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Hey y'all, what's up? It's your girl Jess Hilarious. And Carefully Reckless ain't going nowhere. I just took a little break. But y'all know I can't leave y'all high and dry. So we gonna run it back and listen to one of the most ranked fan favorite episodes. Tune in and hold tight. And I'll be back before you know it. Peace. Welcome back to another episode of Carefully Reckless. This is episode 10, y'all. I'm loving this shit. Help me celebrate. Look, story time.

All right, so my cousin Fi, all right, she was dating the guy Don. Now, we all loved Don. She was dating him a couple years ago. Everything was good with them. She had a good job. He had a good job. They moved together. They were living together. No kids. She never got pregnant or whatever. But my cousin has always wanted to get married. I'm talking about always. She's never cared to who or whatever. She is just all about getting married. She wants that fairy tale ending, whatever, whatever, right?

Two years went by. Dawn hasn't proposed, but they are still together. He seems happy. She's happy, too. So me and my family like to get together and we like to do shit. So we at bowling one night, just the girls. She tells me and our other cousins, bitch, he got until December to put a ring on my finger. So I'm like, Fee, what? She's like, yeah, I've been with this nigga too long for him to have not proposed yet.

I'm like, two years? She's like, yeah. I feel like I've been with him too long not to be married or him to even have popped the question or even to have thought about it yet. I say, have you ever talked to him about it? She's like, all the time. That's all I talk about. So I was like, okay, you don't think you may be pushing him away? She's like, bitch, I've been with him for two years. Everything is good. I got good pussy. I can cook. I clean. I do everything. I'm already like a wife. Only thing he got to do is make me one. I'm

I said, well, shit. Now, listen, she had a mindset on that shit. Like I told y'all, she's always wanted to be married. Didn't matter what he wanted. So December comes. He does not propose. She leaves him. Right. She left this nigga.

Sad as fuck, yo. Because he loved her. She loved him. He was in love with her. He loved Fi, man. I still keep in touch with Dawn. He cool as shit. In my opinion, he was the best guy for my cousin. So she leaves him. She gets with somebody else. He eventually gets with somebody else. He married the girl that he started dating after my cousin, only after a year of dating her.

He put a ring on somebody else's finger after only dating her for a year. And my cousin, meanwhile, still to this day, to this day, is stuck dating niggas, pressuring niggas to marry her. Now look, that's the end of that story. Which brings me to the carefully reckless discussion.

Now, the fact that Dawn married somebody else only a year after dating her, to me, I didn't feel it was wrong. When my cousin found out, she damn near killed herself. She was fucked up, stressed out, and she was with somebody else, mind you. A clown ass nigga, if you will.

But that's the whole point about it. She pressured him. When I asked, I said, have you talked to him about it? Yeah, that's all I talk about. Now, if y'all know my cousin and a lot of y'all who are listening, if y'all know me personally, y'all know Fee. Fee is very impulsive. Fee will keep talking about some shit for days and days and days like, yo, she'll never leave it alone. That nigga got tired of hearing that shit. Let him do that.

Also, Fia is very controlling, not even only with the proposal shit, with everything. She wanted everything her way. I'm talking about she wanted the nigga to eat a certain way, sleep a certain way, walk a certain way, dress a certain way. She was very controlling, but she knew she wanted to get married. Now, I've talked to Don. I asked Don, damn, yo, you married Shorty after one year. He said, yo, it just happened organically. Like I fell in love with her. I knew I wanted to marry her.

Six months in, I got my money together for the wedding and everything because I wanted a quick turnaround time. I didn't want to propose to her and we'd be engaged for years and years and years. Now, black people, they got a motherfucking habit of doing that. My brother proposed to his baby mother like five, six years ago and they still ain't married. And he ain't going to marry her. He just did that to show her to fuck up because she wanted to be a wife. And she's still not a wife. She's just an engagee.

But he fell in love with this girl. Now, her name is Stephanie. I like her. And my cousin doesn't like me anymore because I went to their wedding. Fucked up. But that's on you, Fee. He let the girl love him. The girl let him love her. And it just happened. She made him want to marry her. Fee didn't make him want to marry her. And he stayed with her for two years. But he did love her. And now he did.

