The host felt stuck in her career and personal life in China, facing a lack of meaningful job opportunities and societal pressures. She wanted to switch career paths and explore new possibilities, which led her to pursue further education in Europe.
The host found the process of selecting the right program and country to be the most challenging. She had to navigate a vast amount of information, consider factors like scholarships, immigration policies, and future career prospects, which caused significant stress and uncertainty.
Her parents were initially resistant, with her father expressing disappointment and her mother using emotional tactics to dissuade her. However, they eventually supported her decision, with her father even accompanying her to the airport.
The host expects to face financial pressure due to limited income opportunities while studying. She plans to live frugally, relying on savings and avoiding unnecessary expenses like travel or dining out.
She chose the Netherlands because of its English-friendly environment, relatively affordable living costs compared to other European countries, and the presence of a supportive community of international students, including many Chinese expatriates.
The host has observed that European students are more vocal and assertive in academic settings, often dominating discussions. She feels that as an Asian student, she lacks a strong position in these conversations, particularly in topics centered on European perspectives.
The host is open to working in various countries, including those in Asia or Africa, and does not feel the need to settle in Europe. She aims to broaden her horizons and gain diverse experiences through her education and potential future work in NGOs.
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