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Hello, hello, beautiful souls, and welcome to the Claim Your Power podcast, the ultimate show for all things New Age spirituality, entrepreneurship, and embodied leadership. I'm your host, Kim Peretz. I'm an author, entrepreneur, and yoga enthusiast. If you're ready to step up, tap into your gifts, and unleash your potential, you are at the right place. It's time to claim your power.
Hello, my beautiful friends, and welcome back to the pod. I have missed you guys so much. So I know that I've been taking a little break from the podcast, but baby, I'm back and I am better than ever. So the reason I was taking a break to give you guys a little life update is because I've been in Costa Rica for the past month. I have always had a dream to earn my yoga license, my 200-hour YTT license.
I have finally found the time and dedication to do it this year. So I'm officially a certified yoga instructor. So there'll be a lot more yoga videos and just yoga content coming for you guys. But I just wanted to pop on here first before we start the episode and just say how grateful and
I am feeling for all of you guys who come on the pod and listen. It genuinely fills my heart so much to hear the messages you guys send me on Instagram or on TikTok about how much you resonate and feel aligned with the podcast because at the end of the day, I am creating these episodes
for you, for the collective, and I'm just feeling so grateful to have this beautiful community and this beautiful family. And yeah, I just wanted to say I love you guys. Okay, enough about that. Let's dive right into the episode topic. So...
Today is going to be a solo episode and we're going to be talking all about how to alchemize your heartbreak and come home to yourself and your personal power. So this episode is for you if you are someone right now maybe that is processing a heartbreak or a breakup.
Maybe it was a month ago, maybe it's six months ago, maybe it just happened yesterday, but I am here to empower you. This episode is going to empower you to realize the power of divine timing, to realize the power within yourself.
and to really activate and alchemize the pain that you are going through right now into your greatest destiny, into your greatest, greatest shift in your life. So right now, as you're listening to this episode, you may be feeling different emotions such as guilt, anger, shame, sadness, frustration, resentment,
And I want to tell you, I want to start off by saying that there is nothing wrong with feeling these emotions because emotion is energy in motion. And it's really, really important for you to allow these feelings to come up
and hold space for yourself as you feel these feelings. Because the more you suppress these feelings, the more you avoid feeling them, they will just come back because your emotions get stored in the body. Energy gets stored in the body and the way to release it is to feel it, to hold space for it, and to accept it for what it is.
Because when you start to accept those emotions, when you start to honor them for as they come, not how they should be, you will be able to start healing through them and opening yourself up again. Now, this episode is really tailored to someone who wants to rise up from a heartbreak.
because I can make an entirely different episode that is just about like, you just went through a heartbreak, let's talk about it. But this episode, my intention for this episode is really for the people who have gone through the pain, who have experienced the emotions and are ready to step forward. They are ready to create a shift in their lives and they are ready to let go. So I just want to say that if you are someone who has just really recently been going through a breakup,
This episode may not be for you because my intention for this episode is to empower you to move on. And I believe that in order to move on, you need to feel. So if this is something, if your breakup is incredibly fresh to you, if it is something that has happened very recently, if it is something that you're
My advice to you would be to not seek advice right now. My advice to you would be to be present in your feelings, to be present in your emotions, to reflect, to empower yourself.
And to really surrender to the feelings that you are experiencing right now. I think so many of us, right when we go through a breakup and we lose that one person we love, or we think we lost that one person we love, when really they didn't walk out, we didn't lose them, they freed us. Because everything happens for your greatest, highest good.
And I think when you first go through a breakup, a lot of us just are so quick to be like, okay, how am I going to move on? Where do I go? How am I going to feel better?
But the way you're going to feel better is starting by just feeling. It's starting by having awareness for how you feel, for your experience, and embracing the ebb and flow of life. The human experience is not all love and light. Your soul came onto this earth to experience the pain and the heartbreak just as much as it did the pleasure and the joy. Because that is the duality of this planet. That is the duality of earth.
It's the pain and the pleasure, the joy and the sadness. And we find the neutrality, we find the inner peace amidst all of these experiences. You have to realize that when a relationship ends or when somebody walks out of your life, there is a divine purpose to it.
Now, it might not seem like it right away. And maybe the divine purpose is for them to walk out and then walk back into your life in a different time. But the truth is, and what you need to hear right now, is that person is no longer part of your life. But you know who is?
You. Because you will never abandon yourself. You will always be by your side. And this experience is teaching you to awaken the strength within you. Something that brought me a lot of peace when I was going through my own heartbreak is realizing that this is a mutual collective feeling that basically every single human being that comes on earth feels.
We have all gone through our own version of heartbreak. And the reason this brings me peace is because when a relationship ends, when a love ends,
it really doesn't end. Love never dies because the love that you need is all within you and you always have access to experience it. Now, let's say you just ended a very long-term relationship. You were incredibly committed to each other. It feels incredibly daunting to
It feels, maybe you are feeling unworthy, maybe you are feeling feelings of shame and guilt or just confusion and all these feelings are completely normal. But what I can tell you is that these emotions will not last forever because just like you found that person and that love with that person, you will be able to find that love again within yourself.
Every single relationship that ended, every single rejection, every single heartbreak is a redirection. And it may not be clear now, the picture may be foggy now, but I can promise you that soon things will clear up and you will start to understand what the purpose of this relationship was for you and the lessons that it served you as a soul on this earth.
Your heartbreak is going to be alchemizing your greatest expansion and the greatest growth and shift that you have seen in your life. Because this heartbreak, whatever that you went through specifically, allowed you to open your heart. And in order for your heart to be open, it has to break.
