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Inspiring Them, Not Forcing Them

2025/2/27
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Jim Daly: 与成年子女保持联系的关键在于建立并维持良好的关系,而不是强迫他们接受建议。父母在孩子没有积极回应时,不应该停止付出爱和努力,而应该持续地表达爱意。父母应该像神爱我们一样去爱孩子,即使孩子没有回应,也要持续地追求他们的心。 Carrie Kempakis: 父母不应该预设孩子的道路,而应该尊重孩子的选择,即使这与父母的期望不同。强迫孩子坚持他们不感兴趣的活动可能会适得其反,让他们对该活动产生厌恶感,甚至永远放弃。即使孩子暂时放弃了某个活动,他们也可能在未来重新燃起热情,父母应该给予他们空间和时间。 Danny Huerta: 父亲应该对女儿的兴趣爱好表示关注,并积极参与其中,即使自己并不擅长。父亲应该积极倾听女儿的想法和感受,并鼓励她们表达自己的想法。当孩子想要放弃时,父亲应该耐心倾听,了解孩子背后的原因,而不是直接给出解决方案。

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How do you encourage your kids when they seem distant or uninterested in persevering? Kari Kampakis joins Jim Daly to talk about a time she encouraged her daughter to stay with a particular activity. Then, Danny and John will share how you can inspire your kids to follow what they're passionate about.

 

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