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Now, listen, I am tired as shit today, period. And y'all gonna get these stories, but I'm gonna let my friend Taylor read the story. She trying, she trying to get about the room, y'all. No, come on. This is one of my producers or whatever. And she gonna read the story because...

This is a long story, and I don't understand, so come on, kick it to them. What's up, Jess? I started this new job at a warehouse about two months ago where I met my boyfriend. He was already working there, and I was new, girl. He was all over me. At first, I didn't really give him any play, but the consistency and him constantly showing effort was so attractive, so I gave him a shot, and now he's my boyfriend. We always have the same shifts, and when we would get off, he would always take me out, which I thought was so sweet.

It was even this one time that he booked a nice hotel and got it decorated and ran me up a hot bath and massaged me the whole night. I've never had that before. Now, like I told you, we are only two months in and everything is beyond perfect, which makes me question, is it really perfect? So one day I asked him, hey, how do you feel about meeting my parents? And he told me that's a big step for him to take and he's not quite ready yet. And I understood because we only have been dating for two months.

But I was also still just testing him. So I left it alone. But girl, that same day we get in the car, it's this number that keeps calling him. He answers it and says it's his sister and she has a new number. Side note, I actually met his sister once and I didn't know she was having problems with her phone. So I'm like, okay, cool.

A few days later, we are lying in the bed and his sister starts calling him again and again and again. I asked him, why don't you just pick it up? And he told me she's annoying. So I didn't want to get in the middle of that. So I just let it be. He walks in the kitchen and she's still calling him. But my mom was like, maybe you should just answer the phone. It should be important. So I answer it. And she said, you must not be answering the phone because you were with that bitch. Stop playing with me before I tell you what's up.

So I said, tell me what's up. And she hung up the phone. I called her back three times and she did not answer. I blacked out. I ran in the kitchen and said, that bitch is not your sister. And he's like, what are you talking about? I'm like, I answered your phone and that bitch is not your sister. So he starts going off. Why would I touch his phone? I had no business doing that. And basically trying to flip the whole script.

We were sitting there fussing for about five minutes and he kept trying to deny it and saying it's not even like that. Bullshit. So I just left it at that point and he followed me to my car. He even got in his car and was trying to follow me for a little bit, but he just stopped.

I got in the house and cried my little eyes out, and I didn't even want to go to work the next day because I knew I would see him. That night, I tried calling his phone because I wanted answers. I was blocked. I just left it at that. I go to work the next day, and he's not even there. So in my head, I'm just thinking, what do this nigga really got going on? I don't want no part of it anymore, but I would like to know because I did just waste my time and literally quite in love with him. Later that night...

He sends me a text apologizing and saying he was overreacting. But he wanted to tell me the truth. He said the truth was that he used to date his sister's best friend, and when they were with each other, she would take my sister's phone and try to call me off of it because she's blocked on everything.

He don't even know why his sister is still friends with the girl considering she's crazy, but that's what he told me he was. I didn't respond back because I just didn't know what to believe. Do you think he could be lying or do this even sound right? Let me know what you think. Wait a minute. So they used to work together? Okay. And so that's how she met him at work and he kept showing up with sisters and all that. Okay. Okay. Because I thought that he was just coming up her job, but he actually worked there and you went up there and you said his ass wasn't even at work.

Girl, listen, two things could have happened. He could have, because that, honestly, that shit could be true. We know one thing he loved to do. He loved blocking bitches. Don't have no problem with blocking none of y'all out of his motherfucking life, okay? So you said you met the sister and you didn't know she was having issues with her phone. So she got a new number, whatever, whatever. Now, that being the sister's friend, I have seen situations like that.

