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My Husband Won't Fix Anything
2025/5/25
Dr. Laura Call of the Day
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Christina
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Dr. Laura
Christina: 我和丈夫结婚23年，有两处老房子都年久失修，但他不愿花钱修理，这让我感到沮丧和羞愧。我丈夫一直有些抑郁，虽然最近有所好转，但他并没有积极地自我提升或接受治疗。我希望卖掉房子，但我又担心同样的问题会再次发生。
Dr. Laura: 你需要为自己的生活负责，不能把希望寄托在别人身上。所有的自助和治疗，如果不能让你采取实际行动改善生活，就没有意义。你应该找一份全职工作，经济独立，才能真正掌控自己的生活，改善居住环境。不要指望你的丈夫会改变，你需要自己主动承担责任。
Deep Dive
Christina, married for 23 years, describes the deteriorating condition of her two houses, inherited from her grandmother. Her husband's unwillingness to address the issue, despite recent improvement in his depressive state, is the main problem. Dr. Laura suggests Christina get a full-time job to address the house repairs and take initiative instead of relying on her husband or self-help methods.
- Deteriorating condition of two houses
- Husband's unwillingness to repair
- Wife's recent college graduation
- Dr. Laura's suggestion to get a full-time job
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