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I hated Dubai until I learned about it

2024/11/16
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迪拜之行彻底改变了作者对迪拜的刻板印象。最初,作者将迪拜视为过度商业化、奢华和享乐主义的象征,对其抱有负面偏见。然而,通过阅读关于阿联酋文化和迪拜历史的书籍,作者了解到阿联酋独特的建国过程,尊重部落和个人归属,避免了像欧洲殖民者那样随意划分领土造成的冲突。谢赫·扎耶德的领导和远见卓识塑造了阿联酋的道德基础,包括宗教宽容、妇女权利和对弱势国家的援助,这深深地打动了作者。迪拜的繁荣发展也离不开谢赫·拉希德的远见卓识和冒险投资,即使在当时看来是疯狂的举动,最终也获得了巨大的成功。作者在迪拜的经历,特别是当地人的热情好客,更让他感受到阿拉伯文化的魅力。从入住当地居民提供的哈利法塔公寓,到与当地人深入交流,作者亲身体验了阿拉伯文化中好客的传统,这与贝都因人的沙漠生存经验息息相关。迪拜作为现代国际贸易港口,汇聚了来自世界各地的人们,展现了其多元文化的魅力。作者在迪拜的所见所闻,让他对阿联酋的文化和人民充满敬意和喜爱,并计划未来居住在那里,回馈当地人的好客之情。

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Why did Derek Sivers initially avoid visiting Dubai?

He associated Dubai with commercialized hedonism, overindulgence, and pandering to millionaires and influencers, which he disliked.

What made Derek curious enough to visit Dubai despite his initial aversion?

Recognizing his prejudice against Dubai made him curious to experience it firsthand and challenge his preconceptions.

How is the UAE structured, and what role does Dubai play within it?

The UAE is a federation of seven emirates, with Dubai being one of them. Abu Dhabi is the largest emirate and the capital of the country.

What does Derek admire about the UAE's approach to forming its boundaries?

The UAE founders drew boundaries based on personal allegiances and relationships, unlike European colonizers who ignored local divisions.

Who is Sheikh Zayed, and what values did he instill in the UAE?

Sheikh Zayed was the first president of the UAE and instilled values of religious tolerance, women's rights, helping poorer nations, and gentle diplomacy.

How does the UAE compare to other countries in terms of women's representation in Parliament?

The UAE has a higher percentage of women in Parliament than the US, UK, France, Canada, Greece, Ireland, Japan, or Poland.

Why did Dubai need to be more entrepreneurial compared to Abu Dhabi?

Dubai has only 4% of the UAE's oil reserves, compared to Abu Dhabi's 95%, forcing it to attract business through smart and competitive strategies.

What is the significance of Arab hospitality in UAE culture?

Hospitality is a core value in Arab culture, rooted in Bedouin traditions of welcoming strangers in harsh desert conditions.

How did Derek experience Arab hospitality during his stay in Dubai?

A Saudi friend offered Derek his home in the Burj Khalifa, even though he wasn't present, arranging for his uncle to welcome Derek.

What makes Dubai unique in terms of its multicultural environment?

Dubai is almost 90% immigrant, with people from diverse backgrounds, making it a modern international trading port and cultural melting pot.

What did Derek learn about Emirati culture at the Al Shindaga Museum?

The museum showcased Emirati culture, history, and artifacts, including a fascinating section on traditional perfumes like oud and frankincense.

Who is Mohamed Kazim, and why did Derek find him fascinating?

Mohamed Kazim is a cultural expert who left finance to promote Bedouin traditions through his projects. Derek found his deep knowledge of history and culture captivating.

How far back can Emiratis trace their family history?

Emiratis can trace their family history back over 1,800 years, thanks to meticulous record-keeping.

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The speaker initially disliked Dubai due to its perceived commercialization and opulence. However, this prejudice sparked curiosity, leading to a three-day layover and a deeper exploration of the city's culture and history.
  • Initial dislike of Dubai due to its perceived commercialization and opulence
  • Curiosity sparked by prejudice led to a three-day layover to explore Dubai

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Hi, I'm Derek Sivers, and this is I Hated Dubai Until I Learned About It. This one is much longer than most, so get comfortable. Dubai was in my top five places where I never wanted to go. I heard it was commercialized hedonism, glorified overindulgence, pandering to millionaires and influencers, extravagance and opulence, everything I hate. That's why I had never gone there.

Last year, when I was booking a flight to attend a conference, there was going to be a short layover in Dubai. My first thought was yuck! But when I noticed I'm prejudiced against something, it makes me curious. So I made it a three-day layover to see Dubai for myself. Learning before going. Before going to Dubai, I read two books about the culture of United Arab Emirates and one about the history of Dubai. And wow! It was so fascinating!

First, about the United Arab Emirates, UAE. Like the United States or Switzerland, it's a collection of states, called emirates, of which Dubai is just one. Like New York, Dubai can refer to the big state or the city inside it. Dubai the city is in Dubai the state, which is one of the seven emirates of the UAE. Abu Dhabi is the biggest emirate, and Abu Dhabi the city is the capital of the country.

Okay, so two quick things I like about UAE as a country. Number two, part of the problem in African countries is due to European leaders in the 1880s carving up African territories with straight lines, ignoring ethnic and linguistic divides, tribal territories, existing kingdoms, and even geography. So when United Arab Emirates was becoming a country in 1971, its founders did the opposite.