But he told me she was very controlling. He said the straw that broke the camel's back for me was when she came into the room one night and was like, you got until Christmas to put a ring on my finger, nigga. He said that's what he knew. He definitely wasn't marrying her then. He just didn't tell her. Now, look, in my opinion, people get married for all the wrong reasons. My cousin wanted to get married for all the wrong reasons. She just wanted to be able to say she was somebody's wife.

She wanted the fairytale wedding. A lot of people do that. But it's a lot that goes into marriage, man. And that's fine if you want to be a wife. That's cool. It's tradition. It's sort of fairytale-ish. You know what I mean? That's the way of life. That's the way it's supposed to be. But you don't want to get married just to get divorced. It's a lot of money and a lot of time and effort that goes into that shit.

I think you should get to know the person that you want to marry. I'm talking about knowing them inside and out. I think the only way that you should be able to get married is if you are able to say, that's my best friend. You got to build that foundation. You got to know that person inside and out. I'm talking about little shit from little shit to big shit because the little shit is what matters the most.

If I'm walking around with an attitude, but I don't say it, you already supposed to know why I got an attitude and what the fuck I'm mad about. Why? Because you know me inside and out. Now, the most complicated thing in this world to figure out is a woman's mind. But the second most complicated thing to figure out in this world is a man's mind. But it's only two of us.

a woman and a man and shit if you're gonna jump that berm you gotta be willing to do all the shit that helps you get there get to know your partner before you make them your spouse because the last thing you want to do is get married and then find out some shit that you didn't know about the motherfucker after you marry them you don't want to do that honestly I don't think two years is long enough to be giving a nigga an ultimatum I don't think so I think

Maybe three, four years tops. A lot of women know what they want before men. OK, and that's true. Women mature faster in a lot of different areas on a lot of different levels before men. But you can't rush a guy into growing up. You can't rush a guy into marrying you. You can't. Marriage is a very serious covenant. In all reality, it's a goddamn contract and it's a contract you don't want to jump quick to sign.

Just like signing any motherfucking contract without reading the fine print. Be careful. Make sure that's something you want to do. In my opinion, don't rush, but don't be my boyfriend forever. You know what I'm saying? Now look, some people are okay with not being able to get married. Some people are okay with being boyfriend and girlfriend for years and years and years, for decades. That runs in the black community as well. A lot of people don't get married, but they'll stay together forever. Those are the people who felt like they don't need rings and vows and

and a big wedding and a reception to validate their love for one another. I get it. I know a lot of people like that too. Me personally, yes, I want to get married. Yes, I want to have more children. No, I don't want to have more children until I get married. But I do want to get married. I would never pressure someone into marrying me though.

It's up to you. But I'm not going to wait around forever. No, I'm not. Honestly, I can't say what I'll do in that situation. Now, if I'm with you for more than four years, you know, I

All right, nigga, what we doing? But it's not you better put a ring on my finger by this date or I'm gone. You know what I mean? That's just not how that shit should be. And then some women take it upon themselves to propose. If a nigga wait too long, they going to do the proposing. Like, let me take you back to love and hip hop. Chrissy and Jim. Remember, Chrissy wanted to get married very bad. They were together for a long time. You know what I mean? I don't know why the fuck this nigga didn't pop the question either. I really wanted him to marry her.

But nowadays she seems just over it. She seems like she don't give a fuck anymore. But back then she really wanted to be married. All she wanted from this nigga was a commitment, a ring, a wedding, marriage, children. I remember her saying she wanted children on Love & Hip Hop. And I felt as though that was one of the cutest couples ever.

ever. Unfortunately, it hasn't happened. Me, I could never propose to a guy. I'm not supposed to be the one down on the knee. It ain't got nothing to do with tradition. Oh, the guy is supposed to propose. No, I'm just not ever going to get down on no knee, open up no box and say, will you marry me? Hell no. What the fuck? Unless I'm marrying a bitch or something. I can't do that. Nigga, what? First of all,

I got bad knees and I would never do that shit anyway. Then I'm not creasing no McQueen to ask a nigga to marry me. It's not gonna happen. Hold up, hold up. I know this shit getting good, but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. Here's a little secret. Most smartphone deals aren't that exciting. To be honest, they're barely worth mentioning. But then there's AT&T and their best deals. Those are quite exciting. They're the kind of deals that are worth talking about. Like their deal on the Samsung Galaxy Z Flip 6.

