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Snippet 2 - How To Be More Likeable At Work: Will Storr

2022/7/12
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Will Storr: 在职场环境中，我们应该认识到自己并非他人故事的中心人物，而是帮助他人取得成功的辅助者。与其夸耀自身成就，不如专注于如何协助他人提升社会地位。这就好比故事中的‘指引者’，通过帮助他人获得成功来间接提升自身价值。 Will Storr: 提升个人魅力的关键在于展现三个方面的特质：温暖、真诚和能力。温暖意味着避免与他人产生竞争和冲突，营造和谐融洽的人际关系。真诚则代表着诚实正直，不奉承也不欺骗，以真挚的态度对待他人。能力则指具备实际的工作技能和专业知识，能够为团队和组织做出贡献，并帮助他人学习和成长。 这三种特质分别对应着三种社会地位游戏：支配、美德和成功。通过展现温暖，我们避免了基于支配的竞争；通过真诚，我们参与了基于美德的竞争；通过能力，我们参与了基于成功的竞争。这三种特质的结合，能够帮助我们在职场上获得成功，建立良好的人际关系，并提升自身社会地位。

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In these Deep Dive Snippets, I'll be sharing some of my favourite moments from past episodes of the podcast.

In this snippet, Will Storr, author of The Status Game, explains that we're never the hero in other people's stories, which is why gaining social status doesn't come from being the loudest voice in the room, but from being a helpful addition to the stories happening around you.

Listen to the full episode here 👉 https://open.spotify.com/episode/76kwNrHOUErPb27FO5qwUU?si=x6hJK_RiTZuPxR72Jcz-HQ)

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