We're sunsetting PodQuest on 2025-07-28. Thank you for your support!
Export Podcast Subscriptions
cover of episode BREAK YOUR NEGATIVE THINKING - A Motivational Speech to Inspire Change

BREAK YOUR NEGATIVE THINKING - A Motivational Speech to Inspire Change

2025/2/23
logo of podcast Motivational Speech

Motivational Speech

AI Deep Dive AI Chapters Transcript
People
演讲者
Topics
演讲者:我坚信,我们每一个念头和言语都在塑造着我们的未来。如同思想传递到宇宙,宇宙接纳并将其转化为我们的体验。很多人对此并不理解,觉得荒谬,但如果你能接受这个事实:每一次思考和言语都在描绘你的未来,创造你的生活,你就会发现,这虽然简单,却不容易接受。 我们无法控制很多事情,但我们可以控制自己对生活的反应。停止关注你所没有的,转而感激你所拥有的一切。记住,你所思考的东西会不断扩张。如果你总是想着你所没有的,那么你所没有的东西就会越来越多。如果你总是想着你讨厌某人的地方,那么你对他的厌恶之情也会越来越强烈。所以,当你发现自己有负面想法时,告诉自己,这是旧的想法,我不再选择这样想了。然后尽快找到积极的想法来取代它。记住,你要尽可能地感受快乐。痛苦、怨恨、责备和内疚会让你痛苦不堪,这是你真正想要摆脱的习惯。 当我们谈论一个快乐的世界时,这意味着你想要的一切都实现了。这就是你所追求的。所以,你只需要致力于创造一个和平、快乐和充满爱的世界,无论是为你自己还是周围的人。每天早上,如果你带着这样一个简单的想法开始你的一天:今天,无论我去哪里,我都会创造一个和平、充满爱和快乐的世界。即使你一天跌倒一百次,那又有什么关系呢?对于一个坚定的人来说,失败是不存在的。如果你跌倒一百次,那就是一百次学习的机会。如果你这样坚定地投入,你就会创造你真正关心的事物。你的思想就会变得井然有序。一旦你的思想井然有序,你的感受也会井然有序。你的情绪也会井然有序。 一旦你的思想和情绪井然有序,你的能量就会朝着同一个方向运转。一旦你的思想、情绪和能量井然有序,你的身体也会井然有序。一旦这四者都朝着同一个方向运转,你创造和实现你想要的东西的能力就会变得非凡。你就是创造者。你生活中95%的事情都来自潜意识。所以,你只需要看看你的生活,看看它,然后问问自己:为了什么?看看哪些事情是你想要的,并且很容易就得到了,因为你拥有让这些事情发生的程序。但你为之奋斗的事情,你努力工作的事情,你必须付出很多努力的事情,你为什么这么努力?答案很简单:因为你有一个看不见的程序在破坏你。所以,现在你突然说,我需要改变什么?我说,看看你的生活,告诉我你有什么困难,因为那是阻碍你发展的程序的直接体现。 有很多方法可以获得我们生活中想要的东西,但基本上这一切都始于我们如何选择思考。你怎样想,你就会怎样。我认为这七个字是我们一生中可以学习和掌握的最重要的事情。这句古老的谚语的意思是:我每天都在思考什么,我就会变成什么。一旦你知道你所思考的东西会不断扩张,你就会开始谨慎地思考。你不会让你的思想停留在任何你不想拥有或不想出现在你生活中的东西上。跨越变化的河流,创造过程现在变得令人兴奋,因为你想在你的大脑中激发和连接什么样的想法?你想要什么样的关注和意图,让它成为你脑海中最响亮的声音?如果你不断练习,硬件就会变成软件程序,它会说:杰伊,你可以做任何事情。杰伊,你生活在没有时间限制的世界里,你可以完成所有的事情。杰伊,你是无限的。你只需要坚持下去。在这另一边是伟大。无论你想在里面编程什么,你都可以编程进去。我们是否足够爱自己, 投入精力,努力做到诚实、真实和客观地对待自己,以便我们能够成为最好的自己?最终,它归结于如此简单的事情。它也可以像我们选择的那样复杂。但作为一名科学家,我必须告诉你,生活很简单。大自然很简单,直到我们用符号、文字和数学把它弄复杂。所以,这一切都归结于爱。我们是否足够爱自己,投入精力来诚实地面对自己是谁。当我们学会爱自己并信任我们的高我时,我们就会与无限仁爱的世界精神共同创造。我们对自己的爱使我们从受害者转变为赢家。我们对自己的爱会吸引美好的体验来到我们身边。 你有没有注意到,那些对自己感觉良好的人天生就很有吸引力?他们通常有一种美好的品质。他们对自己的生活感到满意。事情很容易且毫不费力地来到他们身边。在你认识到你是自己生活的主宰,没有人应该为你的处境负责之前,其他任何事情都不会为你奏效。