That's why I used to have the mindset like I don't fuck with men with sisters because a lot of times sisters and moms and cousins and shit and aunts and shit, they can't.

break up with a person when you break up with a person and they have their favorite exes and shit you get what I'm saying if there's no reason why if I'm breaking up with you and I'm let's just say for instance I'm the guy if I broke up with you you still hanging around my fucking family and shit like that's gonna be crazy for whoever I am dating the next person I'm dating or whatever so that could be true but then he could be lying as well because how he blew up and shit and then blocked you you had the audacity to block me

After I find out some shit, if he'd have kept that shit a hundred from the jump, it would have never been no issue because communication and honesty is just two things that can solve so many fucking problems. That's not to say you wouldn't have been angry, but at least he told you up front. The first time the sister called, I know it's kind of like, all right, cool. He ain't answer for his sister. But when y'all was laying in bed and that number kept calling him back to back, he knew what the fuck was going on. And all he had to do was say, yo,

It's my sister popping up, but it's my ex calling me from my sister's phone because she's blocked on everything. That's all he had to say. But on you, now for you, it's only been two months, baby. And I'm not trying to downplay your relationship because when somebody just sweeps you off your fucking feet after you try to resist them and all that type of shit, but if a guy makes you...

and where you want to fucking deal with him, then I understand how you kind of could be swept off your feet. And I totally do understand it. I totally do get it.

But it was only two months. And that was like two months of you being in the honeymoon phase. And then also after two months, you said, hey, you want to meet your mother? That's a red flag right there, too. I mean, and then on the flip side of it, after two months, I'm not sure I'll meet your mother. You know what I'm saying? This is how some guys could be thinking. Have y'all ever talked about, I want to know if y'all ever talked about being official or being in a relationship or shit like that. Because a guy could be playing all the right games.

roles like doing all the right things playing the boyfriend duty and you know all that type shit

and still not want to commit. You feel me? Like, it's a lot of guys out here like that. Like women. Women do all these wifely duties. We cater to these men and all that, but still don't want a relationship. You get what I'm saying? So that could have been what he was on, but if y'all talked about being in a relationship and all that type of shit, then I understand. He definitely failed. But he didn't want to meet your mother. I left a nigga for not wanting to meet my mother. The nigga that I took on a couple's retreat.

That nigga didn't want to meet my mom until I broke up with his ex. And he was like, I'll meet your mother. Don't ever try to fucking play with my mother. And I broke up with you. Now you want me to? Now, now on to the next one like Jay-Z and Swizz. Because we're not playing. I had some things to my situation. Oh, hold on, hold on, hold on, y'all. Here she go.

I was dealing with a person, and we were about to go on vacation our first time. And my mom just wanted to know, like, okay, let me just talk to him, like, see, like, catch his character, whatever like that. Yeah. How he reacted to just talking to her on the phone, not like while he was on the phone with her, but before that, like, oh, I'm just stressed out. Like, it was a lot. And he was like, I just want to get over with, like, I'd rather just meet both your parents so I can get over with. What do you mean get over with? What?

If you trying to grow a future with me, you can't just get it over with. Like, you're going to see them a lot then. All right, so y'all was about to go on a trip, and your mother wanted to know who you was going on a trip with. Because it was just y'all two. Exactly. My mother would be the same exact way and has been the same exact way in the past. Did you ask where that came from? Like, has he ever tried to— Maybe in the past, he was told he wasn't good enough for somebody's daughter or what. Like, yeah, it was like extra. Yeah, it was—

It was, yeah, it wasn't. And what happened to him? Oh, he's gone. He acted out on that vacation. He acted out on a vacation? Clay? Psych, y'all. Psych, no. Shout out to Love is Blind Season 7. That's my shirt. My bad. Child, because that seemed like something Claire did. Like, boy. All right. So back to the girl. So, Taylor, you think the guy is lying. Okay. Let's say he is lying.

Leave his ass alone. Like, because when you read your own story back, mama, like, you clearly can see what's going on. Now, even when he admitted to overreacting and shit like that, and then he told you the truth. Yo. A number kept calling. Mm-hmm. If the friend was using the sister's phone, wouldn't he have his sister's number already locked in the phone? Mm-hmm. But maybe he didn't want to block his sister. Mm-hmm.

