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A Life-Changing Script for Kids With Negative Self-Talk (Forgetful, ADHD) #459

2025/3/18
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Kirk Martin: 我在节目中讨论了如何应对孩子因被纠正而产生的负面自我评价。我提供了一个脚本和行动步骤,可以彻底改变孩子对自己的看法以及父母对孩子的看法。这个方法的核心是理解孩子内心的感受,并用积极肯定的方式来引导他们。 首先,我们要避免使用诸如“你需要下次记住它”之类的语言,因为它会加剧孩子的负面情绪。 其次,我们要将孩子的行为放在正常的童年发展背景下看待,不要期望他们像成年人一样成熟。要承认孩子不擅长记住东西是正常的,并肯定他们的其他优势。 然后,我们要帮助孩子找到克服弱点的方法,例如使用便签、设置提醒等。 最后,我们要不断地强化孩子的优势,并提醒他们自己的天赋,这会改变他们内在的感受,以及其他人对他们的看法。 一位妈妈: 我的孩子因为忘记带午餐盒而大哭,并自称是笨蛋、傻瓜和坏孩子,这让我很痛苦。孩子负面自我评价的根源在于他们对自身能力的否定和对失败的恐惧。

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A Life-Changing Script for Kids With Negative Self-Talk (Forgetful, ADHD) #459

Do you have kids who react angrily, lash out, or have a meltdown when you correct them or remind them to do something? Does your child struggle with short-term memory or forgetting things? Do you have a child who beats himself and says things like, “I am so stupid!”? It can be painful to watch this and hear the negative self-talk. Kirk provides a script and action steps that can completely change how your child sees himself or herself…and how you see them. This is a podcast to share with other parents. 

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