We're the youngest country out there. True that. True that. So it's kind of fun. I did watch it. Nice. I did a media hit this morning about, you know, the whole tariffs. Yes. What say you? Oh, I'm not pro-tariff. I'm anti-tariff.

And the reason is... On all imports, regardless. I think it's a lot. I think that they are a... I think tariffs have been useful economic tools. Many times they get turned into weapons. And here's my beef with tariffs for all the pro-Trump people who are automatically canceling me or mad at me. Let me explain why. I was going to say, explain the pros and cons. Because a tariff...

is meant to penalize a foreign country. All right, so let's just say that Trump puts a tariff on all Canadian products that American companies import in here and sell to you, the people. Yes. It is meant to penalize Canada by making their products more expensive and thus trying to motivate American companies to pick another product. Here's the challenge.

When we say American-made, and nobody's more America-first than me, and I'd love to see American workers make American products. However, our people, and I'm proud of this, get paid more than everybody else in the world. So it is very expensive for a small business. Let's take small business XYZ. Let's say they import a widget from Canada. When Trump puts a tariff on that widget from Canada,

it doesn't just penalize Canada. It's going to pass on. It's going to penalize a small business because let's say they've got orders coming in all the time and they go, I can't find a comparable widget from some other country. And I certainly can't find one in America. It's going to cost me more. So that tariff is paid for by the small business. Sure. Well, that small business can't afford to change their margin. So what do they have to do? They

they have to raise the price of said widget. That's right. So in all reality, and I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings, but this is economics 101. This is not Democrat. This isn't Republican. This is just, this is how economics works. Tariffs do become a tax for the consumer. Well, in the short term. So therefore, I am never for raising taxes.

Ever. Listen, I think I'm with you. What did you say? Well, on the media hit, I was talking about how obviously, to your point, if you put a tariff on the importer, that price is going to pass along to the consumer. And if we really look at what we're importing, the main ones that are affecting the

you know everyday people in the united states crude oil i mean you're going to see oil prices go up you're going to see gas go up like number one and then even you know things like food you know we import things from other countries because we want avocados year-round you know what i'm saying like we have gotten used to certain comforts uh here in the united states that we'll definitely feel that we'll feel it on coffee and you know certain fruits and vegetables and i don't know chocolate that sort of thing but um is there a i'm asking you is there a um

short-term benefit, long-term gain thing here where we say, yeah, we might feel it in the short term, but long-term, would we begin to see

it play out in the way of, I don't know, what's the end game here? More business being done internally? Well, again, we're talking about President Trump. This is his policy. He's very pro-tariff, and he comes at it from a, other countries need to be paying us more. You know, I want to bring more income to the United States and through the Treasury, so forth and so on. It's just not that simple. And so, therefore, the answer to your question, I can't even simplify that because it's a, the answer is we don't know.

True that. But traditionally, when you raise costs for American businesses, it leads to inflation. Yeah. No one wants to go back to that again. Yeah. 2022. You know, I'm consistent on this. People ask, I've been on Fox News and I made the host, he got a little, got his feathers ruffled when I just said, look, this is what I think about tariffs.

tariffs. I think the best thing that Trump can do, or any president, is cut regulations, so government regulations, things that cost businesses money to comply with, and cut taxes for businesses. When both of those things are cut, prices go down. When prices go down for the American people, theoretically, and this is what we're here to do, is that allows people more room in their budget if they aren't spend crazy.

I am always going to be low tax, low to no tariffs because I believe in a free market system that takes care of itself. In other words, if the consumer wants to pull back, they pull back. That means if they pull back, guess what the companies do? They lower prices. Car prices go down when demand goes down. Right, right, right. Housing prices go down when demand goes down. This is called a free market system. And the market...

drives what's going on. I don't like government weighing in and I'm libertarian on that stuff. But again, that's just my position. I got you. You don't have to agree with it. No, I think it's nice to hear. I mean, I felt like that was pretty... You know who needs less money? The government. You know who needs more money? Folks. You find people.

If you want to know, like vote for me because I'm pro people. I'm serious. The people can come in the people's president. I just don't want more money in the federal government. They don't know what to do with it. And I think each of you people that are listening today and watching, and I mean, it's from the bottom of my heart.

