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EP 04 - Ja Simran! Jile Apni Zindagi

2024/2/27
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Simran Ghosh: 这段爱情始于五年前的一次Snapchat好友请求,最初的交流非常直接,没有过多的寒暄,而是直接讨论彼此的问题和困扰。这种直接的沟通方式在他们建立联系的过程中起到了重要的作用。后来,因为男方与他人恋爱,他们有一年多的时间几乎没有联系。直到男方分手后,他们才重新开始联系,并逐渐加深了彼此的了解和感情。在暗恋了对方将近一年后,Simran鼓起勇气表白,两人正式确立了恋爱关系。然而,恋爱初期,由于男方学业繁忙,两人经常发生争吵,Simran一度感到身心俱疲,最终选择暂时分手并屏蔽了对方。经过七个月的冷静期后,Simran解除了屏蔽,但男方的回应让她感到不满。在经历了一段时间的冷战后,Simran逐渐意识到男方已经改变,最终决定给他一次机会。两人重归于好后,关系更加融洽,相处模式也更加轻松自然。他们之间发生的一些小插曲,例如第一次约会时男友偷偷吃掉了她点的汉堡,以及和朋友一起约会时关于吃甜点的趣事,都展现了他们之间轻松有趣的相处模式。总而言之,Simran的爱情故事充满了甜蜜和挑战,也展现了现代年轻人恋爱中所面临的各种问题和解决方式。

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Simran's love story began with a Snapchat friend request five years ago, leading to a year of direct and meaningful conversations without the usual casual chats.

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Episode 4. Simran, Jeele Apni Zindagi. Hello, Simran Ghosh. Today I would like to talk about my love interest. Which started on Snapchat five years ago with a normal friend request. So...

This person, I didn't meet him that much. We didn't have any mutual relationship. So we both just randomly talked to each other. Like if I have a problem, I will go and ask him that look, there is something like this. So what should I do about it now? Or if he ever had a problem, he felt like this, I am not doing anything. We didn't have any normal talk. Hi, hello, I ate food. Nothing like that. Just we used to come to the point, talk to each other and then go. So

So, we had such a big connection. But we didn't know that we were making such a big connection. We talked for a year. Then, in the second year, that person came into a relationship with someone. And after that, we stopped talking a lot. For a year, we almost didn't talk to each other. Because it's obvious that he has a girlfriend. So, why would he talk to a friend on Snapchat? He felt that he couldn't even talk to that person properly.

because he has a girlfriend, so not invading their privacy. Then after a year, when he broke up, he started talking to me again. So our talks increased a little then. Then it used to happen that we used to talk to each other once or twice a week.

She would ask how everything was going, if everything was okay or not. That one week thing got a little more intense. We started talking four to five times in a week. Sometimes she would start talking daily. She would ask, "Have you eaten? Is everything going well?"

So, now it happens that when you ask someone, you get feelings normally. So, I had a crush on that person. Almost for a year. So, I can't tell that crush. And we used to have a joke that whatever happens in life, whether the boy is saved or not, I should never come into a relationship with you. It used to happen like this.

And same was with me. So how will I tell him that today I have a crush on you. So then he said one day that we met during Navratri. So we met during Navratri. He came down from my building with his friend. When I didn't go with my friend. I don't know, it was normal. He thought it was normal that I would bring a friend. For the first time I am going to meet an unknown. But

But I didn't go with him. I went alone. And then he asked me, "Didn't your friend come?" I said, "No, no one came. Why would I bring a friend?" He said, "I thought you would bring a friend, so I brought a friend." I said, "Let it be. Who should I call now?" So we were talking. I felt pity for my friend. Because he was in a mess. So after a while, we talked for almost half an hour.

and then he left to his house and I went to my house. After that, that day at night, I asked him how I felt. Was it good or bad? So he said, you looked very good. You turned out the way I had thought. I said, good thing. So now this

The crush was mutual. The liking part was mutual from both sides. So the liking part lasted for almost 7-8 months. We were liking each other but we were talking. But after that we didn't even tell each other what it was. So after a point, I asked him. We date. Like boyfriend and girlfriend. So he said yes, why not, we'll try. So we went through a lot of fights during the trial phase.