But she's put it like that wasn't, it was just a number. And he said that was his sister. Why wouldn't your sister's contact be on your phone already? No, you're right. You're totally right about that. So, look, I don't know who lying or not, but I feel like you should leave him alone. Just because it just seems like it's a lot of mess. And then, obviously, the ex is not over him. And even though she's blocked on everything, who's to say that the sister ain't keeping her around forever?

Because they do talk sometimes. Or... You get what I'm saying? And then she could be blocked for right now and shit. And that's why she calling so fucking much. He probably... She probably made his ass mad again. And he blocked... Like, you was blocked temporarily. Then he called you once he...

calmed his ass down and felt better about the situation enough to explain the truth to you or his version of whatever the truth may be. So I think you should honestly leave him alone. And then I feel like God shows people these things so early to try to save you from something bigger and deeper happening later.

I mean, it's only been two months. You enjoyed the honeymoon phase. You got rubbed down, all that, everything. He swept you off your feet. Girl, go back to work. Do your thing. And look, try not to date nobody you work with. That's always like an issue. That's a red flag. As soon as it's a nigga that you want to fuck with and you see like red flags are happening and all that type shit, you work with him. You got to be around this motherfucker every day. Know that. I would never date nobody I fucking work with.

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Hey Jess, so I have a friend that she's a homie who is very beautiful. We've been friends for years. She's an amazing woman. However, I'm talking to this new guy and I'm scared to bring him around her and

In the past, she has gone after guys I have liked and talked to. And honestly, like, it wasn't a big deal to me. But at the same time, it's like, but why are you with my leftovers? So it just leaves me a bad taste in my mouth. Like, I don't, I love her, but it's just like, I don't know if she's the type of friend I want to really bring her around. Someone that I actually really like.

I don't know whether to be insecure about it or just don't say anything. Wow. So there's this friend that you have that has in the past gone after guys that you were talking to after you were talking to them. So she ain't try to interrupt your relationship or even your little talking phase, but she would still proceed to show interest in the guy after y'all would talk.

Fuck yeah. The fuck. First of all, why are you still friends with her? And then it should be...

In absolutely no way, shape, or form, a question in your mind if you would bring this man around her. Why are you trying to bring him around? Like, no, no. My friends ain't meet Chris, and my friends have never done no shit like that. But my friends ain't meet Chris until I was in a relationship with this nigga. When we was in our talking phase, I didn't bring him around. I wanted to make sure he was right for me. You know what I'm saying? I didn't want to jump the gun, and then he just be another nigga that adds to...

the pile of niggas that I was talking to and it didn't work with. You know what I'm saying? Because I hate failed relationships. I hate failed talk ships because I'm not talking to you just for you to go hear about your business. I'm talking to you because I love love. I love relationships. But I wanted to make sure after so many failed relationships that Chris was the one. And once I did and I knew that

Significantly fast. Significantly fast. Like seven months in, I was like, all right, yeah, you can meet everybody. Well, actually, no, it was five months, my bad. Five months in, because my son was the first one to meet him. And then I was like, all right, I'm going to bring around my friends. And then my mom didn't want to meet him because my mom got tired of meeting men that I wasn't going to be with, that I wasn't, it wouldn't last. And so, you know, that's what it was. There's no way that you should...