James Child has known me a decade. He knows I'm telling you the truth. I believe that you all can handle your money if you work with Ramsey Solutions and we teach you how to budget. But I believe the American people and the people of the world can manage their money better than anyone else can manage it for them. And I'm talking about government, bureaucrats, and politicians. That's what I believe at my core. Yeah, I agree with you. I do think that regardless of what

the policies are if you do the things that we teach. Like I always talk about five pillars of personal finance, right? It's budgeting. Like the idea you get out of debt, you stay out of debt. It's carrying the proper insurances. It's investing for the future and it's prioritizing generosity. If you're doing those five things, you're winning. And obviously you can use the baby steps to do that. Yeah.

But the truth is like certain things can impact us in a moment in a positive or negative way. Like I would never sit here and say like, this doesn't really matter. It doesn't affect you. Sure it does. What do you think about the idea that like people who work on tips and things like that, that that might not be taxed? Love it. I like that too. I love any policy that lowers taxes. Now, I mean, you throw it at me. I'm having a hard time saying I'm not for that. I mean, I think people who rely on tips,

They are relying on the generosity of the people that they serve. So if someone, if you and Sam and Stacey and I are at dinner, and we were just at dinner a couple months ago, and remember that guy, kind of an artsy guy, musician guy? Either way, you don't remember him. Maybe. Tell me more. He did a great job. I do remember him. We sat outside. Yes, I remember. And the four of us, I feel like we all commented on, the guy did a really good job. So here's my point. He served us so well.

That then the Warshaw family decides at that moment of the check to go, how much of our money beyond the meal are we going to give to this guy because we appreciate how he took care of us? And then the Coleman's do the same thing. He should get to keep that. The government gets to tax my generosity? No. I'm sorry. The government gets to tax my appreciation? Well, they've taxed it. I mean, this is. Don't tax my appreciation. Yeah.

My man did a good job. He's out hustling for us. I'm going to give him a little extra. Plus they already got their

They got their cut when I earned the money or when Sam earned the money. That's the other thing. And now just because I'm going like this, you get to tax it again? They taxed you when you got it. Now they're going to tax him when you give it? No, man. Man, this is unifying the country. It is. I feel like a lot of people do feel that way. Everybody feels this way. No, don't tax my tip now. So anyway, I hope that that goes through as well. But yeah, I think in general, I want...

people to have more of their hard-earned money. I agree. So that they can give, save, and spend as we teach here at Ramsey Solutions. Give the way they want to give. Yes. Save what they want to save.

and spend how they want to spend. This is what Thomas Jefferson meant when he said the pursuit of happiness. Get into it, Ken. It's just this idea that this is the life that I choose to live. You said it earlier. If I want to drive a used Camry the rest of my life, then freaking drive a used Camry the rest of your life. This is your life. That's right. And I think we need more of our money. So there you go. Good word, Ken. Economics 101. Politics, by the way, is simple when you make it about that. This is The Ramsey Show.

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So 2024, like many, it sent my family in complete financial turmoil because one thing bad happened after another. And really a lot to do. My husband and I, we were on the same page with things, but like the execution, it just doesn't happen. And we're about to crash, and I just need help trying to get out of it. Tell us a little bit more. What do you mean we're on the same page, but it's about to crash? Give us the specifics. So...

Just to give context, I had my second child last January.

I was on maternity leave until May. My daughter, my oldest daughter, had a couple of seizures. She's only two. She had a couple of seizures in April. So unfortunately, that kind of opened the floodgate of a lot of issues that we're still dealing with now. And with that, you know, the medical bills and all that stuff, that's besides the problem. But anyway, I got back from maternity leave and I got let go as soon as I got back. I'm sorry.

Yeah. So then I went six months without a job, which was kind of okay because with finding out about my daughter's issue, my baby also has the same problem. So the only good thing is we know about it now. Now we're just trying to deal with things. So throughout that six months where I didn't have a job, our savings is empty.

empty. I had to dip completely into my Roth IRA. I still have my regular IRA. I didn't have to touch it. I had to totally empty my Roth. And now the good news is I have a job. I start a new job next week. But the problem, my husband is really heavy. We talk about the money and he says one thing to me, but really if there's an issue,

He just covers it up and tries to do all the gig work and the ride shares and stuff and to try to just fix it because he doesn't want to tell me because he knows I'm so overwhelmed. I'm just going to get upset. So now that I'm about to go back to work and everything's going to change and I'm not here and I can't just settle up everything and try my best to start over again, I'm just afraid that everything's going to blow up in my face even more than it already has. Okay. Well, first of all, you...