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And that brings me to just fix my mess. Now, listen, I asked y'all online, ladies, in your opinion, when is the right time to get married? And is it a deal breaker if he never proposes? Now, like always, y'all always give me some good feedback and I'm gonna read off a few. Zalika McCray says, fuck getting married, dying big single, period.

Bitch, what? Listen, you've been big hurt, obviously. She like, nah, nigga, I just see a lot of marriages failing. But you can't let that depict your future. You can't let that control and dictate your situation. You don't know. You might meet the man of your fucking dreams, Zalika. Damn. Just be easy. It'll come to you. And if it don't, die big single, like you said.

I am her underscore a dare says, I mean, they say a man should know if he wants to marry a woman within three months. Not saying that you should get married within that time. But I think three years of a good relationship gives you time to get to know a person. I agree with you somewhat. Three years of a good relationship. Yeah, that gives you time to get to know a person. I would say that I say about three to five years. Well, three to four and a half. I don't know. I'm just I don't know. I don't like to put.

time and stipulations on that marriage shit. And because, you know, listen, a nigga could propose to you and never marry you like my brother. Remember, I said that shit. He could propose to you just to shut you the fuck up, but never marry you. Now, Adair, I don't agree with this. I never heard this shit. She said, I mean, they say a man should know if he wants to marry a woman within three months. Who the fuck is they and where they at? Because I ain't never hear nobody say that. They better get the fuck out of here. Not three months.

First of all, I get tired of niggas in three weeks. So I'm not sure. You don't even know. You cannot get to know a motherfucker in three months. It's not going to happen. Whoever they is been watching too many movies. I love you. Too much TV.

Riri 00026 says, damn, that sound like a jail number. I need to hear answers on this one. I've been with my man for 14 years. Actually, we turning 15 next week and still waiting. Oh, bitch, you crazy.

Fuck that one. You got me fucked up. Now, it may not be that serious to her. Like I said, some people actually really feel that it's okay. It's okay not to get married. As long as we together and we happy, we good to each his own. But it sound like she a little mad about that shit. Like at the end a little bit, she like, I'm still waiting. If you still waiting, then bitch, maybe you need to propose to him. Then go ahead, do a Chrissy and see what happen. You never know. Cause y'all been together already for a decade and a half. If he ain't leave yet, he ain't gonna leave now. So shit.

Just see, pop the question to see what he say. Yo, Jim was like, I'm with you. What the fuck does that mean? Yo, when Chrissy was like, will you marry me? Jim said, I'm with you. I would have smacked the braids off your head. I ain't even gonna lie. Hey, yo, he was high as a bitch too. Anyway, my bad.

Jade 820 says, Oh my God, if he never proposed, do not give him an ultimatum and please do not marry someone who was quick to propose. True love is what it's about. And you only know if it's real. If you're on the same page, wave level and compatibility, same love language. Love is love. No excuses. I love this. I love it. Do not give him an ultimatum and don't marry somebody too quick. You don't want to do it.

Because as quick as you can get married is as quick as you can get divorced. Nobody wants to do that shit. It's a lot of court fees and a lot of dumb ass shit to go through. Nobody wants to do that. Last one I'm going to read. Re underscore Costa says laughing my ass off. That shit really don't mean anything to me. But bitch, I'm giving you two years to know three years to propose. And if we not, we still going to be all good because I don't give a fuck for real. Bitch.

Bitch, you definitely care. Not bitch. I'm giving you two years to know three years to propose, but I don't really give a fuck for real. You definitely give a fuck. So tell that nigga what it is because you really, really stunting and shit. You don't got to read. You don't got to. If you want to get married, that's fine. Don't let your pride be in the way. But don't chase a nigga away either with the pride. Now let's kick it over to a brief break.

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So let's slide over to current news. I know y'all seen this shit. I've been thinking about it ever since. Now this is off the fucking topic, but Dani Leigh looks a little pregnant. She was in the shoe store and she was walking around and she was poking her stomach out, but it did look like a little baby bump. Now she wanted us to think she was pregnant, baby shit. Even if she not, she wanted us to think that. That's like...

the most clownish shit ever, but it is what it is. If she is, congratulations. The baby, you got a third baby on the way. And I guess we got another song coming from Mimi and Danny Lay. Congratulations. If you do have a bun in the oven, but if you're not, you clown the fuck out for sticking out your stomach. Cause you already knew what the fuck we was going to say.

