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Just Hilarious:本期节目探讨了两个男人在亲密关系中遇到的问题,他们都面临着伴侣的"脏乱"问题和沟通不畅,以及由此引发的其他问题。节目中,Just Hilarious 对来电者给予了建议,强调了沟通和承担责任的重要性,并建议他们通过法律途径解决问题。她还表达了对来电者行为的批评,指出他们缺乏责任感和成熟的态度。 Taylor:Taylor 在节目中与 Just Hilarious 一起分析了来电者的故事,她对来电者女友的"脏乱"行为进行了描述,并表达了对来电者行为的质疑。她认为来电者应该与女友进行坦诚的沟通,解决彼此的问题。 来电者1:一位23岁的男性来电者,讲述了他与一位交往多年的女友之间的问题。这些问题包括性生活不和谐,女友的"脏乱"问题,以及他对这段关系的不确定性。他担心离开后难以找到新的信任关系,又担心再有孩子。他承认自己高中时期曾多次出轨,现在对女友的感情也感到迷茫。 来电者2:一位男性来电者讲述了他与前女友从2013年到2018年的关系,以及前女友的邋遢习惯和不负责任的行为。他描述了前女友的不良生活习惯,以及婚后女友的行为变得更糟糕,最终导致离婚。离婚后,前妻仍然用孩子作为手段来控制他,并与新男友发生关系。前妻表示,如果他想看孩子,就必须满足她的性需求。

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A man discusses his long-term relationship, questioning whether he should leave due to dissatisfaction with the relationship and concerns about his girlfriend's cleanliness and fidelity.

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Oh shit, just like that, we back on the air. Welcome back to yet another Calfly Reckless episode with your girl Just Hilarious. And I got my beautiful producer Taylor here. She's gonna read because y'all know I don't like doing that shit because y'all don't send voice memos anymore. So say hey Taylor. Hey y'all, what's up? Period. So y'all still ain't sending no damn voice notes. It's okay. It's all right. It's all right. But we're gonna get right into it. It's a story from a girl or a guy.

Oh, that's a guy. Okay. So I love when, listen, I love when the men write because it's hard for men to open up, especially about their business and shit. You know, even if it does come down to remaining anonymous, they only like to talk in a barbershop to other men.

And get led right down the path of destruction. So I'm glad that they come to me, you know, and they're open enough to be vulnerable and talk to me about their issues. So let's get into it, Taylor, what they got to say. He goes, I'm 23. I've been with this girl since eighth grade. I cheated on her all through high school and some girls she knows about and some she don't.

As far as I know, she's only been with one other guy. But I've seen little shit that makes me think otherwise. I mean, honestly, I don't care if she did back then because I've been wilding with hella people. My thing is the sex hasn't been that good. We argue a lot more. And the biggest thing is she's dirty. Hold on. Uh-uh. Uh-uh. Nigga, what? What the fuck you mean she dirty? Like...

I care for her a lot, but I can't tell if I actually love her or if I'm just used to her and if I should leave while I'm young. I'm scared to leave, honestly, because I can get girls. It's just trusting these new females has me worried. Because one thing I can say is if I was to have a baby with the girl I'm with now, I'd be cool. But I don't know if I can deal with getting another girl pregnant.

And then I got baby mama from hell. What should I do? Oh, okay. So that's not even her. The dirty girl. This is somebody, the baby by somebody else. Baby mom and then he has a girlfriend. Who's dirty. Yeah. Okay. The fuck? Okay. So what, did it end with a question? Yeah. What should he do? Should he break up with his girl? Mm-hmm.

I guess because she's dirty. Like, defy. And then, but then he's talking about one thing I can say if I have a baby with a girl. Why do you think about having a baby? What is wrong with him? He's at 23. Yeah, because he probably go in raw all the time. And he knows there's a big chance that he may get someone else pregnant. He probably don't like condoms. Or he just wants more kids. I guess. Yeah. Maybe he's saying, like, if he should dump her or not, I guess. I don't know. Mm. Yeah.

Yeah, it's going down to pregnancy. Yeah, so he's 23. He's been with this girl since he was in high school. He cheated on her all throughout high school. Why do you say she's dirty, though? I don't know. He didn't give us no context clues. Like, is she dirty as far as...

