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From novel, listen to The Bunny Trap on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Carefully Reckless, a production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect. And just like that, y'all, we are back with yet another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl, Jess Hilarious. So listen, what I do is...

As I be fixing people's mess, y'all, and y'all know I love it. I have a different intro every single time. Tell me if y'all think I should get an intro for Just Fix My Mess because I have one on Breakfast Club for Just With The Mess. I got one on Breakfast Club for Just With The Mess. I don't have an intro for Just Fix My Mess for my podcast for Caffey Breakfast Under The Black Effect.

you know what I'm saying, so I'm mad at that, you know, that's something that I should voice, y'all should go spam Charlamagne's comments, the black effect, and I heart, and breakfast club, fucking throw them in there too, spam, Jess Hilarious needs her own intro for Jess Fix My Mess on her podcast that we listen to, we tune into each and every Wednesday, and so we can't be having her fixing people's mess if she not gonna intro it right,

So I need an intro. So we're going to definitely, we are, what is this called? Boycotting. We are boycotting and rioting for Jess's intro. All right, that's what we're going to do.

Alright, but we're going to jump right into it. Now, we don't have voice memos this episode because people don't want their voices to be known and that was explained. And I do understand. Your mate going to know your voice. You calling in about your boyfriend, that nigga, if he listen to Caffley Reckless, he going to know it's you. So please, tread lightly, y'all. Tread lightly, y'all. I'll be reading. This is from a woman. Hey, Jess, I need help. So I've been with my fiance for a year and a half and it's been pure hell. Damn.

Okay, so you was good all the way around. Okay.

That's just what it is. Within that time, I found out I was pregnant. So we agreed to just continue to live together. Okay.

right before i found out i was pregnant i let him use my car to go to work one night and he ended up totaling it oh man i made him put down the down payment on another car because he was somewhere he wasn't supposed to be oh okay i know the fuck that's right but no you don't make him put a car a down payment on the new car because he was somewhere he wasn't supposed to be you make him put the fucking down payment on the new car because he totaled your shit and that wasn't his

So I pay the card note, the insurance, the rent, electricity, and so on and so forth. Now this is where the real issues begin once he found out I was pregnant. He started disappearing on me. On his payday, he would go lay up with whoever and come back home once he's broke. I'm pregnant and emotional, so I take him back. That was a lot to digest in that last little sentence. I'm going to run it back for those in the back.

On his payday, he would go lay up with whoever and come back home once he's broke. I'm pregnant and emotional, so I take him back. Oh, baby. I would say mistake number two, but it was so many other mistakes leading up to this one. I'm going to let you go in.

This becomes an ongoing thing. During the middle of my pregnancy, I caught COVID really bad. So I ended up on bed rest. Oh, Jesus. I started getting unemployment shortly after and I was still paying all the bills myself. When I can time what I'm trying to figure out what this is saying, y'all hold up. Give me a second. Y'all got to, you know, because when they write, they write a little fast. I told y'all to make sure y'all punctuate everything.

Or punctualize. Or punctualize when y'all writing. Shit, I'm trying to figure it out. So this is, see if, I'ma see if, I'ma read it and then I'ma see if I can make sense of it. When I came time to renew my lease, my unemployment had ran out.

and I end up having to move with his mom. Okay, so anyway, it happened like this. I'm gonna just break it down. When it came time to renew the lease, my unemployment had ran out, and I ended up having to move with his mom. I thought this move would help me as far as childcare and being able to save. Two months after moving in with his mom, he quits his job.

Damn, so now you got two headaches.

Hmm. Him and his mom. So when she gets real sick, I'm the one that has to take off work and make sure she's taken care of. I have fallen completely out of love with him, but I have a lot of love for him because he's still my child's father and given the history that y'all went through. So, yeah, I don't know what to do because I don't have family that can help me, especially with child care. So I feel like I'm obligated to stay in a miserable place in order to make sure my child is taken care of.

I am stressed to the point where I've lost almost 20 pounds in a month. Please, Jess, keep it real with me and help me fix my mess. Love you bunches. Baby, I love you too. And this is why I'm about to get in your ass because I love you. This is going to be some tough love. But baby, if it ain't coming from none of your friends, if it ain't coming from your mom, I don't know the relationship between y'all. Even if it didn't come from his motherfucking mom.