And if it is da baby's baby, I hope they make it. Tired of seeing people having kids and not staying together. Honestly, that shit is clowned out as well. The Grammys and people finding it offensive this year. Was it appropriate? Was it inappropriate? It's the Grammys. I think the Grammys needed us. And when I say us, I mean black people.

for their fucking ratings this year. I think the Grammys is usually very fucking boring, not gonna lie. A little inappropriate, yeah. I mean, if it was on BET or VH1 or, you know what I'm saying, it would have been fine. It would have been suitable. But not on like ABC, CBS and all that shit, nah. I don't think all that explicitness should have been on there. But I mean, whatever. This is the new way of the motherfucking world and the performances were great.

I think Doja Cat killed that shit always. That's one talented bitch. I swear. I love her. I love her. I tried not to love her, but I love her. I can't. You can't. Like, you can't deny talent. DaBaby did great. Lil Baby always kills it. Cardi and Megan, they did good. They did good. They did good. Cardi did good. Megan did good. Now, my thing is, people found their WAP performance to be inappropriate.

What the fuck did you think they were going to do? The name of the song is an acronym for wet ass pussy. What the fuck did you think they was going to do? Dance around and do a bunch of TikTok dances and shit in full outfits? Cardi was a fucking stripper. Megan is stripper inspiration. What the fuck did you think was going to come out of wet ass pussy? What the fuck? Calm the fuck down. I've seen worse.

We've all seen worse, trust me. Now listen, one thing I would never understand is the fact that Lil Wayne has no Grammys,

Chris Brown has no Grammys. Nicki Minaj has no fucking Grammys. I didn't even know that. I had no idea. I just found that shit out this year. Now, y'all know I'm a Nicki fan. I am. I am pissed off about that shit, though. That bothers me because what the fuck? Listen, this woman has worked so fucking hard for years. She's been in the game for more than 10 years.

She's worked hard as a bitch, let me tell you. Y'all know this shit. And has not earned one fucking Grammy. That shit pisses me off. Lil Wayne tweeted, fuck the Grammys. Exactly. He should have been one. If there's any man that deserves Grammys, it is Lil Wayne. But I'm telling you, all this shit is ran by social media. It's all about views. It's all about popularity. You know what I mean? Everything feeds off of the internet. So yeah, shit is different. It's fucked up, but it's different.

I do congratulate all the nominees for being nominated. That's a big, big, big deal. And I do congratulate all of the winners. And that brings me to the end of this episode, episode number 10 of Catholique Reckless. Y'all make sure y'all don't rush into these motherfucking marriages and you don't give a nigga an ultimatum because one day a nigga gonna slap shit out you.

Don't ever walk in the room like my cousin Fee, who is listening right now, because I know she regrets that shit bad as fuck, because that nigga was Stephanie now, baby. He was Stephanie. Hey, yo, I ain't shit. But don't ever walk in the room and be like, you got until December 25th to marry me, nigga. Because if I'm that nigga, I'm going to say, Pacow, right across your motherfucking face. Now go and make me a motherfucking sandwich.

And that's on that. I love y'all and I know y'all love me back. I hope I fixed y'all mess because I'm Jess. I'll see you next week. Peace.

I don't do no bluffing, getting money. Spend it like it's nothing. He like, if he cute, I might just pop it. Got your bitch asking for pictures. If she ugly, I'm gonna crop it. I just left outside her office in LA, I made a plan. I like niggas with tattoos who carry guns, who cannot stop. And he like, and I'm like, homie, nice little ass.

Nice little ass. Hold me. Nice little ass. He be like. Nice ass. And I'm like. Nice little ass. Hold me. Nice little ass. Hold me. I be on the gram and all I do is make them laugh. Now they hear my songs and all they do is shake their ass. Don't do shit for people. If you broke them, please don't ask. Nice.

I don't want your nigga, cause I heard his dick was trash Boss bitch, I don't get tired Seven days, I did eight shows Real niggas on my side And they don't move till I say so The narrow to them bankrolls Your roll to them pesos I pop it down and I fly Say my shit, you like J-Lo I'm like, homie Homie He be like And I'm like, homie

I'm a good lawyer and I want to win. I think I killed GD.

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