The girlfriend initially seemed standoffish because she might have been intimidated by the caller, possibly due to her own attraction or the caller's sexuality. However, she eventually apologized and became more friendly.
The caller felt conflicted because they knew it was wrong to engage with their friend's girlfriend, but the emotional and physical connection was strong, leading to a moment of weakness.
Jess suggests the caller talk to the girlfriend to understand her intentions and to determine if the encounter was a one-time mistake or if there is a deeper desire. This conversation is crucial to decide the next steps and to avoid further betrayal.
Jess emphasizes the importance of the long-term friendship because it is rare and valuable. She believes the caller should prioritize this relationship and be honest to avoid causing long-term damage.
Jess thinks the girlfriend might have initiated the encounter because she was attracted to the caller and was trying to explore that attraction. She might have been intimidated by the caller initially and used the bathroom as a private space to make her move.
Jess suggests honesty because she believes the caller owes it to their friend, who has known them since childhood. Keeping the friend in the dark could lead to a betrayal of trust and damage their long-term relationship.
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