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Jamie Elizabeth Thompson - Beyond Surface-Level Intimacy

2025/6/2
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Connor:作为男性,我一直想了解女性在性方面真正的需求和渴望是什么。我发现很多男性朋友对此感到困惑,因为我们常常被线性的思维方式所束缚,想要找到一套明确的步骤来满足女性。但我也意识到,这种方式可能并不适用于亲密关系,因为女性的情感和需求是多变的。我希望能够创造一个让伴侣感到完全被欢迎和理解的空间,但常常不知道该如何开始。 Jamie:我理解男性想要寻求明确指导的愿望,但在与女性建立亲密关系时,更重要的是要转变思维方式。不要把性仅仅看作是缓解压力或履行义务,而要把它看作是一个探索和分享彼此深度的场所。创造一个安全空间,欢迎女性的所有情绪和感受,包括眼泪、愤怒和困惑。同时,也要理解女性的身体需要不同的方式才能达到完全唤起,给予她们足够的时间和关注。很多女性在性方面表现出表演性,这是因为她们受到了社会规范的束缚,想要迎合男性的期望。但这种表演反而会与真实的自我疏远。作为男性,要帮助女性打破这种束缚,鼓励她们探索自己的欲望,并与你分享真实的感受。 Jamie:我发现很多女性在性方面都有类似的困扰,她们常常感到不安全,不敢表达自己的真实想法。这可能是因为她们受到了“好女孩”的教育,认为性是危险的,或者害怕被贴上负面的标签。作为男性,要理解女性的这种心理,给予她们足够的信任和支持。可以尝试通过对话来了解彼此的欲望,营造一个安全的氛围,让女性可以自由地表达自己的想法。同时,也要认识到,女性的欲望是不断变化的,要保持好奇心,不断探索新的可能性。记住,性不仅仅是身体上的行为,更是一种情感的连接和灵魂的交流。

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Talking points: sex, relationships, culture

Editor's Note: FYI team, had some audio snafus that we did our best to remedy. Thanks for your understanding! Grateful that Jamie and I sat down to talk all things intimate relationships. From how culture keeps shaping what men and women respond to, desire, and miss out on, to helping both yourself and her feel not just comfortable but welcome. This is a great ep to listen to with a partner, my friends.

(00:00:00) - What most men need to know about women’s desire

(00:05:41) - Helping a woman feel like all of her is welcome

(00:13:58) - Helping a partner who isn’t fully comfortable with themselves

(00:30:18) - For couples that find themselves stuck in monotony or dead bedroom

(00:37:58) - Common challenges women face in the “tragic phase”, and how men can move to support them

(00:44:04) - Become a gardener, not a consumer

Jamie Elizabeth Thompson has developed a holistic body of work to support women, men, and couples with letting go of limiting patterns around sex so they can have a fulfilling intimate life and taste their most exquisite erotic expression. She is a radical contributor to the field of Sex Education and is a pioneer in creating original and lasting solutions for challenges in sex & intimacy. She speaks about sexual transmutation, the spark of erotic life force in all things, sex magic and how creative life force can be channeled into manifesting your truest desires.

Connect with Jamie:

-FREE 'Reset Ritual' before your ‘Sexy Date’ (for women): https://awakenedwoman.life/datenight/)

-Website: https://jamieelizabeththompson.com/)

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_awakened_woman)

-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/missjamieelizabeth)


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