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How To Shift Your Money Mindset To Unlock Financial Freedom | Anas Bukhash

2025/4/2

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Lewis Howes: 我过去曾因不值得和不可爱而努力追求成就和成功，直到我开始疗愈并与自己建立整合的关系，才有所转变。这让我明白，真正的成功不仅在于外在的成就，更在于内心的平和与满足。我的新书《Make Money Easy》成为纽约时报畅销书，感谢大家的支持，这证明了人们对财务自由和更丰富生活的渴望。 Anas Bukhash: 美国人对待金钱的态度比较个人主义和竞争性，而迪拜则具有强烈的创业精神和合作性。迪拜是一个年轻的创业之城，许多人在这里创业并获得成功。迪拜的高安全性和便利性吸引了许多富人，但这并不意味着那里只有富人。在迪拜，人们对财富和丰裕的看法更为主观，他们更关注生活质量而不是仅仅追求巨额财富。在阿拉伯和亚洲文化中，谈论金钱通常被认为是禁忌，这导致许多人缺乏财务素养。我过去缺乏财务素养，但在过去五年里开始关注被动收入，并学习如何更好地管理我的财务。与那些成长于富裕家庭的人相比，那些并非出身富裕家庭的人对金钱的态度可能更谨慎和务实。我相信吸引力法则的关键在于内在的信念，而不是外在的言语或行动。建立自信需要通过实践和不断尝试来积累经验，即使失败也能从中学习并提升自信。我遇到的迪拜王室成员都非常有见识和教养，迪拜的快速发展得益于领导者的远见卓识和对人民的投资。迪拜的主要收入来源是旅游业，而不是石油。在阿联酋，政府为国民提供许多福利，例如免费教育和住房贷款，以支持家庭的建立和发展。强大的家庭单元对迪拜的快速发展至关重要。定期祈祷可以帮助人们暂停、反思和调节情绪，从而提升生活质量。我的多个业务在不同年份表现不同，我不会为了赚钱而祈祷，而是专注于提升自身和业务。我每天都会写日记，记录我的感恩、日常活动和愿望，这有助于我实现目标。 Anas Bukhash: 我不建议人们在年轻的时候结婚，因为20多岁是人生中非常重要的发展时期。我从离婚和单身十年中学到了很多关于自我和人际关系的知识，并对婚姻有了新的看法。在过去两年里开始探索自己的脆弱性和开放内心，这与我之前对控制和安全的追求形成了对比。我认为建立亲密关系需要进行内在的工作，了解自己的模式和内在的伴侣形象。我在治疗中最大的收获是剖析自己行为模式背后的原因。我最大的障碍是脆弱性，这与我童年的经历和社会对男性的期望有关。我认为在未来建立一段亲密关系，需要我克服脆弱性和控制欲，并找到一个能够互相滋养的伴侣。我过去十年里的单身生活让我体验了自由，但也让我意识到，亲密关系的价值远超于此。我需要找到一个能够互相滋养的伴侣，并且能够在亲密关系中感受到安全感和归属感。我个人对伟大的定义是主观的，每个人都有自己对成功的定义，而我的目标是提升人们的思维方式。

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I sat down with Anas Bukhash, the biggest talk show host in Dubai and a successful entrepreneur running multiple businesses in the UAE, for a fascinating conversation about wealth, culture, and relationships. Having lived in both America and Dubai, Anas offers a unique perspective on how these contrasting societies approach money. He reveals how Dubai's entrepreneurial energy creates genuine wealth-building opportunities that many Americans struggle to find, despite the "American Dream" narrative. Through vulnerable reflections on his early marriage, subsequent divorce, and ten years of singlehood, Anas also shares his evolving journey toward emotional intimacy and the inner work he's doing with his therapist to understand his patterns. His insights on balancing business success with personal growth offer valuable wisdom for anyone seeking to build meaningful prosperity in both their financial and emotional lives.

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In this episode you will learn:

How Dubai's entrepreneurial culture creates wealth-building opportunities that differ fundamentally from the American economic landscape
Why growing up in wealth versus earning it yourself creates different relationships with money and success
The surprising role that daily prayer plays in creating structured pauses for reflection and emotional regulation
How vulnerability and control issues in relationships mirror our approach to business and success
The critical difference between "casual" relationships and true emotional intimacy in creating lasting fulfillment
Why the strength of family units and support systems play a crucial role in Dubai's rapid development
How therapy can help identify unconscious patterns that affect both our business decisions and personal relationships
Why parenting styles often condition boys to suppress emotions, creating challenges for emotional expression later in life

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