He is doing mechanical engineering. So, he was in his first year. And obviously, there is no maturity in the first year. And there are loads of work to do. You never know which path you have to take and how to do it. So, we used to fight a lot. You don't have time for me. I don't have time for you. We used to fight a lot. So, while fighting, there was a point when I started feeling very bad about it. That the other person doesn't have time for me. So, why am I putting in efforts?

Why am I putting so much effort? What am I getting from it? So I talked to him about it. That it won't work with me. So it was like we are friends. I asked him how can I be a friend with someone for whom I have feelings. So after that we changed our path. I blocked him. And I didn't have any issues with any medium. Because we both didn't have any mutual. So after that, almost 7 months, I unblocked him.

And his first text comes up. A meme where it's like, the girl who loves you will give you 100 chances. And I was offended. Who told you that I'm giving you a chance? I just unlocked you. I haven't done anything else.

He said, "I'm having fun." I asked him what fun? We haven't spoken to each other for 7-8 months. If you send this text, the person in front of me will get offended. I spoke rudely to him for almost a month. I wasn't talking properly. But I was talking. I know I have such feelings.

So, after that, I slowly realized that he has changed. He won't do the same thing again. So, I gave him a second chance. So, he was very happy when I told him that we should try.

The moment he returned to the village, I confessed to him. We met again. We were in front of my building, we were passing time in the scooty. We were talking to each other. We hadn't shared our feelings for a long time.

It was shared that day. The things we couldn't share with each other, we were sharing it today. This time, I felt more comfortable with that person compared to the last time. So, when we started talking, she didn't take the name of ending. Our relationship is different.

I have a scooter here and he doesn't. If he wants to pick me up, I'll go pick him up. If he wants to go somewhere else, I'll go with him. So that's a little different between us. Then we planned our dates. It was my first date. We went to a cafe normally. And he didn't want to eat. So I said, okay, I'm hungry, I want to eat. So he ordered a burger for me. And that burger was very good. It looked very good.

I asked him before ordering, "Are you going to eat something?" He said, "No, I'm not hungry." I said, "Okay, if you're not hungry, then you're not hungry." "I'm hungry." So, the burger was very quiet. After coming, he sat quietly and ate it. He finished the whole thing. And I don't know why, he went away with a smile on his face. I said, "Okay, I don't know why I got angry." So, after two or three days, he always tells me, "You're shameless." That day, that burger came.

I said, "What kind of a boy is he? You told me not to eat." He said, "You didn't say anything. You won't give me the food." I asked him if he wanted it or not. He said, "I will ask you next time."

There was a scene where he got angry for some reason. After that, our relationship is going well. Not bad. Recently, I went to meet my friends. For the first time, I was meeting a friend of mine. I picked him up and we ordered food. It's obvious that food is on the table. You can eat it quietly.

Now, the dessert came. The sizzling brownie came. My friends were also couples. They took the first bite and fed it to their boyfriends. I took the first bite and ate it myself. Everyone started teasing me that I was shameless to feed my boyfriends. I said, "If you want to eat, he has hands. Eat it. It's in front of you."

The person in front of me says, "You can try it." I said, "Okay, I'll try it." He said, "I'm not going to eat it now. You eat it." I said, "Who makes you eat it? I have to tell the person in front of me to feed me." I said, "Okay, chill, I'm feeding you. Eat it now." So that's how their relationship is going on right now. Sometimes we meet up, sometimes we talk. And Sir Mechanic and Engineer are very busy people. What can they do?

It's going very well. Bye-bye. So friends, how was today's episode? Did you remember your crush after listening to this episode? If you want to share your first crush's first love story, then send us a podcast at the rate of audiopitarah.com. And to listen to podcasts and audio stories like this, download Audiopitarah official app from Google Play Store. And you can listen to it for free.

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