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579: 4 steps to become more confident & calm | Gabby Bernstein

2025/2/9
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Gabby Bernstein: 我在本书中分享了基于内部家庭系统疗法(IFS)的四步法,帮助人们提升自信和平静。IFS疗法帮助我们理解和接纳自己内在的各个部分,包括那些保护性模式和信念。通过关注内在感受,培养好奇心和同理心,我们可以与内在的自我能量连接,从而获得平静和自信。这个过程并非需要强大的自信,只需要意愿。即使是面对焦虑,我们也可以运用同样的四步法,将焦虑视为保护机制,并通过同理心和连接来化解焦虑。 在日常生活中,我们可以运用这四步法来处理各种挑战,例如人际关系问题、工作压力等。通过持续练习,我们可以逐渐减少逃避行为,增加与自我能量的连接,最终提升自信和掌控感。 在与孩子相处时,我们也可以运用IFS的原则,引导孩子处理情绪,帮助他们建立安全感和自信。 Jason Wachub: 作为一名企业家,我深知高效工作的重要性,同时也意识到持续的压力和焦虑。Gabby分享的IFS疗法为我提供了一种新的视角,让我能够更好地理解和处理自己的焦虑和压力。通过练习Gabby提出的四步法,我开始关注内在感受,并尝试与焦虑的部分建立连接,这让我感到更加平静和自信。 Gabby的分享也让我对高效工作和精神层面之间的平衡有了新的理解。我意识到,只有在平静和自信的状态下,才能做出更明智的决策,并取得更大的成功。 此外,Gabby的分享也让我对如何教育孩子有了新的认识。通过引导孩子关注内在感受,并给予他们同理心和支持,我们可以帮助他们更好地处理情绪,建立自信和安全感。

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“All that's required is the willingness to heal,” explains Gabby Bernstein.  

Gabby Bernstein, #1 New York Times bestselling author, spiritual teacher and entrepreneur, joins us to discuss her transformative 4-step process to truly connect to your inner self and heal, plus: 

  • Gabby’s introduction to internal family systems (IFS) (~2:35)

  • What is ISF? (~6:50)

  • The role of mindset (~10:25)

  • Emotional reactions (~12:20)

  • The role of gratitude (~14:07)

  • The relevance of ISF (~15:35)

  • The 4 step process (~18:55)

  • Anxiety as a protector part (~24:45)

  • Taping into your self energy (~28:00)

  • Demo of the 4 step process (~31:35)

  • The perspective shift (~39:45)

  • Confidence and willingness (~41:10)

  • Accessing prayer (~43:20)

  • The tension between willingness and surrender (~44:30)

  • Gabby’s non-negotiables (~47:30)

  • How to instill this in younger generations (~52:40)

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Join Gabby on her Change Your Life Tour in New York, L.A., San Francisco or Boston gabbyberntein.com/events)

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