Like, she's sneaky? Because a lot of men refer to that. I know a lot of guys be like, oh, she dirty. Maybe she's just not organized. Maybe she's just... Junkie. Yeah. Not a junkie, but she's junkie. Yeah, maybe not. Because if you were with her for that long... Yeah, you was with her dirty ass all this time, and now she dirty. Like, boy, I been that. What's up? So, clean me up. Like, what's going on? Okay, so...

I think you know your answer. It's very simple. I think, honestly, you even saying, am I comfortable with her? Is that why I'm with her? Like, you know, are we growing apart and shit like that? Like, that's basically what you're asking me. And then you go on to say,

You don't feel like getting to know somebody else. You don't feel like gaining that trust with somebody new. So you are just comfortable. You're in this relationship for convenience at this point because you voiced clearly what you don't like about her. Yeah, you said the sex isn't good either. Yeah, you said the sex is not good. But is the sex not good because you don't want that fucking dick out in all these other boxes?

Shit, you busy. You busy, honey. And then you got a baby mama from hell because she was probably one of the motherfuckers that she was fucking with around on your girlfriend. You know what I mean? And then shorty got pregnant. She didn't want to get rid of it. She probably wanted to be with you, kept the baby to be with you. And now you ain't leaving this goddamn girl and you ain't even making her a priority. So now, yeah, she's the baby mama from hell.

You know, you also didn't tell me if she let you see your child or not or whatever, but you up here talking about another, having another baby. Because that's what you did. You better reread what you wrote because that's exactly what you're talking about. Now, like I said to Taylor, it's either that you want more kids or you just don't like condoms. You're one of those raw dog niggas. And it is what it is. And I don't like saying niggas because, you know, we shouldn't these days. But a raw dog nigga is a raw dog nigga. You just don't like condoms. Tell me if I'm right. Now...

I honestly think you need to be by yourself. You're 23. You don't know what you want. And the reason why I say you don't know what you want, I'm not saying that you're confused about your life as a whole, but you don't know what you want because on one hand,

You're comfortable in your relationship. You want to be in a relationship, but you don't want to be with the girl that you with no more because you think it's something out there better. You think there's no fixing which or whatever y'all got now. If she dirty clean up, pussy ain't good, tell her it ain't. And y'all can figure out other ways to make it good unless it's stretched out of place like a fucking rubber band. But I don't see that happening because she's young as well. You say you think she only been with one other guy. So it ain't the vagina. Maybe, maybe you ain't making her wet.

Maybe that's what it is. Does she know you've been cheating on and doing your fucking thing since y'all been in grade school? Do she know that? Because maybe you don't do it for her either. Have you talked to her about it? But she'd rather stay with your ass because that's just what women do sometimes. You know what I'm saying? This may be a phase. And on the other hand, you want to do what you want to do.

And then on the other hand now, because we on the third hand, you got a baby with a spawn of Satan of a baby mother. So it ain't really you don't got too much wiggle room, baby. Like you should be by yourself. To be honest, you should get to know yourself. You should focus on being a dad. Even if you got to go through the courts like to be a dad. And I don't even know if this is your situation because you just briefly hinted on the fact that you have a baby. But you have to focus on that.

preparing for what's next, not the now. Because you already grown. You got to grow the fuck up. You're a father. So it is what it is. 23, you still young, but you're a young father now. So just because you young don't mean you got time to be a kid and play childish games. Like, sweetie, you can be by yourself and just be a fucking bachelor strapped the fuck up because it's more than just babies that can be consequences of raw sex. I know you know that.

Yeah, I'm just trying to lead you in the right direction, brother, because I don't like where you're going. I don't like where you are. So sit down, talk to your girlfriend, let her know she's a little dirty and, you know, figure out where her head is at. First of all, before you go to her, figure out what you want. Don't go trying to fix it if that's not what you want to do. You got to be honest with your girlfriend. I don't care if you're comfortable. I don't care if it's convenient. I don't care.

You know, you can't hold on to somebody because you don't want to get to know nobody new because these holds this and these holds that. Nigga, you a hoe. So come to grips with yourself. Be truthful. Fix yourself. Then go to your girlfriend and let her know exactly what it is.