如果你愿意,你可以称之为因果报应。你可能不相信这个概念,但所有成功人士都知道它在某种程度上是正确的。没有人能够改变自己,除非他意识到是他自己创造了自己,并且他的自我形象不是一成不变的,而是在不断变化的。为什么有一天你感觉快乐自信,而第二天却感觉悲伤沮丧?大多数人会说,这是因为发生在他们身上的事情导致了他们情绪的波动。 但这给了外部世界权力,而外部世界实际上完全无力影响你内心的思想和情感,除非你给予它充分的许可。在这个世界上,对自己的思想和情感负全部责任并不是一个普遍的选择。这更像是相信其他事情导致了这些情绪,因为它消除了个人责任的压力。当你可以坐下来责怪其他人时,为什么要拥有你的人生体验呢?好吧,你有选择的自由,但我强烈建议你从现在开始更明智地选择,并开始选择个人成长的道路,而不是停滞或衰退的道路。我挑战你重新拥有你的力量。 从今天起,你将开始打破你为自己制造的枷锁。你将不再沉溺于悲伤或自怜。你将不再责怪他人或其他事物导致你的不幸。你将觉醒于你自我导向和控制的力量。你将比过去做出更好的选择,并养成新的思维、感觉和行动习惯,引导你走向梦想中的生活。人们往往在最黑暗的时候找到光明,因为黑暗促使我们找到摆脱它的方法。无论你现在正在经历什么,我都鼓励你把它都看作是好事。生活中消极的经历挑战我们变得更好,做得更好。它把你带到了这里,这是一件美好的事情。感谢你的挑战,因为它们引导你到达你应该去的地方。 如果你想要过美好的生活,你就必须练习把每个人和每件事都看作是天生美好的。当你的想法不如意时,你怎么能快乐呢?你不能。快乐是一种选择和习惯。你可能现在以一种非常悲观或无力的方式看待世界,但这仅仅是一种习惯,而习惯可以在任何时候改变。你可以选择以不同的方式看待事物。你可以选择停止评判那个人或情况,并开始接受它本来的样子。你可以选择爱那些恨你的人。你可以选择和平而不是争论。这一切都是一种选择。我们都戴着不同颜色的眼镜四处走动。一个人戴着灰色眼镜四处走动,说:“看,一切多么悲伤,都是灰色的。” 而另一个人戴着蓝色眼镜四处走动,说:“看,多么美丽!”一切都是蓝色的。谁对谁错?谁又能说得准呢?世界是你自己创造的。如果你对自己的生活不快乐,那只是因为你习惯性地以不快乐的方式感知生活。扭转局面所需要的只是重新掌控你的决定权。让自己摆脱自动驾驶模式,开始有意识地关注你的思想和感受。它们不是一成不变的。你如何看待和体验事物是可以改变的。不是根据你外部发生的事情,而是根据你选择在你内心体验的事情。 最令人愉悦的时刻是我们完全沉浸在我们正在做的事情中的时刻。当我们专注于一件事情时,我们就会体验到内心的平静。换句话说,没有思想。由于思考的行为是造成世界上许多不快乐和痛苦的原因,因此完全超越思考将是值得的。没有思想,只有和平和纯粹的喜悦。大多数人无法想象不思考会是什么样子。思考是人类的本性,但它可能是福也是祸。在许多情况下,思考实际上并不是必要的。 我们的身体中存在着一种不可思议的智慧,它能够引导我们成功地度过人生。事实上,比我们思考着度过人生更成功。思考会模糊我们的本能和直觉,实际上会阻碍我们的进步。当我们完全摆脱思想,处于当下时刻时,我们可以轻松地做出决定,并在我们所做的一切中体验到快乐。即使是最简单的事情,当你体验它们本来的样子时,也能带给你巨大的快乐。也就是说,在没有任何评判或标记的情况下体验它们。 你以前体验过这种没有思想的状态,回想一下你一生中一些最美好的时刻。这些时刻很可能是在没有思想的状态下度过的,这正是这些时刻如此令人愉悦的原因。有很多方法可以让你进入当下时刻并体验没有思想的状态,但其中最简单的方法就是简单地做那些带给你最多快乐的事情。也许是演奏乐器、阅读、户外远足或与孩子共度时光。无论是什么让你非常享受的事情,你都应该多做一些。沉浸在你能够让你摆脱思想并进入当下时刻的活动中,因为这些活动具有伟大的意义。 它们能够让你认识到你的真实本性,并向你展示快乐是你多年来积累的所有思想层之下自然的状态。虽然这些活动似乎只是暂时缓解你的痛苦,但它们实际上让你能够进化并治愈你的痛苦。当你找到你的快乐并沉浸其中时,你就更接近于意识到快乐总是触手可及。你体验的快乐越多,再次找到快乐就越容易。最终,你将能够根据自己的意愿感到快乐,无论环境如何。多做你爱做的事情,你就会体验到更多的快乐,并有更多的爱给予他人。许多看起来冷漠且与世隔绝的人,是那些感觉自己几乎没有什么值得活下去的人。如果他们发现了自己的热情,并沉浸在对这种热情的艺术表达中,他们将拥有比他们现在所能想象的更多值得活下去的东西。 做你爱做的事情,做让你快乐的事情,这并不是自私的。这是你能为他人做的最慷慨的事情之一。只有当你的杯子满了,你才能给予任何东西。找到你的快乐,这样其他人也能受到启发去做同样的事情。