You need some type of help. You can't go through this on your own. And this is a marriage issue, but you can just hear your voice. You can just hear how stressed out you are.

Yeah. Take a deep breath. I need to take a deep breath after hearing that because I mean, you're transferring that feeling. We feel it. My chest got tight just listening to you. That's right. The good news. Let's start with the good news. The good news is...

You've got a job. Yes. The good news is you at least have the information surrounding what's going on with these kids' health. Okay. So it's good to know so you can know what you can do next. Let's talk about

What's happened since you've emptied out the Roth, what's done is done. You can't go back. It's spilled milk. You know, you kind of have to just move on from that. You've emptied out your emergency fund. Good news is that's what the emergency fund is there for. It's there for when it rains and pours. Okay. So let's look at things as they are now and give me a sense of.

what it is that you're trying to accomplish? Like if I said to you, Alyssa, what's next on your, what's most important on your things to do right now? Give me the top three. Our credit cards are crumbling. They're crippling. They're completely crippling. Our cars paid off.

we rent. So, you know, the rent's getting paid. The credit cards are getting paid, but barely. And then a lot of the issue really kind of stemmed from we had...

There are so many credit cards. I had a lot going into them. We've been married for eight years. I had a lot going into the marriage. And then just time goes by, things get worse. How much credit card debt do you have? Between the two of us, I think it's around 80. Okay, 80,000. But you said your cars are paid off, which is good. What other debt do you have?

student loans I think between the two of us we have 130 in student loans okay are you making active payments or is it a super low payment right now he's making payments I'm not making payments right now okay um what do you know how much he's spending on payments every month 340 I think it's not a lot he's really paying minimally okay tell me what you guys are bringing in and I know let's say it like this what's at your disposal income wise every month

Like, what are you bringing in? And I don't know what's going on with your husband, but if you feel like you can include that or can't include that in this equation. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, it's fine. He brings home, I think it's like take home. I think it's 15 every two weeks. Okay. So 3000 a month. And then the new job I just got, it's a little bit, it's less. So I want to say probably like 2400 a month. What does he do for a living? He's a meteorologist. Oh, he's on air.

No, he's not on air. It's complicated. He works for a company where they like forecast for like cruising cargo ships and stuff like that. So it's kind of like private type of thing. And how much is your rent? How much you guys paying in rent every month? We're only paying $16.50 for a small house. Okay, $16.50 you said only, but the truth is it's only 25%. It's over 25% of your take home. So you probably are feeling it.

It's not much over, but it's 350 over. So you're feeling that a little bit. Okay. What's on fire here is I think you're just I think you've experienced so much in a very little bit of time and it's still like reverberating in your day to day life. But a lot of it is it feels like based on what you've said, it feels like a lot of it is kind of started to settle.

Is that fair enough? Like all this craziness happened and now the ash is settling and we're going, okay. And you're kind of like surveying, like, where do we go next? You've got the job. You guys are making 5,400 a month, which is not a lot.

you know, it's not a bad place to start. I think that's good. You've got $80,000 in debt and then $130,000 in student loan debt. So that's probably what you're feeling right now. But it's not because of the payment because you're not paying on all of that. So it's just that idea of the debt resting on your shoulders. So let's break it into small pieces because I think right now that's what you need to do. If I were you...

It's the debt snowball on these credit cards. Are they current? Are they in collections? Tell us more.

They're all current. The big problem was my husband had them on auto pay and he doesn't check them. So I guess there was a month where it didn't go through. And then it does that thing where it's not getting a payment. So it adds and adds and adds. Okay. So what you can do is sometimes in relationships, there's people that are better paid.

at handling money than others. Everybody needs to be involved, but it might be for you to be the one that actually monitors that and pushes play on it. And it sounds like it's going to be that. I want you to be on top of this and try to drag your husband in to get on top of this as well. But Ken Coleman, they probably need to go into some counseling. I think they got to scrape some money together and you guys need a marital counselor so that

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SmartVestor. Ramsey Solutions is a paid, non-client promoter of participating pros. Learn more at RamseySolutions.com slash SmartVestor. Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. I'm Ken Coleman alongside my friend Jade Warshaw. We're so excited to be together for you today. 888-825-5225. 888-825-5225. All right, let's go to Salt Lake City, Utah, and Haley is joining us. Haley, how can we help?