You ain't got no more friends to bring them around? Why the fuck you keep bringing niggas around this one? The fuck? Y'all must be like really, really good friends, best friends, sisters, something. But I'm telling you, best friends don't scout out your fucking exes or people that you were talking to. You know how many men it is in the world where you don't have to ever go after somebody's leftovers? Whether, like I said, whether they were married to them, boyfriend, whatever. I don't care if y'all went out on one date. Why the hell you as my friend...

will go behind me and do that. You know what I'm saying? So you got to check her. But I would say if the shit is going good with that guy that you with now, no, do not bring him around her. But have that conversation with her because it sounds like you need a little bit more than advice on whether you should be insecure about the situation. No, don't be fucking insecure.

about somebody else, what somebody else doing, you leave your man and your friend separate, but have a conversation with your friend. Because I can tell you, you never had a conversation with her. When she would have stopped doing that shit, y'all would not be friends right now. You get what I'm saying? If she really a friend, you got to sit her down and be like, listen, why is it every time that I talk to someone or

Or keep that shit straight up with her. I did want to introduce you to somebody that I'm dealing with, but in the past I noticed that you went after the same type of guys or like my exes or whatever, or when I'm done with them, you'll end up talking to them. No shame in your game. Why are you so comfortable doing it? As my friend, I've been wanting to talk to you about this, but I just didn't know...

if it was worth me even saying anything because obviously I'm not in a relationship with these guys anymore but it still just shows your character and I don't want to carry this any longer I want you to know how I feel about it you gotta have a conversation with your fucking friend because I don't know what's wrong with you

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You know what? What's going on with you? Do you have... I'm trying to get out of business right now. You're like, no.

So what's going on? Because, all right, for those who don't know, Taylor is in the first episode of Breakfast Club series that me, DJ Envy, and Charlamagne started. And I'm the one that's giving her advice on dating because she was like, at one point, fuck these niggas. These niggas are fuckboys and they don't deserve me. And I know my worth, you know. But apparently at one point she didn't because she was sitting there pouting about how...

niggas ain't shit. So you didn't know your work for all this time. So what's going on now? Where are we? Because they want to know. First of all, I knew my work. That's why I break up with them. Not that I'm dating. Oh. And I would say this is the first time that I'm dating someone, but like it's very transparent where I told him like, look,

I'm going to be dating other people. Like, and you're free to, too. I'm not. Damn. So you're saying calling niggas fuckboys and you want some fuckgirl shit? It's not that. That's not what's going on. Why you think it's fuckgirl shit? We're very transparent with each other, but, like, we're not exclusive. And if a guy, if I'm walking out or whatever like that, and I see a guy that showed interest and he takes my number, he can because I'm not touching anybody. Okay.

Okay, so no matter how... Alright, so... Because you have girls who like to date one guy at a time. And I used to be like that. You used to be like that. But then it wasn't working for you. Because you was putting all your eggs in one basket, you felt. And that's like how you kind of... It's expectation. I feel like I was putting too much expectation and focus on it when I didn't need to. Got you. When it really wasn't that serious. You was just... The point of dating is getting to know people. And getting to...

heading to make that decision if we're going to make this exclusive or not. All right, I feel you. I feel you. So what was his response to you go and date other people and not date other people too? Like, so he is a relationship guy and he, he understood it. Like he didn't,

at least express that he felt type of way. He might have, but we still talking though. Like it's not, and I honestly, I feel like that kind of, I like to keep niggas on their toes. I feel like it also is like, Oh, hold up. Like I feel like it makes me more desirable because I owe other, even though he knew he'll say like, I know other guys trying to holler, but me being transparent with him, I think that like may up his game a little.

He probably like that shit because bitches be over here lying. And he, yeah, like, you know, it's easy for a woman to lie and tell a guy, like, you're the only one. You're the only one I'm dating. And it sounds good. It's a dream being sold. But you're very communicative with him. And he's probably like, that's probably something that he's never had before. Like...

Because a lot of women tell men what they want to hear, not what they need to hear. And that's something that he needs. But that also lets him know whenever she got a problem, she's going to vocalize. Whenever there's something going on, going through her mind, if she's not happy, she's going to be vocal enough to tell me, like, all right, it's not going to be anything that he has to find out. Because men don't, they're not good at reading minds and shit. So I got you. I feel you. But on a scale from one to ten,

where are y'all right now? I mean, I know you're... So, wait, are you... Is it like a roster situation? Do you date other people? Is he the only one that you're dating? But you just wanted to play him on point. Like, if I do see somebody else I do like and they're showing interest, I may give them a shot at dating me as well. But he's the only person that I'm...