And I know that's a tough thing to hear, but we have all gone through it. And understanding that this love that supposedly feels like it ended really lives and is ignited within yourself will allow you to activate this sense of personal power that you have never seen before.
Because now is your time to discover you, to discover your identity as a whole and has you come. Because that person, they never completed you. They were an addition to your life. They were part of your world, but they are not your world. And I think many of us get caught up in these codependent cycles and these codependent relationships where we think, wow, this is the end of the world because that person walked out of my life.
They did not walk out of your life. The universe is working behind the scenes. It's doing everything in its power to make sure that everything is aligned in your life for your highest good. So if somebody is not a vibrational match for you, if somebody is no longer serving you, the universe will not allow you to sit and
and waste your power and waste your life on a relationship that is no longer serving you. This heartbreak is your time to realize that you are always whole and complete on your own, that your power and your love lies within yourself. And so you can take this heartbreak and all the pain that you went through and alchemize it into something so much greater than yourself.
Take this time to work on you, to come home to yourself, to love yourself again, to fall in love with yourself again, to discover your worth, to unleash your potential because this heartbreak, I am telling you, is awakening the strength within you. This heartbreak is an activator. It's a stepping stone for something so amazing. This is just the ebb and flow of life. So there's the cycle of transformation.
where you are in your normal and then you experience chaos and confusion. Then you have the sense of revelation and then you have an integration period and then it's your new normal.
And so usually when we are going through a heartbreak, we are in the chaos and confusion. But the way the life cycle works and the cycle of transformation works is right after the chaos and confusion, you have a revelation. Boom. You realize something about yourself. You realize something about your worth.
Then you have an integration. You start to integrate new habits. You start to integrate new thoughts. You start to integrate new feelings into your life, new passions. You start to discover yourself and come home to yourself. And suddenly, before you know it, you are in your new normal.
And this new normal is no longer with that partner. This new normal is within yourself. It's with a sense of self-love and independence and gratitude and clarity. And you have to realize that you are going to get to that new normal.
And I know that you were going through the chaos and confusion. I know it because I have been there. But what I can also tell you because I've been there is that the chaos and confusion does not last forever. And soon you will be integrating into a new revelation. You will be integrating into a new frequency, into a new lifestyle, into a new path that is so much greater than you can ever imagine. The universe speaks in three things.
let me tell you the one thing i know about the universe is that it never says no it's only yes not yet or i have something better so if the reason that you and your partner ended your relationship
was because it is not the divine timing for it, then you will find your path again. But right now is your time to let go and trust that there is no intervening with fate because if you two are meant to be together, you will naturally, at its course, find your way back. There will be no resistance, no blockages, and you will not have to force anything.
Now, if your relationship ended because it is no longer serving you, it is not because you do not deserve love. It is not because you are unworthy. It is because the universe has something better for you, a more vibrational match, something better than you could ever imagine. And when you are first going through a breakup, that is the last thing that you want to hear. And that's why I said that this episode is for the people who have gone through the pain, have gone through the wounds, and are ready to step up.
up and rise up from the pain. I can promise you that the second you set the intention towards healing, the second you take all your energy and access back into you, back into yourself and come home to you,
you will start to integrate amazing shifts in your life. The universe always, always, always has your back. Even if it doesn't seem like it. Even if right now it seems like this is the worst case scenario and the worst thing in the world, I can guarantee you that maybe in a year, in a few months, in five years, I don't know in how long, you will look back with much more clarity on the situation. But right now, this heartbreak is a lesson from the universe to show you that you are stronger than you think.
to show you that you are independent, that you are whole and complete on your own. And I am telling you that the second that you embody that, the second that you embrace that frequency, you will find a love within yourself that you have never experienced before. Now is your time to come back to you, to ask yourself and reflect, how can I show more love to myself?
How can I embrace and embody more of my passions? How can I embody more of my independence? And this is your time to play. This is your time to discover who you are outside of a relationship, to discover that you are whole and complete on your own and that you do not need anything outside of you to validate your worth because you are strong and powerful as you come.
You deserve to love yourself. You deserve to feel valuable. You deserve to feel worthy. And do not sit around waiting for someone that walked out of your life. Because the waiting frequency is not serving you. You should never be in a waiting mode. You should always be focusing your energy back into you. And if that person walked out, let them walk.
Let them walk. Keep walking, baby. Let them walk. I'm going to say it a bunch of times in this episode. Let them walk. If somebody walked out of your life, do not chase them. Do not try to hold on because no matter how hard you try to hold on to something that is no longer serving you, the universe will not allow you to do that. And the signs will get louder and louder and louder until you have no other choice but to let them go.
And so my advice to you would be to surrender to this experience, to find the strength within yourself, to let go of the expectations, to let go of how it should have been and accept the situation for as it is.
Because that is how you will find and integrate inner peace back into you. It's understanding that everything that you need is within yourself and that when somebody is no longer serving you and somebody walks out of your life, there is a higher purpose to it. And you can look back with that relationship with gratitude for the lessons that you learned, for the things you learned about yourself in that relationship and take all the good things that you learned and apply them back into your own life.
And soon when you continue to do that, your heart will slowly and slowly open back up. And when you are ready and when your soul is ready, you will attract another person into your life to show you more lessons, to show you another experience. But right now is your time to show that experience to yourself. Become the person you want to attract. It's time for you to rise up, baby. ♪
Beautiful souls, thank you so much for joining me in today's episode. As always, feel free to DM me on Instagram if you have any topic suggestions for future episodes or if you would like to apply to be a guest on the show. I hope you feel inspired to claim your power today. Bye.
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