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Home Alone For The Holidays

2024/11/27
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DeAnna Stagliano
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DeAnna Stagliano:作为一名离婚后独自抚养孩子的单身母亲,DeAnna在节假日感到既渴望陪伴又害怕随便开始一段新的关系。她坦言自己已经单身三年,并积极寻求心理治疗,希望在未来的感情中做出更好的选择。她非常重视对孩子的保护,努力为他们创造美好的回忆,即使这让她感到身心俱疲。她分享了自己的婚姻经历,以及离婚后所经历的悲伤、羞愧和孤独感。她努力通过忙碌来麻痹自己,避免面对负面情绪,但她也意识到这并不是长久之计。她对前夫的家人仍然怀有爱意,但家庭内部的一些创伤也让她感到难过。她很感激前夫的新女友对孩子们很好,但她仍然需要时间去疗伤和适应新的生活状态。她希望在未来的感情中,能够找到一个能够与她一起成长,并且不会让她失去自我的伴侣。 Sheryl Burke:Sheryl作为一名单身女性,她对单身状态表示满意,并不渴望伴侣。她认为单身是一种选择,并且能够让她更好地专注于自我成长。她分享了自己在离婚后的经历,以及她如何通过治疗和自我反思来克服悲伤和羞愧感。她认为离婚是一个净化和悲伤的过程,需要时间去疗伤。她鼓励DeAnna要学会享受独处时光,并认识自己。她认为在节假日独自一人参加家庭聚会可能会让人感到尴尬和不知所措,但她认为这是一种正常的人性反应。她分享了自己如何通过忙碌来麻痹自己,避免面对离婚后的悲伤。她也鼓励DeAnna要学会给自己一些空间和时间,去疗伤和自我成长。 Kelly Ben-Simon:Kelly也分享了自己的单身经历,她认为婚姻被高估了,并不急于结婚。她重视陪伴、合作和承诺,但她不希望与伴侣共同持有财产。她认为自己还在学习如何处理感情问题,并对未来与伴侣一起过节感到担忧。她喜欢独自旅行,并认为这让她能够更好地认识自己。她分享了自己在工作中独自旅行的经历,以及她如何平衡工作和家庭生活。她鼓励DeAnna要学会给自己一些空间和时间,去疗伤和自我成长。她认为在节假日单身也有一些好处,例如可以随心所欲地做自己想做的事情,不必顾虑他人的感受。

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Why is DeAnna Stagliano struggling with the holidays?

DeAnna is struggling because she's navigating the holidays as a single parent after a divorce, dealing with co-parenting, and trying to create a positive environment for her children.

What advice do Kelly and Cheryl have for DeAnna regarding companionship?

Kelly and Cheryl suggest that companionship is deeply overrated and that DeAnna should focus on herself and her children, emphasizing the importance of self-love and not rushing into relationships.

How long has DeAnna been single after her divorce?

DeAnna has been single for about three years since her divorce was finalized this year.

What does DeAnna think about therapy and healing?

DeAnna believes she has had too much therapy and is now 'too healed' to date, suggesting that her extensive therapy has made her overly critical of potential partners.

How does DeAnna plan to handle her first Thanksgiving alone with her kids?

DeAnna plans to have her father and his wife join them, focusing on creating wonderful memories for her children and ensuring they feel loved and happy.

What does DeAnna think about her ex-husband's new girlfriend?

DeAnna is grateful that her ex-husband's girlfriend is kind to her children and acknowledges the double-edged sword of co-parenting with someone who has moved on.

How does Kelly feel about solo traveling during the holidays?

Kelly loves solo traveling and finds it therapeutic, though she admits to always feeling the need to return home to her children, even when they are older.

What are some benefits of being single during the holidays according to the podcast guests?

Benefits include the freedom to eat, drink, and wear what you want, buy gifts for yourself, and avoid the stress of dealing with in-laws or other family dynamics.

What is DeAnna's New Year's resolution?

DeAnna's resolution is to do more things that genuinely make her happy, focusing on self-love and expressing that happiness to others.

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The hosts and guest discuss the challenges and strategies of navigating the holidays as single parents, including co-parenting, protecting children from parental conflict, and the emotional toll of divorce.
  • Deanna Stagliano shares her experience of co-parenting during the holidays.
  • The importance of protecting children from parental conflict is emphasized.
  • The emotional toll of divorce and the need for therapy are highlighted.

Shownotes Transcript

Former Bachelorette, now single, DeAnna Stagliano, is not holding back for the holidays. She’s struggling and sharing all about it. Navigating the holidays with an ex and co-parenting is not easy. Are Kelly & Cheryl the best to be giving advice? We’ll see. Ready to find love again? Want dating advice?Email us at: [email protected]) or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)

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