Deep Dive
What is the concept of 'Or Game' discussed in the podcast?
The 'Or Game' is a decision-making game where participants must choose between two options, without the possibility of selecting both or neither. It reflects the many choices in life that come with their own set of challenges and consequences.
Why did the speaker choose to continue doing yoga despite physical discomfort?
The speaker chose to continue doing yoga even when experiencing physical discomfort to understand the limits of their endurance and to challenge the self-perception of being someone who avoids physical activity. This choice helped them build resilience and eliminate excuses for not exercising.
What were the challenges faced during the wedding planning process?
Wedding planning involved numerous decisions, from selecting the venue and wedding attire to choosing the type of buttons on the groom's suit. Each decision required careful consideration and often led to increased costs. The process was stressful but ultimately rewarding, especially with the support of friends who helped reduce some of the expenses.
How did the speaker approach the decision to publish their comic?
The speaker initially considered publishing their comic but faced delays and a lack of response from the publishing platform. Over time, the enthusiasm for the project waned, leading to a decision to pause the project. This decision was influenced by the realization that the motivation to publish was more about proving something to their father rather than a genuine desire for the outcome.
What insights did the speaker gain from changing jobs?
Changing jobs provided the speaker with a fresh perspective and new experiences, despite the initial discomfort of adapting to a more structured and rule-bound environment. Over time, they appreciated the reduced need to manage others' responsibilities and the clarity that came with defined roles and processes.
What is the significance of the 'Or Game' in understanding life choices?
The 'Or Game' highlights that every choice in life comes with its own set of joys and pains. It teaches that there are no painless choices, but individuals can become adept at managing or forgetting the pain associated with their decisions. The game underscores the importance of making informed choices and being prepared to face the consequences.
What was the speaker's most fortunate choice of the year?
The speaker's most fortunate choice was deciding to meet a friend at a K-pop album store, which led to forming a significant new friendship. This decision broke previous self-imposed social limitations and enriched their life with a meaningful connection.
What lesson did the speaker learn about making choices from their experience with a documentary director?
The speaker learned from a documentary director that while the outcomes of efforts are often visible, the processes behind them are usually hidden and equally important. This insight helped the speaker appreciate the value of engaging in processes without being overly focused on the immediate results.
- 生活充满各种二选一选择
- 每个选择都有代价
- 选择意味着承受
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