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The Surprising Habits of Backable People with Suneel Gupta

2022/1/12
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Chris Hutchins: 分享了自己2009年被裁员后创办“失业者营地”的经历,以及在宣传过程中遭遇的虚假新闻事件,最终以一个真实报道结尾的故事,体现了在逆境中坚持和从失败中学习的重要性。 Suneel Gupta: 分享了自己因公司失败而登上《纽约时报》头条的经历,以及这个经历如何促使他反思失败与成功的关系,并由此开始研究如何使自己更具吸引力,从而获得他人的支持和拥护。他认为,成功并非单打独斗,需要周围人的支持和帮助;拥有出色想法的同时,更重要的是学会如何推销自己的想法,使自己变得“值得支持”。他提出了“中心人物”的策略,建议在向他人推销想法时,要善于运用故事的力量,以一个中心人物的故事来引发共鸣,再用数据佐证。他还强调坚定信念比个人魅力更重要,并建议在推销想法之前,先花时间说服自己,并准备好应对质疑。他介绍了构建“支持型圈子”的四个关键人物类型:合作者、啦啦队长、教练和批评者,并强调在寻求不同类型的支持时要明确自己的需求。他强调练习的重要性,建议进行多次“表演赛”来提升表达能力,并引用查理·帕克的例子说明熟能生巧的道理。他还强调将外部人士转变为内部人士的重要性,指出成功的关键在于让其他人为你的想法成为倡导者。他建议在会议中减少预先准备的内容,多留时间进行讨论,并强调做好讨论准备比准备演示文稿需要更多准备工作。他分享了在会议或活动中与陌生人建立联系的技巧,建议多提开放式问题,了解对方的需求和兴趣,并做好后续跟进。他分享了寻找不明显信息和独家信息的技巧,建议多进行实地考察和调研,并超越常规的准备工作。他还强调了在会议中管理自身能量的重要性,建议在会议间隙进行短暂的休息和调整,以保持最佳状态。他建议在遇到负面情绪时,要坦诚地表达出来,并将其与会议内容区分开来,以避免负面情绪影响会议效果。 Suneel Gupta: 讲述了自己如何利用失败的经历,通过向各行各业成功人士学习,总结出使自己更具吸引力的七个方法,并将其写成畅销书《Backable》;分享了在推销想法时,运用故事的力量,以一个中心人物的故事来引发共鸣,再用数据佐证的技巧;强调了坚定信念比个人魅力更重要,并建议在推销想法之前,先花时间说服自己,并准备好应对质疑;介绍了构建“支持型圈子”的四个关键人物类型:合作者、啦啦队长、教练和批评者,并强调在寻求不同类型的支持时要明确自己的需求;强调了练习的重要性,建议进行多次“表演赛”来提升表达能力;分享了将外部人士转变为内部人士的技巧,指出成功的关键在于让其他人为你的想法成为倡导者;建议在会议中减少预先准备的内容,多留时间进行讨论;分享了在会议或活动中与陌生人建立联系的技巧,建议多提开放式问题,了解对方的需求和兴趣,并做好后续跟进;分享了寻找不明显信息和独家信息的技巧,建议多进行实地考察和调研,并超越常规的准备工作;强调了在会议中管理自身能量的重要性,建议在会议间隙进行短暂的休息和调整,以保持最佳状态;建议在遇到负面情绪时,要坦诚地表达出来,并将其与会议内容区分开来,以避免负面情绪影响会议效果。

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Suneel Gupta discusses how he turned his public failure into a learning opportunity by reaching out to successful individuals for advice and understanding the importance of conviction over charisma.

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#37: Bestselling author Suneel Gupta joins Chris to discuss how to make your ideas sound so appealing to others that they not only adopt them but advocate for them. They talk about how to make failure work in your favor, why conviction and storytelling can be more compelling than statistics, why you should stop trying to be charismatic, and the power of going the extra mile. 

Suneel Gupta (@suneel)) is the bestselling author of Backable: The Surprising Truth Behind What Makes People Take a Chance on You). At one point of his career, if you googled “failure” you would get a New York Times article) featuring his story. He was the founding CEO of RISE, named app of the year by Apple, which was acquired by One Medical. Suneel later ran for US Congress, served on the faculty at Harvard University and is currently an emissary for Gross National Happiness between the US and the Kingdom of Bhutan.

Full show notes at: https://allthehacks.com/backable-suneel-gupta)

 

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Resources Mentioned

Connect with Suneel: Website) | Instagram) | Twitter) | LinkedIn)

Suneel's Book: Backable: The Surprising Truth Behind What Makes People Take a Chance on You)

New York Times article featuring Suneel’s journey of failure)

LaidOffCamp: Tech Crunch) | NPR)

 

Full Show Notes

(00:16) Who Is Suneel Gupta?

(01:38) Chris’ Crazy Story Getting Laid Off in 2009

(02:53) Suneel Gupta’s Viral Failure Story

(04:30) Making Failure Work in Your Favor

(05:50) Why Having a Brilliant Idea Is Not Enough

(07:38) Yes, You Can Do Anything You Want - But There’s a Caveat

(09:17) Why Casting a Central Character Can Be More Powerful Than Statistics When You Pitch to Investors

(14:23) Are Backable People All Charismatic People (And Why You Shouldn’t Try to Be Charismatic)?

(17:31) How Not Being Too Rigorous Can Help You (And 4 Types of People You Need in Your Backable Circle)

(26:58) Applying Lessons from the Failures of Successful People

(28:51) Non-Obvious Lessons from the Failures of Successful People

(34:21) Flipping Outsiders Into Insiders

(35:55) Building Muscle Memory for What You Want to Master

(38:31) What to Ask Instead of “What Do You Think”

(42:23) Why You Should Have Shorter Presentations

(50:52) Starting Conversations and Building Rapport With Complete Strangers

(57:30) The Energy You Give Off Matters

(59:40) Why You Should Go One Step Beyond What Anyone Else Would Do

(01:08:15) Preparing the Energy You Want to Bring and Calling Out the Negatives Upfront

(01:13:37) What Suneel Gupta Is Working on Now

(01:16:03) How to Connect With Suneel Gupta

 

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