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Is there a yes in that no?

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Before Breakfast

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Laura: 当我们面对拒绝时,不应仅仅停留在失望的情绪中。我建议大家积极寻找隐藏在“不”字背后的“是”的可能性。这需要我们转变思维方式,将注意力从最初的拒绝转移到寻找相关的、可替代的方案上。很多时候,我们所期望的直接结果可能无法实现,但通过灵活变通和发挥创造力,我们仍然可以找到满足需求或实现目标的途径。例如,如果无法获得理想的职位,可以考虑在同一组织内寻找其他机会;如果无法预订心仪的餐厅,可以提前预订其他重要的日子。重要的是保持开放的心态,积极探索各种可能性。 Laura: 我认为,在面对拒绝时,重要的是要区分界限和机会。当别人明确设定了界限时,我们应该尊重他们的决定,而不是一味地强求。然而,在很多情况下,“不”并不意味着完全的否定,而是指向其他可能性。因此,我鼓励大家在遇到拒绝时,不要轻易放弃,而是积极地寻找替代方案。这需要我们发挥创造力,将问题分解成更小的部分,并思考如何通过不同的方式来解决。同时,保持与相关人员的沟通,以便及时了解新的机会和信息。我相信,通过积极的探索和灵活的变通,我们往往可以在“不”中找到属于自己的“是”。

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Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's tip is that when you are told no about something you want, consider whether there might be a yes hiding behind it. Disappointments are inevitable, but sometimes when one option isn't happening, a related option will become available if you look for it. So we hear no all the time in life, like no, you're not getting that promotion. No, you can't have a dinner reservation at this restaurant for Friday.

No, I can't have the report done by Monday. Or no, there's no room in the four and five-year-old swimming class. No, your kid wasn't admitted to that college. It is disappointing, and sometimes no is just no. I cringe when people sometimes say they won't take no for an answer. Because when someone has set a boundary, it is frustrating and unfair for everyone if you keep trying to push it.

But other times when you are turned down for something you want, there may be something related that is available. If you just look around or ask. So if your child doesn't make a sports team, maybe they could be the team manager. The coach may not volunteer that information, but if someone asks, another opportunity may be available after all. If you don't get a job at an organization you love, ask whether they see any other job openings that might be a good fit for you.

Make sure everyone has your information and keep the lines of communication open so you can check in every few months to see. I have lost track of how many people have told me about interviewing at a company, losing out in the last round for a job, and then being first in mind the next time there's an opening. It happens all the time. If a change in your work schedule means you can no longer take the tennis class you look forward to every week,

What about scheduling private lessons? What about trying a different tennis place? You just might find something you like. If you can't get a reservation at the restaurant you wanted to go to for your birthday, why not plan ahead and get a reservation for your anniversary in a few months? They probably aren't booked up then. If your brother gets the painting you love from your parents' house, have a print made of it for yourself. You are more or less looking at the same thing.

When you don't get what you hoped for, get creative and consider whether there is something adjacent that might be satisfying instead. I've heard people say that when a door closes, a window opens, and maybe that's true. But in my experience, it's more like when you realize a door has closed, then you can check whether you could open the windows. Sometimes they are locked too, but not always. If you get curious and look around, you might find some version of a yes alongside that no. In the meantime, this is Laura.

Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most of our time. Thanks for listening to Before Breakfast. If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback, you can reach me at laura at lauravandercam.com. Before Breakfast is a production of iHeartMedia. For more podcasts from iHeartMedia, please visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.

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