Dating right now. I mean, there's guys I flirt with and everything else, but nothing came about that. I met someone actually yesterday. Oh my God. Where? Where was he at? Just walking out the building. What building? This building. Girl, didn't I just say don't fuck with nobody we work with? He don't work with anybody. Oh, oh. He was dropping off a fucking DoorDash. No. Oh. He was like being a guest.

Oh, so would you date a celebrity? No. Well, yeah, I get it. I get it. I would date the manager of a celebrity or something. I got you. But I just feel like it feeds too much ego.

If it's too much ego, you ain't into it. It's like, yeah, I get it. Because then a relationship or anything we build is going to be built on competition. I hate that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Lord Jesus. Okay. All right. So, I mean, now my initial question is the last one before we get out of here. On a scale from one to ten, where is dude A? That's what I'm going to call him, dude A, because he's the first one. And dude B is the one who was leaving out the building yesterday. But where are y'all at? Where are you with...

Dude, A. Feelings wise from one to ten? I like him. I feel like he's cool. I feel like he's definitely potential. But I'm not in a place to let my guard down yet. And I think that's why I'm moving how I'm moving right now. So you're basically hurt from the past. Shut up.

Yeah, all right, so you're still healing. So why even date? This is what I be trying to ask them. Why even date if you're still healing? Now, I'm not saying, because I know you could question me back and be like, well, what, I'm supposed to just ball up in a corner and be lonely? But I'm saying if you're not ready to date. But I feel like I'm being very transparent with him. Like, we've had those talks. Like, me and him actually talk a lot about...

like, just past relationships and, like, what we kind of learned from it. And that's what I'm saying. Like, I feel like me and him are building a trust bond. But I'm just realizing the mistakes I've made in the past, and that's why I feel like I'm trying to take my time of just not, like, getting too excited. Like, oh, I like it. Like, so I don't want to be like the girl that fell in love in two months. Oh, my God.

Don't play with my fucking clients. These are my clients. Don't play with them. Just saying. Yeah, no, I feel you. You don't want to be like that, child. You do not. And I get it. I get it. Okay. All right. Well, I'm rooting for this guy. And I'm rooting for you, Taylor, because you be coming here world upside down, honey. Like, yes. We be like, hi, Taylor. She be like, what the fuck? What? Like, you know, you know, she be going through it.

And I just be like, what happened? And she like, let me tell you what this nigga did over the weekend. And so, you know, I just want her to just focus on herself, you know, and heal, heal the right way. You don't use a man to heal. By the way, let me just say, though, I, before I even met him, I was, by myself, I wasn't dating nobody or nothing like that. I was chilling, like, for a good, at least, like,

Five months or so. Damn, that's good, actually. Where did you meet him? Where did you meet Dude A? He is a friend's cousin. What friends? Because... Let me tell y'all something else about Taylor. She do not have the best circle of friends. Oh, you know what? Your friends probably listen to this. No, Taylor has good friends, but then she has others. Okay? Okay.

So, oh my gosh. From where? Philly? No. From New York? Yes. Oh, hell no. Girl, this... All right, y'all. We're going to get back at y'all. I'm going to go talk to Taylor off air and figure out what we need to do because I might start a show. Help Taylor find...

This is crazy. All right, y'all. This is, so we've come to yet another, so we've come to the end of yet another Caffley Reckless episode with your girl, Just Hilarious. What I be doing, I be fixing mess and we jump straight into it with Taylor. Y'all clam for Taylor in y'all cars right now, but don't let go of the wheel because y'all will crash. All right. Love y'all. See y'all next week. Peace.

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