Deep Dive

Shownotes Transcript

Translations:
中文

During President's Day savings at the Home Depot, get up to 35% off select appliances. Plus, save up to an extra $450 on select appliances like Whirlpool. Shop the side-by-side fingerprint-resistant stainless steel refrigerator with an indoor can caddy.

or the fingerprint-resistant stainless steel top-controlled dishwasher with three 5-inch shelves. Make the most of President's Day savings and our lowest prices guaranteed at The Home Depot. How doers get more done. See homedepot.com slash price match for details. See store online for details. Minimum purchase required.

Your data is like gold to hackers. They'll sell it to the highest bidder. Are you protected? McAfee helps shield you, blocking suspicious texts, malicious emails, and fraudulent websites. McAfee's secure VPN lets you browse safely, and its AI-powered text scam detector spots threats instantly. You'll also get up to $2 million of award-winning antivirus and identity theft protection, all for just $39.99 for your first year. Visit McAfee.com. Cancel any time. Terms apply.

Well, the simple part that most people don't understand is that every thought we think and every word we speak is creating our future. It's as though our thoughts go out into the universe and are accepted and brought back to us as experience.

Now that is a very simple thing, but most people don't get it. They don't understand it. They've never heard it before and they think it's ridiculous. But if you can really accept the fact that every time you think a thought and every time you speak a word, you are literally painting your future, making your dinner, whatever you want to call it. You are creating and you're creating your own life. And this is simple, but it's not easy to accept.

There are a lot of things that are beyond our control. But what you do have control over is how you react to whatever happens in your life. Stop focusing on what you do not have and shift your consciousness to an appreciation for all you are and all that you have. Remember, what you think about is what expands. If you think about what you don't have, then what you don't have will expand. If you think about what you don't like in someone,

that what you don't like in someone will expand. So when you catch a negative thought, just think to yourself, this is an old thought. I no longer choose to think that way. Then find a positive thought to substitute for it as quickly as you can. Remember, you want to feel good as much as possible. Thoughts of bitterness, resentment, blame and guilt make you feel miserable. And that is a habit you really want to release.

When we say a joyful world, that means everything that you want is happening. So this is all that you're looking for. So all that you need to do is commit yourself to creating, to create a peaceful, joyful and loving world, both for yourself and everybody around you. Every day in the morning, if you start your day with this simple thought,

in your mind that today, wherever I go, I will create a peaceful, loving and joyful world. If you fall down hundred times a day, what does it matter? For a committed man, there is no such thing as failure. If you fall down hundred times, hundred lessons to be learned. If you commit yourself like this, you're creating what you really care for. Now your mind gets organized. Once your mind gets organized, the way you think is the way you feel. Your emotions get organized.

