Hard pushing, or forcing oneself to tackle unprepared challenges, often leads to significant personal growth. It pushes individuals out of their comfort zones, requiring them to adapt quickly and learn new skills. Even if the outcome isn't perfect, the process itself builds resilience, confidence, and competence, often leading to unexpected breakthroughs.
Yang Yi was unexpectedly tasked with leading a full English-language cross-border meeting with a senior executive from a global dollar fund. Despite feeling unprepared, she decided to take on the challenge, which became a pivotal moment for her personal and professional growth.
Yang Yi prepared by working on a detailed PPT, translating it into English, and practicing her presentation extensively. She spent an entire night rehearsing, focusing on transitions, key points, and potential Q&A. Despite her preparation, she acknowledged that the actual delivery would still be challenging due to the complexity of the topics.
Yang Yi shifted her mindset from focusing on her performance to viewing the meeting as an opportunity for meaningful communication. She reminded herself that the goal was to exchange valuable information rather than to deliver a flawless presentation. This perspective helped reduce her anxiety and allowed her to focus on the content rather than her language skills.
They emphasized the importance of setting clear goals, practicing with intention, and committing to long-term consistency. Yang Yi highlighted that learning a new skill, like English, requires a specific purpose and regular, deliberate practice. They also stressed the need to prioritize and allocate time effectively to ensure sustained progress.
Watching movies or TV shows is often seen as an effective way to learn English, but it can be inefficient without structured practice. While it may improve listening skills, it lacks systematic learning of grammar, vocabulary, and pronunciation. For serious learners, targeted practice with specific materials is more effective than passive consumption of media.
Yang Yi recommended resources like 'New Concept English' for grammar, Lai Shixiong's pronunciation guides on Bilibili, vocabulary apps, and 'Business Vocabulary in Use' for business English. She also suggested using the 'Kaiyan English' app for practicing spoken English, as it focuses on real-life dialogues and pronunciation.
Clear goals provide direction and motivation, making the learning process more focused and effective. Without a specific purpose, efforts can become scattered and less impactful. Prioritizing also helps allocate limited time and energy to the most important tasks, ensuring consistent progress and avoiding burnout.
Hard pushing forces individuals to confront challenges they may not feel ready for, leading to accelerated growth and skill acquisition. It builds resilience, adaptability, and confidence, often resulting in unexpected achievements. Even if the immediate outcome isn't perfect, the experience itself is invaluable for long-term development.
Yang Yi's experience demonstrated that real-world challenges, even when unprepared, provide the best opportunities for learning. By diving into the meeting, she gained practical experience that significantly improved her English skills and confidence. This 'learning through battle' approach, as inspired by Mao Zedong's philosophy, emphasizes the value of direct experience over theoretical preparation.
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