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Let’s talk situationships

2022/12/19

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Lyss在播客中讨论了situationship的定义、利弊以及如何判断一段situationship是否适合自己。她分享了自己的亲身经历，说明situationship可能带来的困惑、焦虑和痛苦，以及如何通过有效的沟通来解决问题。她强调，在一段关系中，个人的幸福感至关重要，如果situationship影响了你的幸福感，那么就应该重新考虑这段关系。她还指出，situationship也可能带来积极的方面，例如自我成长和探索，但前提是你对这段关系没有过高的期望，并且能够保持清晰的边界。总而言之，Lyss建议听众要根据自身情况和需求来判断situationship是否适合自己，并勇于表达自己的需求和感受，维护自身的幸福和价值。 Lyss在播客中深入探讨了situationship的复杂性，并分享了她在不同situationship中的经验教训。她指出，女性往往更容易在亲密关系中产生情感依恋，即使最初只想保持轻松的关系，也可能随着时间的推移而改变想法。她强调，在situationship中，清晰的沟通至关重要，如果对方不愿意承诺，或者让你感到困惑和焦虑，那么就应该结束这段关系。她鼓励听众要珍爱自己，不要为了迎合他人而牺牲自己的幸福。Lyss还分享了一些应对situationship的实用建议，例如：明确表达自己的需求，设定清晰的边界，以及在关系中保持独立性和自我价值感。她认为，经历situationship虽然可能带来痛苦，但也能够帮助人们更好地了解自己，并为未来的健康关系奠定基础。

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This chapter defines what a situationship is and explores why people might choose to stay in them, discussing the lack of formal commitment and the emotional confusion it can cause.

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One of the questions I get in my DM’s regularly is: Am I doing the right thing by staying in this situationship? As always, no pressure to jump out of a situationship if you’re loving where you’re at but if you want to address the pros and cons, we are talking expectations, standards, communication and genuine happiness. If your happiness is being compromised right now, remember that you deserve unconditional love and you are amazing! Thanks for listening!

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Let’s talk situationships