Once your thought and emotion is organized, your energies will get organized in the same direction. Once your thought, emotion and energies are organized, your very body will get organized. Once all these four are organized in one direction, your ability to create and manifest what you want is phenomenal. You are the creator. 95% of your life is coming from the subconscious. So all you have to do is look at your life.

And just look at it and say, for what? I say, what comes to you that you want and it comes to you easily, you have programs to allow that to happen. But what you struggle with, what you work hard on, what you have to put a lot of effort into, why are you working so hard? And the answer is simple. Because you have an invisible program that is sabotaging you from that point. So now all of a sudden you say, well, what do I need to change? I say, well, look at your life.

and tell me what you're having trouble with because that's the direct expression of a program that's not supporting you. There are many ways to get the things that we want for ourselves in our lives but basically it all begins with how we choose to think. As you think, so shall you be. Seven little words that I think are perhaps the most important things that we can learn and master in our lives. This old proverb notion

that I become what I think about all day long. And once you know that what you think about is what expands, you start getting real careful about what you think about. You don't allow your thoughts to be on anything that you don't want, or that you wouldn't want to have manifest or show up for you in your life. Crossing that river of change, the creative process now gets exciting because what thoughts do you want to fire and wire in your brain? What kind of attention and intention

Do you want a place so that that becomes the loudest voice in your head? And if you keep practicing it, the hardware becomes a software program and it'll say, Jay, you can do anything. Jay, you live in no time and accomplish everything. Jay, you're unlimited. You just got to hang with it. On the other side of this is greatness. Whatever you want to program in there, you get to program in there. Do we love ourselves enough to

to put the energy, to put the work into being honest, truthful and factual with ourselves so that we can become the best version of ourselves possible. Ultimately, it boils down to something that simple. And it can be as complex as we choose to make it. But as a scientist, I have to tell you, life is simple. Nature is simple until we make it complex with symbols and words and mathematics. So it all comes down to love. Do we love ourselves enough

to put the energy into being honest with ourselves about who we are. As we learn to love ourselves and trust our higher power, we become co-creators with the infinite spirit of a loving world. Our love for ourselves moves us from being victims to being winners. Our love for ourselves attracts wonderful experiences to us.

Have you ever noticed that people who feel good about themselves are naturally attractive? They usually have a quality about them that is just wonderful. They are happy with their lives. Things come to them easily and effortlessly. Nothing else will work for you until you recognize that you are the creator of your own life and that no one else is to blame for your circumstances. Call it karma if you will. You may not believe in the concept

but all successful people know it to be true in some way or another. No one can change himself until he realizes that he is the one creating himself and that his self-image is not fixed in stone, but constantly changing. Why is it that one day you can feel happy and confident and the next day feel sad and depressed? Most people will say it's because of what is happening to them that causes their fluctuations in mood.

But this is giving power to the outside world, which is actually completely powerless to affect your inside world of thoughts and emotions, unless you give it full permission to do so. Owning full responsibility for one's thoughts and emotions is not a common choice in this world.

it's much more comfortable to believe that something else is causing them, because it takes away the pressure of personal responsibility. Why own your experience of life when you can just sit back and blame everyone else for it? Well, you have the freedom to choose, but I strongly suggest that you choose more wisely from now on and begin to choose a path of personal growth rather than one of stagnation or decline. I challenge you to reown your power.

From this day forward, you will begin to break the chains of your own making. No longer will you wallow in sadness or self-pity. No longer will you blame someone or something else for your misfortune. You will awaken to your power of self-direction and control. You will choose better than you have in the past and make new habits of thought, feeling and action that lead you to the life of your dreams.

It is often in the darkest times that people find the light, because the darkness motivates us to find a way out of it. Whatever you are going through right now, I encourage you to think of all of it as good. The negative experiences in life challenge us to be better and do better. It has led you right here, which is a wonderful thing. Feel grateful for your challenges because they guide you to exactly where you need to be.

if you want to have a good life then you have to practice seeing everyone and everything as inherently good how can you be happy when your thoughts are anything less than pleasant you can't happiness is a choice and a habit you may see the world right now in a very gloomy or disempowering way but it is simply a habit and habits can be changed at any moment

You can choose to see things differently. You can choose to stop judging that person or situation and start accepting it for what it is. You can choose to love the people who hate you. You can choose peace rather than argument. It is all a choice. We all walk around with different colored lenses on. One person walks around with gray lenses and says, "Look how sad, everything is gray."

while another person walks around with blue lenses and says, "Look how beautiful!" Everything is blue. Who is right and who is wrong? And who is to say? The world is of your own making. If you are unhappy in your life, it is only because you have been habitually perceiving life in an unhappy way.

