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Ask Uncut - An Ick From The Aisle, A Suspicious Training Camp and A Cheating Boss

2025/5/18
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Britt: 作为一名孕妇,我发现怀孕期间的疾病对我的影响很大,但我的伴侣 Matt 似乎并没有完全理解这一点。他一开始会表现出同情,但时间长了就会失去耐心。我爱他,但他在这方面需要改进。 Keeshia: 我也有同感。我的伴侣对我不舒服时的漠不关心让我感到不舒服。他总是说我经常不舒服,好像这是我的错一样。我理解他是一名医生,需要处理真正的紧急情况,但这并不意味着我的感受就不重要。 Laura: 我认为重要的是要记住,总是有人比你更糟,但这并不意味着你不能有感觉。Britt,你的感受是完全有效的。Keeshia,你的伴侣也需要更加体贴。

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Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep and burning question. First up, what time period of empathy do you get from your partner/friend/family when you’re feeling unwell? Is it prolonged or does it have a steep decline? 

******Vibes for the week:**Britt - DOG Taste Boosters https://dogbydrlisa.com/products/dog-taste-boosters)Keeshia - Careless People by Sarah Wynn-Williams Book )Laura - Weleda Skin Food https://www.weleda.com.au/product/skin-food-75ml-g009398)

Then we jump into your questions!

FEELING ICKY ABOUT DAD WALKING ME DOWN THE AISLE

I am getting married soon and feel a bit icky about my dad walking down the aisle with me. I’m not a fan of the tradition of being “given away” from one man to another. For context, I’m not super close with my dad but we don’t necessarily have a bad relationship. My parents are quite traditional, growing up my dad was the “provider” and mum a SAHM, so I really didn’t have much of an emotional connection with my dad. I know it will upset my parents if I tell them I want to walk down the aisle by myself, so I’m not sure if I should just suck it up to keep the peace. What should I do? 

BF WENT AWAY FOR WORK TRAINING AND IS VERY CLOSE WITH A WOMAN THERE

My partner has just left for 5 months to be trained in his soon to be career. I was obviously very sad that he was going but proud of him. The week before he left I noticed that he was acting a little strange and constantly texting somebody. I’ve never had an issue with this before as my partner is very loyal and loving. When I was looking at something on his phone, a girl‘s name popped up. When I asked him about it he never said her name, just said it’s the “guys”. It was a message from her about said training, so I had a look and found messages back and forth about how excited they are to see each other down at the training. Something didn’t feel right, we had a conversation about how this made me feel and I was still left feeling weird about it all. The day before he left every time I looked at his phone he was talking to her and flicking his screen up so the messages went away. I asked him if he could not be so chatty with this girl and that I didn’t like it as they were about to be spending months together and having very limited communication with me. Should I bring this up again with him about how it makes me feel and that I would like for it to end??! I want him to make new friends and focus on his training but I can’t stop thinking about this situation. I don’t want to be constantly worried about this for 4-5 months.

DO I TELL SOMEONE THEIR WIFE IS CHEATING?

My boss—let’s call her Sally—confessed to me ten months ago that she had a fling with a married man during a business trip. She was convinced she was in love and even planned to move to America for him. That ended, but for the past eight months, she’s been secretly seeing another guy in a different state. The problem? Sally has two kids and a long-term partner, Fred, who thinks she’s traveling for work. In reality, she’s been maintaining a whole other relationship. Meanwhile, Fred is an amazing, supportive father who has no idea what’s going on. Sally has shared way too many details with me and swore me to secrecy. But I feel awful. I was cheated on by my ex-husband, and when I found out, it crushed me that so many people knew and stayed silent.Now, Sally and Fred are semi-separated but still living together. She plans to tell him this new relationship just started—but I know she’s been cheating for over a year, likely longer. Do I tell Fred? I don’t want to blow up his life, but I would have given anything for someone to have told me. What would you do? 

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