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Caregiver: You Can('t) Enjoy Life During Hard Times

2025/5/6
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Tamara Dias: 我之前的生活非常以自我为中心,专注于个人计划和目标,忙碌而缺乏同理心。照顾父亲后,我的生活完全围绕着他展开,每天都要考虑他的需求,计划行程时也要顾及他的情况。成为照护者后,我的生活充满了不确定性,长期处于战斗或逃跑模式,直到最近才开始尝试建立包含休息的日常作息。我负责管理父亲的医疗团队、预约、保险等事务,相当于他的项目经理,处理各种繁琐的医疗和生活事务。即使在照顾父亲的艰难时期,我仍然完成了写作并出版了一本书,这证明即使在困境中也能实现自己的目标。我的治疗师帮助我走出生存模式,让我意识到即使建立了完美的系统,也无法解决生活中不可避免的不完美之处。在艰难时期,寻求帮助并感激那些愿意提供支持的人非常重要。 Lauren Will: 作为一名倾听者,我与Tamara分享了类似的经历,例如在照顾生病的亲人的同时,需要兼顾工作和生活,以及在处理突发事件时的压力和挑战。我强调了在艰难时期保持自我照顾和寻求支持的重要性,并赞扬了Tamara在困境中取得的成就。

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Taking care of family members can be mentally and physically demanding. But while taking care of others, how do you take care of yourself? Dr. Tamara Dias became a caregiver after her father experienced multiple strokes. She talks about relatable experiences as she shares her time and energy with her loved one.

This episode is a reminder that you can do great things in the midst of hard times. Don't forget that you have to be mindful of your own well-being while being supportive to others. Embrace the fact that life can be both imperfect and phenomenal at the same time.

In this episode you'll hear about:

  • what life looks like as a caregiver, 
  • building a routine that incorporates rest, 
  • living in fight or flight mode, 
  • waking up each day and not knowing what to expect, 
  • the mental and administrative demands of caretaking, 
  • how seasons change in life, 
  • writing a book during hard times, 
  • balancing your wants with what others need, 
  • postponing joy, 
  • getting out of survival mode, 
  • the importance of therapy while you're a caretaker, 
  • letting go of control when there is no playbook, and 
  • ask for help

At the end of the episode, we reframe her limiting belief "you can't enjoy life during hard times" to fit more within Tamara's desired reality. Stay tuned until the end to shift your mindset.

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