All it takes to turn things around is to re-own your power of decision. Snap yourself out of autopilot mode and start bringing conscious attention to your thoughts and feelings. They are not set in stone. How you see and experience things are changeable. Not according to what happens outside of you, but according to what you choose to experience within yourself.

The most enjoyable moments are the ones where we are fully immersed in what we are doing. When we are intently focused on one single thing is when we experience peace of mind. In other words, no thought. Since the act of thinking is responsible for much unhappiness and suffering in the world,

It would be worthwhile to transcend thought altogether. Without thought there is only peace and pure bliss. Most people can't imagine what it would be like to not think. Thinking is the human condition, but it can be a blessing or a curse. Thinking is actually not necessary in many cases.

There lies an incredible intelligence in our bodies that has the ability to guide us through life successfully. More successfully, in fact, than if we were to think our way through life. Thinking clouds our instinct and intuition and can actually inhibit our progress. When we are completely free of thought and in the present moment, we can make decisions with ease and experience happiness in everything we do.

Even the simplest of things can bring you immense joy when you experience them as they are. That is to say, experience them without judging or labeling them in any way.

you've experienced this state of no thought before, think back to some of the best moments of your entire life. It's very likely that those moments were spent in a state of no thought, and that's exactly why those moments were so enjoyable. There are a variety of ways that you can

get into the present moment and experience no thought, but the easiest of them all is to simply do the activity that brings you the most joy. Perhaps it's playing a musical instrument, reading, hiking outdoors, or spending time with your children. Whatever it is that you thoroughly enjoy, you should do more of it. Immerse yourself in the activities that get you out of your head and into the present moment because those activities serve a great purpose.

They serve the purpose of allowing you to realize your true nature and showing you that joy and happiness is your natural state beneath all the layers of thought you have accumulated over the years. While these activities may seem like only temporary relief from your pain, they actually allow you to evolve and heal your pain.

When you find your bliss and immerse yourself in it, you are one step closer to realizing that happiness is always available to you. The more bliss you experience, the easier it is to find it again. Eventually, you will be able to feel happy at your own choosing, no matter the circumstances.

Do more of what you love to do and you will experience more happiness and have more love to give to others. Many people who seem cold and withdrawn from the world are people who feel as if they have little to live for. If they only discovered their passion and lost themselves in artistic expression of that passion, they would have more to live for than they could now imagine.

Doing what you love and what makes you happy is not selfish. It is one of the most generous things you could do for others. Only when your cup is full can you give anything away. Find your bliss so that others may be inspired to do the same. I can say to my new Samsung Galaxy S25 Ultra, hey, find a keto-friendly restaurant nearby and text it to Beth and Steve. And it does without me lifting a finger, so I can get in more squats anywhere I can. One, two, three.

Three. Will that be cash or credit? Credit. Galaxy S25 Ultra, the AI companion that does the heavy lifting so you can do you. Get yours at Samsung.com. Compatible with select apps requires Google Gemini account results may vary based on input check responses for accuracy. Imagine what's possible when learning doesn't get in the way of life. At Capella University, our game-changing FlexPath learning format lets you set your own deadline so you can learn at a time and pace that works for you.

It's an education you can tailor to your schedule. That means you don't have to put your life on hold to pursue your professional goals. Instead, enjoy learning your way and earning a degree without missing a beat. A different future is closer than you think with Capella University. Learn more at capella.edu.

My dad works in B2B marketing. He came by my school for career day and said he was a big ROAS man. Then he told everyone how much he loved calculating his return on ad spend.

My friend's still laughing at me to this day. Not everyone gets B2B, but with LinkedIn, you'll be able to reach people who do. Get $100 credit on your next ad campaign. Go to linkedin.com slash results to claim your credit. That's linkedin.com slash results. Terms and conditions apply. LinkedIn, the place to be, to be.

Are you still quoting 30-year-old movies? Have you said cool beans in the past 90 days? Do you think Discover isn't widely accepted? If this sounds like you, you're stuck in the past. Discover is accepted at 99% of places that take credit cards nationwide. And every time you make a purchase with your card, you automatically earn cash back. Welcome to the now. It pays to discover. Learn more at discover.com slash credit card. Based on the February 2024 Nielsen Report.