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758. Anxious Attachment? Heal with Parts Work NOW to Find Your True Love

2025/4/3
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Krista Williams: 我通过分享最近的约会经历,讲解内在家庭系统、部分工作和依恋风格在约会中的作用。我离婚两年后开始约会,这段时间经历了各种情绪,也让我对自身有了更深的了解。我曾经用食物作为逃避和调节情绪的方式,现在通过内在家庭系统疗法,我开始接纳和爱护自己所有不想爱的部分,包括那些试图保护我的习惯和瘾。我意识到真正的自爱是接纳和尊重我们所有不想爱的部分,包括所有习惯和瘾。在约会中,我发现自己常常呈现特定的一面,观察对方是否能接受真实的自己。我过去认为男性只能接受我特定的一面,这源于我的成长环境和文化影响。我开始意识到,要与完整的人相遇,需要呈现完整的自己。我祈求遇到一个能在我展现力量时遇见我的男人。我害怕如果男性知道我的成功和能力,会因此而拒绝我。我想要成功和赚钱,但又担心这会让我在约会中被男性拒绝。我与一个男人相遇,他让我在精神层面得到了前所未有的满足,我们之间有很强的化学反应,这是一种业力关系,是灵魂的联系。这段关系让我有机会展现真实的自己,包括我的温柔和甜美。当对方说我“很甜”时,我感到害怕和脆弱,这触发了我内心的保护机制。男性看到我的温柔和内在小孩让我感到害怕,因为过去我曾被伤害过。当我们感到最脆弱和最连接时,往往是因为我们的内在小孩正在寻求连接和疗愈。我的焦虑感源于我的内在小孩在失去依恋关系后的失落和恐惧。我通过疗愈,与内在小孩建立了安全依恋,让她知道可以在任何时候展现温柔和甜美。这段痛苦的经历帮助我治愈了那些只能通过与男性连接才能体验到温柔和甜美的信念。我们可以将焦虑型和回避型依恋视为保护自己的部分。通过接纳和疗愈这些部分,我们可以与自己建立安全的关系,并与他人建立安全的关系。

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In this solo episode, Krista schools us on Internal Family Systems, parts work, and attachment styles, while sharing her most recent (+ vulnerable!) dating experiences. Gain a deeper understanding of your inner world to set you up for healthier relationships! 

Ahead, Krista opens up about embracing her inner child, discovering her authentic self, and navigating the wonders of being a newly single woman in her mid-30s. Whether you're freshly single or in partnership, this episode will help anyone feel more seen + understood. 

Craving more authentic connections? Krista details how to own your power in relationships + why it’s so important to be met at your spiritual depth. If you are struggling to confidently showcase all parts of yourself in your dating life, this episode is for you! 

We also talk about:

  • The impact of attachment styles in dating + relationships

  • Navigating the dating scene as a spiritually-minded woman

  • Understanding the dynamics of karmic relationships

  • The challenges + beauty of being vulnerable

  • Dropping dating apps for organic in-person connections

  • Insights from Krista’s personal healing journey post-divorce

  • Finding safety + security within yourself

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