Who he couldn't even move with at first. You see that? That's a red flag. You lost your job and had to move in with his mom. You know, you're pregnant. You were already paying the fucking bills. Every single bill there was to pay, you were paying it. So you were already superwoman in your own house. You was already doing bad by yourself with a nigga who ain't...

worth two shits, I'm sorry, excuse me, but this is exactly what you're giving me, so I'm just regurgitating it back to you, and sometimes that is the advice, you hearing your own shit thrown back at you, to make you further realize what you need to do, all right, now, we can't put the baby back, no, we can't, and I know you do not regret your child, I would never regret any child that I had, that I gave birth to because of the father,

So that's one thing. So we have a baby. We know that we knew that he was sick.

Un-fucking-reliable before you found out you were pregnant. You know what I'm saying? He had to move in with you. Like you said, that was your first mistake. Why couldn't he move in with his fucking mother? All right? Because he likes to be taken care of. You moved him in and you enabled him. Yep, you played a part in him being lazy. You played a part in him not being able to handle his responsibilities. You allowed it and then you expected for him to change.

Yeah.

You know what I'm saying? So you enabled him. Then you lost your job. Y'all had to move in with his mom. He got a job after two months. He he quit. Hold on. Wait, let me go back. I don't want to misquote you after two months. Yeah, he quit. He didn't even get fucking fired. He quit his job after moving in with his mom. Why? Because his mom ain't going to put him out.

his that's one thing his mom ain't gonna put you out and if she ain't gonna put you out she ain't gonna put him out there we go right there she's not obviously you two have built the bond because you over here taking care of her now like you not pregnant and bedridden you're supposed to have been put on bed rest because you caught covid shit happens so now you're even more in shambles you know what i'm saying do you see this pattern

Nine months later, fast forward, the baby's here. He still ain't got no fucking job. And you're taking care of not only him, but his mother and your baby. So you got three people to take care of.

Two kids and a mom. Because I'm sorry, your baby daddy is your kid. That's exactly what you need to be claiming his ass on taxes or something. Writing that motherfucker off. I wish you could write off somebody. I really wish you could. A grown ass people. But it sounds as if you know exactly what the hell you need to do. You said you've fallen out of love with him already. You're in a miserable place.

You just you just trying to make it work to take care of your child. You lost 20 pounds in a month being stressed, trying to figure out where your next check won't come from. Then also you got this man that you're taking care of. And now his mother, you don't want to leave his mother high and dry. Does he have any siblings? Does it is there any way that if you don't do it, he'll step up and fucking do it? You know what I'm saying? You that's a big responsibility. You let her put your name down as emergency contact. You got your own shit going on, baby.

You know what I'm saying? Where's your mom? Where's your family? You know what I'm saying? It's not good. And then the first thing that you said, so I've been with my fiance for a year and a half and it's been pure hell. He proposed to you with no intention on giving you a fucking wedding. You know what I'm saying? And I'm saying that because look at the place you're in right now. If he can't even pay bills, how the fuck he gonna pay for a fucking wedding? How? I need you to understand that.

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I'm Ellie Flynn and I'm an investigative journalist. When a group of models from the UK wanted my help, I went on a journey deep into the heart of the adult entertainment industry. I really wanted to be a playboy model. Lingerie, topless. I said, yes, please. Because at the centre of this murky world is an alleged predator.

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Hey, y'all. Niminy here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Historical Records brings history to life through hip hop.

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That could be worse. That are worse than yours. So you're not completely in the goddamn dumps. No, you're not. If you still got good credit, you still got breath to breathe every time you wake up, you have a chance to change your situation.

There you go. And the reason why I say credit is because you need to get the hell out of there and get into your own shit. You still need to get another car. All right? You done let Jody crash your goddamn car up. Yes, I called him Jody. Yes, I did, Yvette. I called him Jody. And you done let this nigga Jody you. That's what it is. I ain't mad at him. I'm mad at your ass. Yes, I am. But unlike my brother Charlemagne, I'm not going to give you donkey of the day.

Because we live and we fucking learn. We live and we fucking learn. And you got a great blessing out the deal when that is your baby. So we will always move forward with grace. But listen, it ain't like he going to be fighting for custody and taking you downtown for child support, baby. He ain't even got a leg to stand on, you know. So we just pray for him and you keep it moving.

