A 100-day break allows individuals to fully establish the habit of not drinking and experience various life events—such as work stress, celebrations, and date nights—without alcohol. This duration helps make sobriety the new normal, whereas a 30-day break often involves two weeks of withdrawal symptoms and two weeks of counting down to drinking again, preventing a true rewiring of the reward system.
Casey recommends planning 'sober treats' daily, especially in the first two weeks. These can include activities like getting a pedicure, going for a walk, enjoying sushi takeout, or watching a movie. She also highlights the joy of waking up feeling clear-headed and enjoying quiet mornings with coffee as natural rewards of sobriety.
Abruptly stopping alcohol can lead to dangerous withdrawal symptoms, including shaking, nausea, and even life-threatening conditions. For individuals with a physical addiction, medical supervision, detox, or professional support is crucial to ensure safety during the withdrawal process.
Friends can support a newly sober person by not questioning their decision to abstain, avoiding pressure to drink, and offering non-alcoholic options. Simple gestures, like having their favorite non-alcoholic beverage on hand, can make them feel included and supported.
After quitting drinking, Casey found she had more time and mental clarity, which allowed her to pursue new opportunities like going back to school, leaving her corporate job, and starting a coaching practice and podcast. She also gained confidence and no longer felt imposter syndrome, which she had struggled with while drinking.
Casey advises eating something protein-heavy before attending, informing someone in advance that you’re not drinking, and avoiding volunteering as the designated driver. She also recommends stepping outside for a moment to check in with yourself and decide if you want to stay or leave.
If you want to drink less or give up alcohol completely, it's natural to feel scared or anxious at first. What do you do at parties? What if people think you're boring? And how can you deal with temptation? Casey Davidson, sobriety coach and host of the Hello Someday podcast, has tips for those starting a sobriety journey. And she argues that everyone would benefit from an evaluation of when and how alcohol shows up in their lives. Sign up for Life Kit's Guide to Dry January, our special newsletter series: http://npr.org/dryjanuaryLearn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices)NPR Privacy Policy)