About her and about you about you because don't make it all about her guys can be very selfish and do that as well And that's why women playing themselves and be all types of insecure and shit because we think it's us whole time It's your ass or it's our ass let her know Work on yourself be a dad let her go shit and just do what you want to do single That's it. That's the only way it's going to work for you for her and your baby the fuck

It ain't about the baby mother. She just got your baby. That's it. But you have to remain cordial enough to raise the child. You know, he said, well, if he had a son or a girl. Okay. Well, if you got a daughter, I tell you right now, you better make it right. Cause you wouldn't want no nigga playing her face like that. And if you got a son, you definitely don't want them to be running around all fucked up like you. So listen, get back to me, update me. What you think? What else you got to say to him?

I think he's young. Yeah. And he's playing around with the girl. Yeah. You're playing around with the girl and you're playing around with other girls too. Like, come on. They want his cake and eat it too. That's all. Huh? But I don't know if he wants his cake and eat it too because he's just calling her all types of dirty and you don't like her. So I'm kind of confused.

I ain't confused. His day is confused. He don't know what he wants to do. He knows. I think he's just scared. He don't, he feel bad. He feels bad. Yeah. But that's how you become miserable in a relationship. You know, just forcing it.

Because you don't want to hurt nobody's feelings and you enjoy the inconvenience. They've been arguing a lot more. I mean, the convenience. It seems like he's running off emotions. They've been arguing a lot more? Yeah, it seems like he just... Because he's been doing him. Yeah. He's been doing him and that's why he's not really paying attention to... You can back up off the mic because you just hit your head. But... Jesus. They hear you. But... Tell us all up on the mic, y'all. But I think that's why...

he's doing him because she's not providing that sexual satisfaction for him. But even if she were, he would still be out fucking. Right. That nigga got bitches. That's what he said. He's like, I'm not worried about getting... Yeah, that's never been a problem. We know that, jabroni. You know? But...

Yeah, you need to hit me back up. And I know I'm a little harsh. That's how I be with the men. Y'all can dish it, but y'all cannot take it. You ask me for the fucking truth. You ask me what you should do. I'll let your ass know. Update me. If nobody is telling you that they love you, I love you, brother. But I want you to do better. Well, do better for that baby. And probably the one on the way. Because you see, he was hinting on having another one. That's because they don't want to use no fucking condoms. Ugh.

I know it all too well. No, not because I don't use condoms. I have brothers and cousins. We'll go with it. Because they're going to be like, Jasper just saying shit a little hoe every day. No, I'm not, yo. If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back.

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Moving on. All right. So I talked to this girl from 2013 to 2015. Everything was going great. The vibes, fun, sex, all that. Late 2013, she told me she's pregnant not too long after she says she's miscarried.

I was like, oh shit, it's Gucci. I got you. Fast forward, I moved her in with me so we can start doing shit the right way. Whole 2014, things were going good. But I started to notice her poor living habits, like leaving dishes in the sink. What is up with these dirty bitches? Like, what's going on? Pads in the trash.

Where else are you supposed to go? Yeah, like, what are they supposed to be in the fucking sink? They not. Maybe she wasn't rolling them up in the pack. Oh, my Lord. Food on the stove and mad, nasty shit. I don't like the dirty shit, so we started to argue and bump heads. Maybe with the same person. Yeah. Working and playing the bills.

Least she can do is keep my crib clean. Going into 2015, things really ain't going right and I'm ready to call it quits. Soon as I make up my mind to dump her, she says she's pregnant. Gave me a whole sob story about life and mad bullshit and somehow convinced me to marry her. And...

Not she somehow convinced you to marry her. I hate guys. Yeah, yo. That is hilarious to me. And be a real family, so on and so forth. So in July, we got married.

Once some fly out the blue shit in October, she gave birth. Now we married and got a son. That's cool. July 2015, July 2016, everything going accordingly. Fast forward a year to mid-27, bitch did a whole 360. She was lazy, dirty, had no motivation, no drive, nothing. She even was stealing money out the account and getting scammed with a dumbass $700,000 to $7,000 shit.

