Jess Hilarious criticizes the concept of being a 'ride-or-die mistress' because it diminishes a woman's self-worth and makes her overly available to a man who is not fully committed. She emphasizes that women should not settle for being second or third in a man's life and should demand respect and exclusivity in relationships.
Jess advises the woman to leave the man and stop chasing him, as he will never fully commit to her. She suggests moving out of the building they share and starting to date other people to shift her focus away from the toxic relationship. Jess also encourages her to recognize her own value and not settle for being someone's second choice.
Jess supports the listener's decision to cut off her family if it was necessary for her mental health and well-being. However, she suggests considering therapy to address the trauma and potentially reconcile with her family in the future. Jess also reassures her that she can still find love and that a good man will understand her situation.
Jess points out that the woman has never been the man's first priority, as he has also been involved with another baby mother for 15 years. She advises the woman to stop diminishing herself and to learn to co-parent without continuing a romantic relationship with him. Jess emphasizes the importance of self-love and finding a partner who values her exclusively.
Jess reassures the woman that she can still find love, even if she is not close with her family. She advises her to be honest with potential partners about her family situation when the relationship becomes serious. Jess also encourages her to focus on building a healthy relationship with herself and not let her family issues define her dating life.
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