Hi guys, thanks so much for taking my call. You bet. What's up? Yeah, so to give you some context, me and my husband just got married last May.

And since then, we've been able to pay off his $15,000 car loan. We purchased a house and saved up a six-month emergency fund. Nice. Yeah. So my question is, we bought the house knowing it would need a kitchen renovation. I thought I could last a little longer with the current kitchen. Yeah.

But it's literally falling apart What's going on in the kitchen? Define need Well she says it's falling apart So Haley talk to us Paint us a picture of this kitchen

Yeah, so our house is 100 years old, and yeah, it's awesome. But the kitchen probably is from like the 1940s, 50s. The flooring, I can see the baseboards, just to give you some context. The floor is crumbling. The sink is caving into the...

to the, the counters. And, um, this is more of a luxury, I guess you could put this, but it doesn't have a dishwasher. The electrical is outdated. Um, it's actually not up to code. Oh, that's dangerous. Yeah. But you fall into the floor, uh,

is not a good idea and feels like the sink is about ready to turn into a massive plumbing expense. Fair? Yeah. So, so it's functional, but yeah, it definitely needs to be updated. And we knew that. Um, but so we're wondering, um,

If we should, one, suck it up, save another year to cash flow the renovation, two, take from our emergency fund, or three, get a renovation loan with a 0% financing. No, no, no. You knew better. So three's off the table. You knew that, Haley, right? Yes, to an extent. Okay, so let's go back to one. Let's go to option one. Suck it up and save for a year.

um how much are you uh anticipating that this that the reno would cost um we're thinking it will like on the low end it would probably be around 20k okay okay and how much do you have saved towards that right now we're not talking your actual emergency fund you have any other savings

Yeah, we have probably, like outside of our emergency fund, about $8,000. That's awesome. That's good. You're not going to like this answer, Haley, but I would absolutely, the two of you go, okay, what's it going to take for us to come up with another $12,000 and how fast can we do that? And I would be so motivated by that floor and that sink. I would be selling stuff.

I would be doing everything that I could do to come up with that 12 grand. And to be completely honest with you, I would cash flow as you go. And what I mean by that is if this were my house...

and you were my wife and I was your hubs, I'd be going, uh, I got to fix the floor first. Yeah. Like she, we can't fall through. So, okay. What is it going to take to fix the floor? All right. And then I'm making this up Haley, but let's say the, do you have any idea? Have you, have you, uh, uh, line item that out? What's the floor going to take?

We've done some quotes before. Unfortunately, the floor, I've thought the same thing. The floor has to, unfortunately, be like the very last thing to be done. It has to be. That's what I was thinking. Oh, is that right? Yeah. All right, never mind. Especially if you're changing the footprint. Well, what about the sink that's literally falling into something? What is it going to cost to fix that?

That would probably be the most expensive part is like the cab, you know, getting new cabinets and, you know, do you have to get new cabinets or you can, can you reface the old ones? That's what I'm doing. Um, we have to get new cabinets because they're not, basically we have to redo the electrical and the sink is taking up all of the counter space cause we don't have a dishwasher. It's like a really old. So you're changing, you're changing everything. Yeah.

Yeah, it basically, I mean, to an extent, it kind of has to be gutted. Listen, the thing I'm most scared about is the electrical because I'm like, how are you only going to, I mean, I'm not an electrician, but if you tell me the electricity is 100 years old or at the very least from the 40s, how can you only fix it in the kitchen and not fix it in the rest of the house? Like, I'm afraid. I can't imagine opening a 100-year wall and it only being, that there being no problems. So part of me is like,

I was trying to get her to pay for an appetizer and save up for the entree. She's like, nope, we got to have a five course meal at once. Does your husband know how to do work? Does my husband know electrical? No, any of the work. Any of this stuff. Oh, does he know? Sorry, repeat the question. Do you guys know how to do stuff? In your kitchen. Oh, we've thrown out the idea of doing stuff ourselves to save money. And I think there's some things we can do, but like...

I also don't want my husband to get electrocuted. 100%. Well, again, Haley, listen, back to the point I'm trying to make. Do you disagree with this, Jade? I think they just really hustle and come up with $12,000. I think you need to come up with this money, but I think every plan needs to have a contingency. And in this case...