You keep it the fuck moving and you don't look back. Don't look back in that way. I don't mean you got to cut all ties with him because he's still your child's father and you still have a great amount of love for him. But have enough love for him to leave his ass all the way alone and let him get himself together because you can't make him get himself together. You got to let him get himself together and you can't make your child a part of that, that toxicity, that whole little situation going on.

Okay, because you got to do it all for your baby. You got to be mentally prepared for motherhood. You know, you got a child to raise. So shit is real. All right. Shit is real. Shit is real for you every day. All right. So I need you to check in with me. The advice is straight up to fucking leave. I'm sorry. Make him take care of his mother. We'll let him take care of his mother. He ain't gonna let her get so sick where she just, you know.

you know she just fucking croak you know if it's if it's you know where that's in his control you know he he can take care of his mother you need you are a mother you need to take care of your child because he can't do that with you right now um check back in with me i'm gonna need to know because i'm i'm i need you to get the fuck up out of there baby and we're moving on

This is from another woman, and there is no voice memo. She, oh gosh, she got emojis. She really about to main this shit. Okay. Hey, Jess, I just wanted to say that I'm proud of you, girl. Keep doing your thing, but I need help with my mess. So I was dating this guy for about three weeks, okay? The vibes was there. He cooked for me. We had drinks. I really like him. This nigga dropped the love bomb on me after the first week, but the nigga threw up a red flag. Two of them shits.

I have two jobs, two kids, and a house that I'm putting back together. The nigga asked me to help him pay his rent that he's behind on $1,800. The fuck is he on? Then asked me could I apply for a loan to help him. I immediately felt some type of way because the fuck?

He kept saying, bae, I just want you to have my back and love on me and do what I say. He had me fucked up, Jess. I'm too independent for this nigga. So he snapped on me because I said I'm not helping him out. Like, it's only been three weeks and I honestly feel disrespected. It's the audacity for me. Then what makes it so bad is I call feelings for his dinosaur dick ass. Jess, I listen to your show every time you drop episode. Does it? Okay, well, thank you. Um...

You ain't just going to... Hold up. Wait a minute. Time out. Flag on the play. Can we just go back to our corners real quick? Where the fuck you going to go from? She said, it's all dancing for me. Then what makes it so badass, I fell for his... I caught feelings for his dinosaur dick ass. Jess, I listen to your show every time you drop an episode. That's just how we going to end it, babe? How we...

Alright, so she's listening right now, so I gotta help you. I gotta help you, boy. I get it. And you're so pretty. I'm looking at your page, your profile. You're so pretty. Alright, girl. Here we go here.

It's all right. I'm just going to tell you, don't don't beat yourself up for falling for the dinosaur dick girl. Please don't. I don't. It's all right. Sometimes we get a little weak in the knees for a little dinosaur ding-a-lingy. It's all right. Sorry. I'm glad you listened to my episode, my episodes every time I drop one. And this one is for you, baby. Now we got a commercial. And if you click off this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen.

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Alright, so you seem to be very smart, alright? And look, after three weeks, girl, look, that's a flex. You had a nigga talking about he love you, alright? What's not a flex is him saying he love you and then following up with all this extra bills and expenses bullshit that he got going on like he just read...

drop all of that shit in your lap after three weeks so this was either his plan because this is what he does he saw you he know he know the power of his dino dick and he just was able to to win you over you know we got guys like that guys that prey on successful women with good hearts who like to save people this is the same girl from the last story put on her save a whole cake

And now she in the gutter right next to the nigga. Damn near in the goddamn gutter. With a baby taking care of his mother and him. And he done fucked up her credit, her life is in shambles and all this shit. That's what happens when you go from being a superhero and now you are a hurt villain. That's some bullshit, ain't it? That's like the story of the Joker. Everybody got a story, right? Every villain has a story because every villain wasn't born bad.

They were born great and they were actually saving people at first and then it got fucked over and then that hurt people hurt people shit then kicked in and now you're a villain.

