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Consider me a friend

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Laura: 我建议如果想更好地了解某人,就主动表达出来。将其他人视为朋友,可以大大增加建立真正友谊的可能性。在日常生活中,你可能会遇到很多人,有些人你很了解,有些人只是泛泛之交,但可能有一些人你经常见到,并且想更好地了解他们。加深联系并不需要花费大量时间。简单地说,对方可以把你当成朋友,或者称他们为朋友,就能起到很大的作用。这能让对方知道,你欢迎加深彼此的联系。例如,当你偶然在杂货店遇到瑜伽同学时,可以把她介绍给你的孩子,说她是你的瑜伽朋友,这样一来,她就成了你的朋友。你肯定了你们之间每周课后聊天的关系。如果你正在与来自其他部门的同事完成一个工作项目,并且想保持这种关系,那就说出来吧。你可以说:‘我很高兴和你一起完成这个项目,我希望我们能保持联系。’尤其如果这位同事刚加入你的组织,或者职位比你低,你可以更直接地说:‘把我当成朋友吧。’你可以邀请他们,如果需要帮助,随时联系你。但无论如何,简单地表达你认为他们是宝贵的同事和朋友就足够了。因为当你们是朋友和值得信赖的同事时,当然可以互相寻求帮助或见解。在孩子暑期游泳队的最后一次见面后,不要像往常一样简单地向其他家长道别。如果你想和某个家长保持联系,那就告诉他们。你可以直接表达,而不会感到尴尬。简单地说:‘让我们保持联系’或‘把我当成朋友吧’,就能传达你的意思。或者用轻松活泼的语气说:‘发短信给我,朋友’,为继续保持关系铺平道路。让他们知道,你们的联系不必随着游泳季的结束而结束。一旦你肯定了你想从熟人变成朋友或亲密的同事,你可以采取一些步骤来促进这种关系。例如,如果你在吃午饭时在休息室看到同事,你可以提到你一直想尝试附近那家新开的越南餐厅,并问他们是否想和你一起去。问问你足球队孩子的妈妈是否想和你一起绕着球场散步。一个更低调的加深联系的方法是偶尔给对方发短信。如果你看到一些有趣的事情或让你想起他们的事情,可以发给他们。如果你知道对方去某个地方旅行了,可以问问他们有什么建议。最终,短信联系可以变得更深厚。鉴于很多人渴望更多的联系,我认为你不必担心这样做过于冒昧。大多数人都会感激你让他们知道他们可以把你当成朋友。你也许能够把一些事情安排到日程表上,一些你期待的事情。与此同时,我是劳拉,感谢收听,祝你充分利用好我们的时间。 广告: Better Woman是一种天然有效的膀胱控制产品,经临床测试,并受到女性25多年的信赖。它可以改善膀胱控制,减少尿频,提高睡眠质量,并增强自信。 supporting_evidences Laura: 'Simply saying that the other person should consider you a friend, or referring to them as a friend, can go a long way.' Laura: 'If you are wrapping up a work project with a colleague from another department and want to maintain the relationship, say so.' Laura: 'you could be even more direct and say, "Consider me a friend." ' Laura: 'Simply saying, let's keep in touch or consider me a friend will get the message across.' Laura: 'Given how many people want more connection in life, I don't think you need to worry about feeling too forward with all of this.' Ad: 'Hey, friend. I know how this feels, waking up exhausted after multiple trips to the bathroom and feeling embarrassed by sudden leaks.' Ad: 'Better Woman is natural, effective, clinically tested, and trusted by women for over 25 years.'

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You're listening to an iHeart Podcast. Hey, friend. I know how this feels, waking up exhausted after multiple trips to the bathroom and feeling embarrassed by sudden leaks. I used to be constantly on edge, searching for a restroom whenever I was out. Then I discovered Better Woman. I was skeptical at first, but two months in, everything changed.

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Good morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's tip is that if there is someone you would like to get to know better, say so. Letting people know that you consider them a friend can make a real friendship far more possible. So you probably encounter dozens of people every week in your day-to-day life. Some of them you probably know well. Others are fine as casual acquaintances.

but there may be a handful of people you see regularly that you would like to get to know better. Connecting a little more doesn't have to be a huge time commitment. Simply saying that the other person should consider you a friend, or referring to them as a friend, can go a long way. It lets the other person know that you would welcome making your connection a little deeper. So, for instance, when you run into a yoga classmate at the grocery store,

introduce her to your kids as your friend from yoga, and suddenly, she is your friend. You have affirmed the relationship, which you have been building when you chat after class every week. If you are wrapping up a work project with a colleague from another department and want to maintain the relationship, say so. I appreciated getting to work with you on this project and I'd love to stay in touch.

especially if the colleague is new to your organization. Or more junior than you, you could be even more direct and say, "Consider me a friend." You could invite them to reach out if you could ever be helpful. But in any case, simply vocalizing that you see them as a valued colleague and friend is enough. Because when you are friends and trusted colleagues, of course you can reach out to each other for help or insight. After the last meet for your kid's summer swim team,

Don't just say goodbye to the other parents the same way you would on any other day. If there is a parent you want to keep in touch with, let them know. You can be direct without really feeling awkward. Simply saying, let's keep in touch or consider me a friend will get the message across. Or with an upbeat, casual tone, you can say, text me, friend, and pave the way for the relationship to continue. Let them know that your connection doesn't have to end with the swim season.

Once you have affirmed that you want to move from acquaintance to friend or close colleague, there are a few steps you can take to move that along. For instance, if the other person says, I'd love to stay in touch, you might offer up something adjacent to what you already do together. For instance, if you see a colleague in the break room when you eat your lunch, mention that you've been wanting to try the new Vietnamese restaurant in the neighborhood and ask if they'd like to join you. Ask the mom of the kid on your soccer team if she'd like to walk laps around the field with you.

An even more low-key option for deepening a connection is to text the person on occasion. If you see something funny or that makes you think of them, send it along. If you know the person has traveled somewhere, ask for tips. Eventually, a texting relationship can become deeper. Given how many people want more connection in life, I don't think you need to worry about feeling too forward with all of this. Most people will appreciate your letting them know

that they can consider you a friend. You might be able to get something on the calendar together, something that you will be looking forward to. In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most of our time. Thanks for listening to Before Breakfast. If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback, you can reach me at laura at lauravandercam.com. Before Breakfast is a production of iHeartMedia.

For more podcasts from iHeartMedia, please visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Hey friend, I know how it feels waking up exhausted after multiple trips to the bathroom and feeling embarrassed by sudden leaks.

I used to be constantly on edge, searching for a restroom whenever I was out. Then I discovered Better Woman. I was skeptical at first, but two months in, everything changed. I experienced improved bladder control. No more heart-stopping moments when I laugh or sneeze. Less urge to go. Deeper and more restful sleep.

I finally felt like myself again, confident and in control.

Better Woman is natural, effective, and trusted by women for over 25 years. Ready to take back your control? Head over to BeBetterNow.com to order your supply today. That's BeBetterNow.com. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Uses directed individual results may vary.

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