I would be afraid for you to start knocking walls with only $20,000. I don't know how you're doing it on 20. Yeah. Unless this thing is a teeny tiny space, I don't know how you're doing it either. I want you to treat this like...

I want you to treat this home budget, this home reno budget as though, I don't know, somebody prominent has hired you to do their, but like you, you can't play around with this. Martha Stewart's hired you. Yeah, man. Like you need to go through detail and really make sure you know your numbers on this. Really make sure you've priced things out and gotten accurate because you can't, I've lived in a hundred year old house. You can't mess around. You can't mess around with it. And $20,000 feels light. I'm not going to lie. Uh,

Try to get that number up. Don't finance it because then you're going to be stressed out over it. I would try to live around it and make that your motivation. Yeah, that's, you guys are saving every penny. I'd love for you to have like 30 to $40,000 to start this. Like just in case, like,

This is the type of thing you open up the wall and then you find out there's mold everywhere or you open up the wall and you find out there's asbestos. Like, I'm only going off of what I saw on HGTV. You're trying to depress her? No, but I've seen enough of these home shows. Homes on homes. Yeah, you're right. I totally get it. I totally know what you're talking about.

Oh, she's so happy with herself. She's, she's watched a lot of HGTV. Watched a lot of TV. She's watched a lot of HGTV. But yeah. Yeah. Don't finance it. And the reason is, is I know where you're coming with this because you were going like this. Well, look, it's our kitchen. I mean, it's the house we live in. And, um,

But you knew that getting into it. Yeah. And the finance charge on this adds to the stress. Just avoid this at all costs. Get really innovative. Let me tell you something. I've read a lot of books on innovation and I'm going to steal something from innovation to give to you, Haley. And I hope it becomes inspiration. As long as it rhymes. Come on, Ken. Innovation to inspiration. I knew it. I knew it was going to rhyme. I know. Don't make me do this.

Here's what we know about the great innovators. They innovated, they created something because of a lack of resources. It was the lack of resources, tools, elements, whatever, that led them down the process of what we call innovation. And innovation happens best and most, this is a fact, right?

When we are limited and we have to then dive deeper into our imagination. That's right. And I really believe that if you treat this kitchen project like that, like we ain't got 20,000. We ain't got it. We ain't got 50,000. We ain't got it. We got a problem that we got to solve.

How many different ways can we solve this? And next thing you know, you've got an episode of MacGyver. - That's right, Ken, you're exactly right. We find it time and time again when people walk the baby steps, when we say, hey, you now are cutting up credit cards and you have a thousand dollar emergency fund, right? It causes you to think differently. Necessity is a mother of invention. And you start to go, okay, what can I do to make this work? You start looking for other options. 'Cause we know, Ken, that when people utilize debt, A,

you don't have to be creative anymore. No, that's easy. You can just spend and spend, and you tend to spend more. Slap some plastic on it, and that doesn't fix anything. So I really would challenge you. I think you two can figure this out, and I think on the other side of this, it's going to be less stress, better marriage, better kitchen. This is The Ramsey Show. What does the future hold for business?

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Because, you know, years ago Dave wrote, not too long ago, Baby Steps Millionaires. Love it. And from time to time we have fun when Baby Steps Millionaires call the show and tell us their story. So we've got Alyssa who is waiting in Green Bay, Wisconsin. Alyssa, you're on the Ramsey Show. How can we help? Hey guys, thanks so much for having me on the show. So you're a Baby Step Millionaire.

I am. Oh my goodness. You sound young. Oh. I think I'm young. Thank you, Jade. I'm 34. Hey, come on now. Oh my. You really, let me just say, Alyssa. It's a baby. 34 is young. I don't care what anybody tells you. That's young. I'm telling you it's young. Yeah, it's a fact. Well, that's very exciting. Okay, so tell us your net worth.

So it's just over a million, about a million and 20,000. Oh, okay. Nice. That's awesome. And how long ago did you crack the one million mark? It happened this fall. And then there are some ups and downs in there, certainly with the market. All right. Give us the mix of what is making up the one million net worth.

Okay. So in investments, so that's regular IRAs, Roth IRAs, 401ks, our HSA, we have $430,000. And our 529 for our four children, we have $42,000. We have about $480,000 in equity in our home, which will be paid off here soon.