I don't know. That's a specific scam. I ain't never hear that. 700 to 7,000 shit. Oh, when they add a zero. Okay, because I used to do that. Go ahead. Yeah, I remember. I remember. Go ahead. I'm fed up, so I file for divorce. She up and leave and goes to her mom and keeps my kids from me. Won't let me see them during this time. She done started fucking with a new nigga. I don't care, bitch. Don't...

deal in my book. I just want my kids. Bitch had done a deal in his book. He just want what? The divorce was... Oh, she just wants his kids. Divorce was finalized in 2018. I'm happy. From 2018 to now, she's still at her mom's with her new nigga. And every so often, she get in her feelings and keep the kids from me. Finally ask her what the fuck her problem is. She tells me her new nigga ain't hit her spot.

That I used to hit. And if I want to see my kid, I got to sneak out. Six years ago, bitch? Like, I mean, I'm sorry, eight years ago? Anyway, go ahead. Well, she said it's from now. So from 2018 to now. Yeah, 2018. Yeah, that's six years ago. And if I want to see my kids, I got to sneak out from my girl. Meet her and fuck her at a hotel or something.

I'm disgusted with her and don't even look at her the same from my bullshit from the past. But I want my kids. I need advice. What should I do? Do I tell her nigga like, yo, check your bitch or risk what I got to satisfy her to be able to get my kids? You talk mad low. Jesus. I know they struggling here driving down the street. All right. Oh, my gosh.

So go to the courts, dude. Right? What the?

The fuck? You got a girl. She got a nigga that ain't hitting it right no more. But y'all got kids. You know where she live. You know her address. Yo, beat her to the punch. Go down to the fucking courts. File joint custody. Or, you know, if she's unfit, not trying to speak for her. But obviously, if she was unfit to be a tenant in your house, you know, she leave pads everywhere. You know, if she dirty and all that, and you really feel like she's not a good mom.

File for full custody. But honestly, joint custody is the best. You know, you can still see your children. Are you on child support? If you're not, that's excellent grounds for you. They will definitely want to see proof that you can provide like a household life.

a fit life for your kids if you're filing for any type of custody. But, um, you sound like you got your mom made up. You don't look at her the same. She a dirty ass clown. Basically, those are your words a little bit. And, you know, not mine because I don't know her. But, if this is all true, yo, go to court. Like, I don't get it. This is like, it's,

First of all, nobody can convince you to marry them. You know how much time goes into even thinking about getting on a knee? Somehow she proposed. Somehow. That was a wild statement. You had to buy a ring. You had to crease your shoes, get down on the knee and be like, all right, will you marry me? Maybe he asked. Maybe she asked, though.

Maybe she did ask. See, that's why these people got to let us know that they leaving too much meat off the bone. But I ain't trying to scare you away because I love when the guys do actually become vulnerable enough to give just a story. I do love that. But yeah, babe, it's just that easy. Like, and listen, like I said, you have a girlfriend. So you straight. You

You straight. Obviously, she wants you to hit that spot, but don't do that because I don't know. I mean, if she's still trifling and dirty, she only she even dirtier now, you know, so it is what it is. Hold up. Hold up. I know this shit getting good, but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.

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Just talk to her about it. I don't know. I feel like they didn't have to break up. She said they have fun and everything. He didn't like the dirty shit. And honestly, though, that would make. Yeah, I cannot get with somebody. And it is even worse when a woman is dirty. When a woman's hygiene or a woman living style is not up to par like that. You're a fucking woman.

You know, it ain't better for men, but women is like, no, no, no, no. That should be something that we just fucking come with, you know. Oh, Lord, pads just, and you got to look. And imagine looking in the goddamn trash and you see what you think is a napkin with ketchup on it until you start smelling it. And then it's a fucking sanitary napkin with blood.

Yeah. Horrible. Oh, my gosh. And then she probably didn't wash her hands. Yeah. She probably flushed her tampons down the toilet. Down the toilet, stopped the toilet up, leaving food on the stove, which, you know, just calling the roaches and the mice.

You know, I don't know if they've ever lived in a hood, but that's no way to live with a woman. It's not. And I totally get it. And I'm sorry, but yo, your last and final bet is court. But he said the options are either fuck her. Uh-uh. Uh-uh. Or tell the nigga to check his bitch. Hmm.

Why are those the options? Exactly. Why are those options? Because if he tells the guy, she's really not going to let you see your kids. Yeah. Well, you might get a beat the fuck up. Like, damn. What the hell? Okay. Because he probably ain't hitting that spot, but he'll hit her in the motherfucking eye. You never know. Like, I keep telling y'all women getting punched in the fucking face. Okay.

