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10 Ways To Stop Power Struggles & Get Kids To Do Stuff

2024/10/13
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Kirk Martin
专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家,提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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Kirk Martin: 本期播客探讨了如何停止与强意志的孩子们发生的权力斗争,并引导他们完成任务。文章指出,许多日常琐事,例如穿鞋、吃饭、上学、做作业、睡觉和参加活动,都可能成为权力斗争的导火索。作者建议家长们采用多种策略来应对这种情况,包括: 1. **设定合理的期望值:** 了解孩子的性格,不要将孩子的行为个人化。避免在早上盘问孩子,这会让孩子感到像是在接受审问。 2. **找到问题的根源:** 许多时候,孩子的抵触情绪源于焦虑。家长应该设身处地为孩子着想,理解他们的焦虑,并给予他们支持和鼓励。 3. **享受过程,避免冲突:** 在孩子不得不服药或做一些他们不喜欢的事情时,家长应该设身处地地理解他们的感受,并尝试与他们一起完成任务。 4. **建立联系:** 家长应该积极与孩子建立联系,找到共同点,并通过赞美和鼓励来增强孩子们的自信心。 5. **提供工具和方法:** 家长可以提供一些工具和方法来帮助孩子完成任务,例如寻宝游戏、障碍课程、成人类型的工作等等。 6. **赋予孩子自主权:** 家长应该给孩子一些自主权,让他们自己决定如何完成任务,这样可以减少他们的抵触情绪。 7. **坚持承诺,并执行相应的纪律措施:** 家长应该坚持自己的承诺,并对孩子的行为进行相应的纪律措施,例如时间惩罚。 作者还强调了同理心和积极互动的重要性,并建议家长们控制自己的焦虑,不要把自己的喜好强加给孩子。通过这些方法,家长们可以有效地减少与孩子的权力斗争,并引导他们完成任务。

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Parents often face power struggles with strong-willed children over everyday tasks. This episode offers tools and strategies to navigate these challenges and foster a more peaceful home environment.
  • The episode focuses on tools to manage power struggles with strong-willed kids.
  • The host uses morning routines as a central example but encourages applying the strategies to other areas as well.

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10 Ways To Stop Power Struggles & Get Kids To Do Stuff

Do you find yourself getting into power struggles with strong-willed kids over things you never thought you’d have to fight about? Even simple things like putting your shoes on, eating your food, going to school, doing homework, getting ready for bed, going to an activity your child actually enjoys? This is how life works with a strong-willed child! Kirk gives you 10 tools in 25 minutes to overcome anxiety, resistance, and rudeness!

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