And about $68,000 in cash. Nice. All right. So I love this. I mean, just hitting that one million mark, and I love how it's spread out. This is real everyday people. Yeah. Are you actually in Green Bay or in surrounding area? Surrounding area is Appleton, which is...

It's 25 minutes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, gotcha. I love this because a lot of people think a net worth, like when people say, oh, I'm a millionaire or this person has a million dollar net worth, Alyssa, they think it's, they earned a million dollars or they made a million dollars in a year. And people forget that your home equity is part of that, right? Like for you, it's cash savings, your 529, your retirement. I just love this picture. It makes it feel so real.

Well, you notice none of it's inherited at all. You've just been building it up and at a very young age, as we like to point out. What's the income, household income? 2024, we topped out at about $300,000. Very nice. Where'd you start? Yeah.

We were married in 2013, and we started around 125. Nice. That's a good start. What do you guys do? Yeah. My husband's a high school teacher, slash some administrative duties, and I am a PA, a physician assistant. Wow. Very processed people. Uh-huh. Interesting. And GPA in college for both of you?

Oh my goodness. My undergrad, I was probably pretty good, like a 3.7. And then in grad school, closer to like a 3.0, just tough. Yeah, good for you. My husband probably did better than me. He was probably closer to like a 4.0 in his education. Oh, well, I don't like people like you. How much did like having a plan for your money, having a budget for your money, how much do you feel like that played into you guys being able to accomplish this?

It was everything, Jade. Honestly, I...

I will go back and say like, we got, someone gave us the total money makeover. We got married and I like looked at the book and said like, oh, this is not us. I was like one of those classic people who didn't think like school debt was real debt. I was just like, oh, that's good debt. And then I picked it up a few years later and that's when everything changed. Just being intentional because we were never bad with money. We were never like super reckless or anything, but we were just super intentional and now

Now, for the last probably five years, we have our every dollar budget that we're always looking at. And I think one thing I wanted people to really know from this call was we don't like we don't live in a cave either. Like we don't. I know Dave always talks about like, were you like collecting lint and dust in a cave? No, like.

We have a budget, but we have a healthy income and we still get to do really like fun things and save and pay off our house. So yes, we were like very aggressive with some things, but we've also been super intentional and definitely the budget and the program and just being motivated by things bigger than us was a big part of our story for sure. And I love, it sounds like you're still working to pay the house off. So I love the idea that

you're a baby steps millionaire. It doesn't, again, it doesn't mean that

your house is paid off and you're living in a million dollar mansion. Like this can look a lot of different ways in each of those ways is extremely, extremely successful and aspirational. Very, very good. Very cool. And you really, I was going to ask you what advice would you give to somebody that young couple like you, but I feel like you just gave the advice in telling us what you all did. But I would ask, you told us what you did, but is there a mindset that

that you would describe for young couples that are listening or watching right now and hearing your story, and they're going, man, 34. They just crossed the millionaire line not too long ago. They started out at 22. What would you say about mindset? Right. I think that's everything. I would say...

You know, have you're not going to reach a goal that you don't set. So I think having a goal is like number one. And I think we always talk. My husband, I always talked about.

we have to understand as a couple, what we want, not what, I mean, you can look at social media and you can even like talk to friends and everyone's going to have their things. Right. So maybe you love going out to eat or you love vacationing. You can't love it all. I mean, you can, but you can't spend your money on it all. So choose, choose what you're going to spend your money on. And then, you know, don't spend money on other stuff just because other people do. Like we don't, we don't spend a lot of money on clothes. And I,

I don't judge other people that do. We love to go on vacations. We love, you know what I mean? What kind of cars you guys drive? Really crummy ones. Really? How crummy are we talking about?

A 2013 Kia Sorento. All right. That's not bad. That has like 130 miles, a thousand miles on it. And a 2016 Kia Sedona. That's my minivan. You are like Sam and I. You guys are trying. I drive a 2013 Cadillac. I think he drives a 2016 Yukon and the miles are about the same. Yeah. And they're not climbing. And that's, yeah. Yeah.

