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「最肤浅的痛苦是什么?」:与好朋友回答普鲁斯特问卷(也就是QQ点名

2024/4/28
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乔老师
春额
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乔老师:我认为最完美的快乐是内心平静,没有任何烦恼和担忧。这种快乐源于内心的安宁,不受外在因素的影响。 我最厌恶的品质是不诚实和欺骗。我不喜欢被欺骗,也不喜欢欺骗别人。在处理小区事务时,管理人员的不诚实让我感到厌恶。 我最害怕漫长而痛苦的死亡过程,以及死后钱财没有花完。这两种恐惧都与生命的有限性和对未来的不确定性有关。 我认为理想的亲密关系是坦诚和诚实的,但这种诚实是发自内心的,而不是被强迫的。在亲密关系中,我更在意的是伴侣是否愿意与我分享一切,而不是伴侣是否会做出一些违背道德的事情。 春额:我认为完美的快乐是拥有舒适的居住环境,与朋友们住得很近,并且手机使用时间短。这体现了我对舒适生活和人际关系的重视,以及对数字生活节制的追求。 我最害怕公开演讲,但通过尝试主持脱口秀,我克服了一些恐惧。这说明我勇于挑战自我,并从实践中学习和成长。 我最厌恶的品质是自我中心和急功近利。自我中心的人只顾自己,不考虑他人的感受;急功近利的人为了达到目的不择手段,可能会伤害到他人。 我认为理想的亲密关系是互相坦诚,彼此尊重空间,并且是健康和安全的。这种关系中,双方能够互相理解和支持,并且不会让对方感到焦虑或自我怀疑。

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What is the most superficial pain according to the speakers?

The most superficial pain is feeling hurt by the opinions or judgments of people who don't matter to you. This includes being rejected or criticized by those whose opinions shouldn't hold weight in your life.

What is the ideal intimate relationship according to the speakers?

An ideal intimate relationship is one that is healthy, safe, and based on mutual honesty and openness. It should allow both individuals to grow together and embrace changes without fear of judgment or constraint.

What do the speakers consider the most overrated qualities?

The speakers consider wealth and fame as the most overrated qualities. They argue that these do not necessarily correlate with a person's character or abilities and often come from luck or unethical means rather than merit.

What is the biggest fear of one of the speakers?

One of the speakers' biggest fears is a long and painful death, particularly the loss of autonomy and the ability to act independently before death.

What do the speakers think about the concept of 'YOLO' (You Only Live Once)?

The speakers acknowledge the concept of 'YOLO' as a reminder that life is short and should be lived fully. However, they also note that it has become somewhat clichéd and overused.

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本期节目中,我们与朋友春额一起再次回答了普鲁斯特问卷。首先探讨了什么是最完美的快乐,从无忧无虑的心境到理想中的完美一天,以及快乐与手机使用时间的关系。
  • 最完美的快乐:无忧无虑的心境,没有烦恼和担忧
  • 完美的一天:在布满小动物的床上醒来,朋友们住得很近,手机使用时间控制在三小时以下

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本期摘要

友友们大家好,这期闲聊节目里我们和好朋友春额一起在时隔近五年之后又一次回答了普鲁斯特问卷,通过各自的回答和几年间答案的变化了解自己与彼此,过程开心又美妙,希望你们听得开心,也提前祝大家假期愉快~

分享一只听我们聊天听睡着的小狗👇 (photo by 春)

IMG_9242.JPG## 本期提及

我们的第一期普鲁斯特问卷节目)

我们的第二期普鲁斯特问卷节目)

普鲁斯特问卷)

春额的pop up播客)

Know My Name)

公园与游憩 Parks and Recreation )

Significant Others A HISTORY PODCAST)

Outro: Talk by Henry Hall

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