She felt obligated to stay for her child's sake, despite being in a miserable situation and having no family support for childcare.
She was paying the car note, insurance, rent, electricity, and other bills while pregnant and unemployed.
Her unemployment ran out, and she had to move to save money for childcare and living expenses.
Jess advised her to leave the toxic situation, focus on her child, and not enable her fiancé's irresponsibility any longer.
He asked her to help pay his $1,800 rent and even suggested she apply for a loan for him after only three weeks of dating.
She admitted to catching feelings for him despite his red flags, including his
Jess advised her to stop saving men and focus on herself, avoiding the pattern of enabling irresponsible behavior.
Jess emphasized the importance of self-respect, financial independence, and not enabling partners who display irresponsible or toxic behavior.
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