I know they're perfectly fine for us. They're fine for us. Yeah, fine for you. They're certainly not flashy. Good for you. And they're worth probably less than $20,000 together. Right. So what did you do that moment that you logged on to, you know, whatever your app is, that moment that you saw your real estate value and you kind of calculated it and realized, oh my gosh, we made it. What did you do? How'd you celebrate? I was like, whoa. So I talked to my husband, but then we actually have

some best friends who are the same age as us and it's like she is my like Ramsey person that I talked to about all this stuff and we have such a cool relationship that we can chat about that stuff so I called her up they had just reached a million dollar mark so we went out for this amazing dinner together and it was super fun love it Alyssa thank you so much for calling and sharing your baby steps millionaire story 34 years of age and

Got started a young couple at 22, Jay. I love it. Yeah, really fun. You got to have friends that you can share money wins with. All right. I hear you. You know? I like that. It's good advice. Hey, don't move. We'll be right back. This is The Ramsey Show.

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Welcome back to the Ramsey show. I'm Ken Coleman. Jade Warshaw is alongside triple eight, eight, two, five, five, two, two, five, triple eight, eight, two, five, five, two, two, five. Now, um, my partner and I here, we were talking earlier in the show and, and, and we talk all the time around the office about this. Um,

inflation. There is a natural progression of inflation over time. The Fed, just kind of a quick review here because Jade's got a little something to share here today. So teeing you up here because everybody's heard about the Fed. Jerome Powell, unfortunately, has become a name that everybody knows. And to his credit, the Fed is attempting, sometimes I agree with them, sometimes I don't, but they are always attempting to keep inflation

uh, in that two, two and a half percent range or so. And when it gets above that, they start paying attention. And this is where we get the monetary policy that you all are paying attention to the headlines all the time when you see, are they raising rates? Are they dropping rates? All this kind of stuff. So it's always an interesting tension between wages, our wages going up

Are they outpacing the inflation? Are they outpacing inflation? Very hard for that to happen over long term. So anyway, nonetheless, what do you got here? You got a little something for us? Well, I'm just trying to make heads or tails of all of it, right? Because it's like we knew in 2022 that inflation was going bananas. Like we felt it. The numbers were there. The data supported what we were feeling was true. But then we started to see inflation taper off and...

And we saw wages start to jump ahead. But yet we were still saying, oh, it's so expensive out there. It's so crazy. And so my thought was like, OK, what's really happening? Because, you know, you're a guy that's following employment. You're following those numbers. And I'm looking at this graph here that I saw that really around March of 2023, a little earlier, wages really did start outpacing inflation significantly.

at a decent rate. And I thought, okay, that means that we've got a little bit more margin back as American people. Where is this money going? So I started looking around and obviously we feel it at the grocery store. Like that's the main place people say, oh my gosh, it's so expensive.

And around about the time I was looking at this, I saw that NPR came out with a grocery study that basically said they followed the prices of groceries from 2019 until today. They went to Walmart and they picked, I believe it was 100 different items. And they said, we're going to track this over the course of six years, basically. And what they found is on average,

Out of those items that they tracked, 21 of the items actually got cheaper. 27 products got more expensive and the rest of them basically stayed the same.

And when you think about it, you're like, okay, that's interesting. That's not as much as I would have thought. Like I'm thinking everything has gone crazy. Everything's exploding. And so again, I'm like, okay, things have started to taper out. What's going on with this money? We're also seeing articles that are saying like people are spending more on their credit card than ever before. But at the same time, like investments are doing better than ever, ever before. So the question is, is there margin and what are people doing with it? Is it true that wages are actually outpacing inflation and,

And from your point of view, what do you think about that? Well, no, they're not. And they can't. It's unsustainable. So, for instance, if we look from a macro, so real big picture, you know,

you know, wages can't outpace inflation on the regular because it just gets to be too much. So there's this give and take between wages. It kind of comes up and down. It's a bit of a roller coaster. So even if you see it at a moment, you're saying it doesn't generally last. It does not. So you don't want to get into an apples for apples is what I'm saying. The conversation, this idea that, well, inflation over the last quarter was this, so wages should have done that. It's not how that works. You're looking at the total.

This is kind of a complex conversation, and I'm trying to keep it simple. Keep it simple. But you can't force on companies this idea when you're in an inflationary period like we had been, if you go back about two years ago, and inflation's really, really high, you cannot expect companies to go, well, because inflation is up here, I got to raise everybody's wages because that again...