Well, I don't want you to be a villain, young lady. I don't. I don't want you to hurt the next nigga because this nigga was a trash ball because that's exactly what it is. First of all, I don't doubt that he loved you after three weeks. You probably got good conversation. You probably different. You know, with all the shit that he told you, yeah, you different. I ain't never taught nobody like you.

like you really got good pussy pussy like you know he probably could have you know to match the dino dick i know you got some nice spicy pussy so y'all sex life was already booming all right

The red flag. You seem to know. See, I hate giving advice to people who already know what the fuck going on because you are, like I said, like I said in the last story, maybe you just need your bullshit regurgitated back to you so you know what you need to do. You just need to move the fuck on. You see?

You said he cooked for you. Y'all had drinks and you really liked them. That's good. That's a part of his plan. That's a part of his plan. Only thing he didn't give you was no money. That's because he had no money to give you. You had all the money to give back. He ended up billing you for that dinner that he cooked.

For all that Dino dealing he been dropping off and them good drinks, that's your bill. Now you got a goddamn bill. $1,800, you need to help him pay his rent. And this is how niggas think. You have two jobs, two kids, and a house that you putting back together. So that shit must have got blown down by the last nigga. Here come another nigga trying to blow down this house.

You gonna let them? Or what you gonna do? You gonna dust off your cape and save your goddamn self. Don't keep saving these niggas, bitch. Not saying you. I'm just speaking into the universe. Stop saving these niggas, bitches.

That's what I need for y'all to, you know, and I can be all nice and wholesome with you. Stop saving these guys, ladies. But y'all don't understand when somebody talk to y'all like that. Because that's how you fucking almost ended up paying an $1,800 rent that wasn't even yours. While trying to put your house back together. So yeah, I'm yelling at you because I ain't mad at this nigga. I'm mad at you. Because something tells me.

That if you still asking for advice, that you still fucking with this nigga here and there. After that little three weeks. And you probably didn't pay $1,800, but you probably gave him $800 toward the $1,800. I don't know. You need to tell me if I'm right.

Because you're talking to me now. You're talking to me. Don't bullshit me. You done did something to help this nigga. All right? You did something. And that's probably why you feel disrespected. And it's only been three weeks. And you upset because you caught feelings. Because, you know, no, you didn't help this nigga. You helped him. And it don't look like he made a change or he going...

Do anything to pay you back. It don't look too good. You either let her move in that goddamn house. Something you ain't telling me. Now, you're going to have to come back and tell me because I know you because I was you before. And I don't want you to be how I was any longer. So I'm going to need you to tell me what I'm missing.

out of here what you failed to tell me you to help this nigga out and you need to stop for you end up like the girl from the first story who ended up pregnant and had a baby by a nigga who she had to take care of so now she got two damn kids the baby and the father that's not where you want to end you want to end up in the gutter you don't want to end up in the gutter with a baby but sometimes that happens and I'll continue to pray for you if you

end up there because my sister's looking at me like bitch you being too hard on all right so I I don't want to be too hard on you I'm gonna pray for you and I love you but I know you lying to me about something something you holding back so you you better tell me every fucking thing tell me

And just like that, we've come to the end of another carefully reckless with your girl, Jessalarius, fix and mess the way I be fixing it. Each and every Wednesday, make sure you catch me on iHeart, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, anywhere you can catch a podcast set, you can catch mine. And in my deepest Pam voice, peace.

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We want to speak out and we want this to stop. Wow, very powerful. I'm Ellie Flynn, an investigative journalist, and this is my journey deep into the adult entertainment industry. I really wanted to be a player boy in my adult. He was like, I'll take you to the top, I'll make you a star. To expose an alleged predator and the rotten industry he works in. It's honestly so much worse than I had anticipated. We're an army in comparison to him.

From novel, listen to The Bunny Trap on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey everyone, it's John, also known as Dr. John Paul. And I'm Jordan, or Joe Ho. And we are the Black Fat Film Podcast. A podcast where all the intersections of identity are celebrated. Ooh, chat, this year we have had some of our favorite people on, including Kid Fury, T.S. Madison, Amber Ruffin from the Amber and Lacey Show, Angelica Ross, and more.

Make sure you listen to the Black Fat Femme Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts, girl. Ooh, I know that's right. Hey, y'all. Niminy here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Executive produced by Questlove, The Story Pirates, and John Glickman, Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop.

Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. Did you know, did you know?

Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts.

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