Why are those your options, honey? Like, no. One option, a sensible option, would be tell her, fuck no, I'm not fucking you, and I'm taking your ass to court.

Or don't even tell her that. Just go to the goddamn court. You don't need to talk to her boyfriend. You don't need to go fuck her unless that's something that you want to do in the back of your little dirty ass mind. You don't need to. Why is that an option? That should never be an option. You have a fucking girlfriend. That should not be an option. Because I guarantee you, if you tell me that you fucked her, I'm going to hit your girlfriend.

And I'm going to say, hey, he fucking this dirty ass B-Mob that you told me about and listen to episode four, season four on carefully reckless if you don't believe me because he wrote me this note. I don't like it. I'm still just surprised. Like, I'm rereading it. It says that he asked you what her problem is and she just became vulnerable and was just like, oh, you're just not hitting it right.

I feel like they're fighting together. Do you feel like it's more to the story? Yeah. Because, I mean, I don't know how the girl feels about him. And you're only writing me because he mad at her right now. Yeah. That's what it's giving a little. A little. Okay. Well, you've been involved with some fuckniggas. I have not. Not like this. Okay. I'm sorry. You know what I'm saying? So you would know their pattern. Okay. I'm just saying...

Why is she randomly just saying like, oh, just... Right, if you ain't hit it in six years. I don't know. I just don't, I don't see a girl, but I'm not crazy like that. Like, once I'm done with a nigga, I'm done. Yeah. So, I wouldn't, and I definitely not gonna tell a guy.

Oh, he just hasn't hit it like you. Like what? No. I would not be blowing his niggas up like that. Yeah. He don't hit it like you. Yeah. She's a little weird. He's a little weird, too, because now that you say that, part of me feel like you do want to fuck her. Or like he will. Not he wants to, but he will to see his kids. But now you're tainting your relationship, which is mad clowned out, cowardly and fucked up.

Unfaithful, disloyal. Does this girl know how crazy? His girlfriend gotta know how fucking crazy she is. That's his girlfriend. I guarantee you she don't know about the advances that the girl was making or that he's even thinking about taking her up on those advances. Yeah. I don't know. I think there's some... Something he's not telling us. I think they've been in and out. Okay. He may have hit that shit before while she had a boyfriend and while he has a girlfriend just to keep the peace. Yeah.

Just to keep the peace in a relationship. Because she got two kids by him. Yeah. Because she somehow convinced him. Yeah. Poor children. Lord. Poor kids suffer. So, yeah, I just think that you probably are tired of this back and forth. And I think, therefore, you should proceed in court. But get back at me and let me know, honey. Because we come to the end. I'm sick of this. I'm sick of this. And I love when my men reach out to me.

But y'all really be putting yourself in these relations, you know, and these predicaments and these relationships. Like y'all do this to yourselves. I want y'all to stop doing this. You know, y'all are better than this.

Jesus. I know it's a lot of fucked up men out there, but it's a lot of fucked up women too. You know, and that's why you should be careful producing with just anybody. I know you need to get to know who you are and who the other person is before y'all make a seed. Like that's a whole person. Y'all got two little people, like two little people to raise. And look at how y'all acting.

This is bullshit. You know, so like you talk about she dirty, but you still fucking on the low low. You know what I mean? And she got a new nigga that don't hit it right. And he around your kids. And then you got a girlfriend over here, but you still playing. Like this is too much. It's too much. So court is the best answer. That's why the courts are there.

And just like that, we've come to the end of yet another carefully reckless episode where I'll be fixing mess. And I don't know, I'm about to stop. These people crazy. Shit. Y'all about to be stressing me out. I don't need all this spirit on my baby. Like I can't. My baby probably in my stomach like, what in the fuck is going on here? Shit. But tune in next week. We'll see y'all. Say bye, Taylor. And y'all say thank you to Taylor for helping. I know we can't hear y'all, but go ahead and say it. I'm gonna give you a couple seconds. You're welcome.

Okay. Nice. Nice. That was better because last week this baby said thank you to y'all. I said, Jesus, never mind. Just fix it. So, see y'all.

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