That drives more inflation. Right. Because when they raise wages, they're raising their expenses. They pass those expenses. So you've got to be careful is my point. So this back and forth and trying to keep that, that's not what you want. What's interesting about this article, as you were talking, that I saw, the reason why people feel and really see it

At the grocery store. By the way, we saw this talked about in the media leading up to this last election. That's right. You saw it on MSNBC. You saw it on CNN and Fox. My point is it didn't matter what side of the aisle. Everybody was feeling the pinch on a lot of consumer goods. And this is what's interesting. If you look at 2019. Yeah. So this is right before the pandemic. Remember, just kind of a quick history lesson because this is crazy. It doesn't seem like it was that long ago. No, it doesn't. But here we sit.

almost five years. We're almost five years to the day, not quite, but five years, a couple weeks, when the pandemic really begins to hit the U.S. March, March. Yeah, that's when it started going bananas, but we now know it was at the Super Bowl. That's right. In Miami. Nobody knew. All right, so here's the point. So if we're January 2025, if you go to December 2019, U.S. prices cumulatively are up 23%.

That's where people are feeling it. For instance, a four-pound bag of Domino's sugar now costs $4.46. That's 74% more than 2019 compared to a dozen eggs, $4.90. That's 83% more. Tide liquid. I could keep going on and on. Why? These are the staples.

So when you're buying these every week, these aren't your splurges. Yeah, you feel it. So that's interesting. So, well, this is, then that's, that's kind of, I mean, it goes back to our conversation earlier when we were talking about the tariffs and new administration and that sort of thing. If we were feeling it before and it was because of other issues, you know, back then, right now they're saying the prices are up because of,

you know, all sorts, it could be utilities and insurances for businesses to run. And so they're passing that along to the consumer. It could be extreme weather, right, with crops. And so because of that, that

price is passing on to the consumer. But then if you add, I don't know, other things coming into this. So you're saying, basically what you're saying is, no, the consumer has every right to feel this. And even if they have... It's real. Yeah. So here's what's happened. You can't get all hung up in inflation cost per month because what happens is you have large spikes. So back to the quick timeline. This will be helpful for folks. We go into the pandemic, Jade, starts in, let's call it 2020, early 2020. Mm-hmm.

And the whole world shuts down. All right. So in that moment, you did have multiple, let's call it storms, converging for a massive once in a generation, I hope, financial storm. Yeah. One, the scarcity because we had supply chains interrupted. The whole world shut down for a while. Every state was different. Every country was like, what are we doing?

Secondly, demand did increase a couple months in when people started going, okay, I'm at home, I'm working from home, but I got to have food. Remember, we saw liquor stores, things spike. So here's what happened. This is interesting. So all of that comes into natural economic factors, which makes demand higher and scarcity, and that created an increase. Here's what this article says, and it's absolutely right.

I'm reading from this article. Big price increases are rarely followed by equally big price decreases. That's right. Well, it's like, that's what I want to tell everybody. It's not going to go back to what it was. That's the key point. While the inflation rate has cooled, your $4 sugar is here to stay. It's not leaving. That's what's unfortunate. Well,

Unless you get into depressionary and very serious recessionary forces, that can make those go down. But by and large, if we stay in a somewhat healthy economy, Jade, these prices are here to stay. Yeah, I mean, like you said, it's gone up 25%, but over the last year it's gone up less than 1%. So it's not still climbing at that ridiculous rate. Good news, bad news. Good news is inflation as we see it has cooled. Bad news is companies don't just go, well, you know what?

For the last five years, people have been paying $4.66 for this sugar, and we used to sell it for only $2. Let's go back to that. They're not going to go back. And so there comes in the evil capitalism cries and the rub between... By the way, this is the tension that exists in America today. Absolutely. Is people go, wait a second.

You used to charge me this. Now you're charging me this. Come on. Think about it. So there's the tension. Sam and I went out to dinner and, you know, everybody has the menus on the screen now that you do the QR, which I hate. I'm tired of that. Because it makes you get your phone out at dinner. Not going to those places. But they figured out. That was one of the things that they figured out. This is a lot cheaper for us. Right. And we ain't going back. Yeah. They're not going to print menus. You know what else they figured out? Go to the coffee shop in my neighborhood.

Sweet little gal makes me a coffee, then turns the screen and goes, Would you like a tip? I feel like going, no, I just want my coffee. This is the Ramsey Show.