The caller feels her half-sister is toxic because she talks negatively about her siblings to their mother, tells their business, and is generally mean to everyone. This has led to the caller and her other sisters not wanting to interact with her, but they still face challenges due to family dynamics.
Jess suggests individual conversations to avoid the half-sister feeling ganged up on and to give her a chance to express her feelings. This approach can help address underlying issues and potentially mend the relationship.
The caller believes her half-sister might feel like a black sheep because she grew up in a different household, without the same structure and support, and didn't have the same close-knit relationship with her siblings.
Jess thinks the half-sister might act the way she does because she grew up in a household with an angry and mean mother, which conditioned her to be the same. Additionally, she might be attention-seeking because she never felt picked or loved.
The caller feels conflicted because she doesn't like her half-sister's behavior but also feels a sense of familial obligation and doesn't want to completely cut ties. She is unsure whether to confront her or continue to play nice.
Jess advises using 'our' and including the half-sister to emphasize that they are still a family despite their differences. This approach can help create a more inclusive and less confrontational environment.
The caller feels her half-sister is projecting her mother's feelings because her mother is angry at the caller's mother for being 'the other woman,' even though their father was married to multiple women. This has influenced her half-sister's behavior towards them.
Jess suggests setting boundaries if the conversation doesn't work to maintain a healthy distance and avoid further conflict. This allows the caller to love her sister from a distance while protecting her own well-being.
Previously Recorded
Happy Hump Day Y'all! Today, Jess is helping some people with sibling rivalry and a baby mama that's toooo close for comfort. Tap in!!
**Correction at 16:38 - Her name is Sheree
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