They went village to village, tribe to tribe, asking each which ruling family they were loyal to. Then that's where they drew the boundaries between states. It's more complex but more accurate as it respects personal allegiances and relationships. I admire that care. Number one, Sheikh Zayed, the father of the nation and its first president. I love this guy. The folk legends of his generosity inspire me.

He gave UAE its moral DNA: religious tolerance, women's rights, helping poorer nations, and gentle diplomacy to settle disputes. Like Lee Kuan Yew in Singapore, some founders leave such an influence on the culture of a country that just being in that place makes me want to be a better man. UAE constitution guarantees women the same legal status as men and equal pay.

UAE has a greater percentage of women in Parliament than do the US, UK, France, Canada, Greece, Ireland, Japan or Poland. Companies and government agencies are required to have women on their boards of directors.

The book called City of Gold, about the history of Dubai, was so good, so well written, that it made me really admire Dubai and Sheikh Rashid, its ruler who was responsible for the bold and savvy decisions that turned it from a tiny village into what it is today. See, Abu Dhabi has 95% of the oil. Dubai only has 4%.

So Dubai had to be smarter, more competitive, and attract business to thrive. Sheikh Rashid was thinking long-term and had a vision of Dubai's huge potential and invested everything into its development in the 1970s, even against his advisor's advice. It seemed crazy at the time, but paid off in a big way 15 to 30 years later. It was quite entrepreneurial. After reading these three books, I was so excited to go. Arab Hospitality

I especially love that Arab culture's top value is hospitality. It's understandable when you consider its Bedou origins. A stranger riding across the harsh desert arrives at your home, hungry and thirsty. You welcome him in no matter who they are. You give them food and drink and let them stay as long as they need. The book called Arabian Sands, set in the 1940s, describes this well.

His Bedouin colleagues had the absolute highest admiration for a man they knew that used to be wealthy, but slowly gave absolutely everything he had to his community and visiting strangers, leaving him with literally nothing. Before flying to Dubai, I contacted a Saudi guy I met once in England. He had emailed me out of the blue a few years earlier, and we had a meal and a great conversation in Oxford.

It was my first time meeting someone in full Arab outfit, the white robe and headdress with the black rope. I emailed him to say I was coming to Dubai and asked if he'd be around to meet. He replied, my friend, cancel your hotel. You will stay at my home in the Burj Khalifa. I said, wow, thank you. Okay, it'd be great to see you. He said, no, I won't be there. I'm in Riyadh. But my uncle will pick you up at the airport and give you the keys so you can stay as long as you'd like. The legendary hospitality is real.

I had his home to myself for those three days. It was amazing. That's Ali Al-Bla of AZM. So kind. Local tips before my trip. Lucas Skrobot is an American living in Muscat, Oman. He noticed I was reading books about UAE and Dubai and asked about my interest. I told him I wanted to understand the local culture.

He said, I must meet Mohamed Kazim from Tamashii, who leads cultural trips around the region and is a wealth of historical and cultural knowledge. I thought he was going to be an ancient man with a long beard, but we'll get back to him in a minute. Elliot Shimon is a Brit who was living in Abu Dhabi. He emailed me in advance and said I must go to the Center for Cultural Understanding and most of all, the Al-Shindaga Museum.

I'm so glad he did. We'll get to that in a minute too. Dubai is the bar in Star Wars. As soon as I arrived at the Dubai airport, I felt like I was in the cantina in Star Wars. People from all over the galaxy wearing traditional clothes from Nigeria, Qatar, Ethiopia. Some women covered in full niqab, some wearing almost nothing and covered in tattoos.

Russians, Indians, and sunburnt Brits, big bushy beards and hippie dreadlocks, three-piece suits and shiny shoes, flowing robes and sandals. Later, in the Dubai Mall, I sat sipping tea for hours on the middle floor, just people watching. I could sit in this place and watch all of humanity go by. As an amateur anthropologist, it's heaven.

This is the modern international trading port, like the legends of the Silk Road, intersections of culture, East meets West, etc. This is it, here and now. This is where everything converges. I've lived in New York City, London, Los Angeles, San Francisco, and Singapore. I love how multicultural they are, but nothing like this.

Those cities are about 35% immigrants, whereas Dubai is almost 90%. My cultural curiosity has found its culmination. I asked random strangers where they're from. Every answer was different. Cameroon, Kerala, Pakistan, Tanzania, Philippines, Kuwait, Kazakhstan. Each was happy to tell me their story of why they moved to Dubai.

A man from the border of Pakistan and Afghanistan told me how he moved here 20 years ago and has been bringing over family members every year. So now where he lives in Sharjah, just north of the city, there are over 120 of his relatives living in the same neighborhood. UAE welcomes immigrants and makes it easy for anyone talented to come and work. The population is 11 million, but they are planning for 20 million in infrastructure and housing.

The Perfume House at Al Shindaga. I spent my first day in Dubai at the Al Shindaga Museum, which I highly recommend. It shows you Emirati culture, history, geography, and artifacts. It's made up of a bunch of little buildings that were traditional homes, one subject per building. One of the buildings is just about perfume, so I tried to skip it. I had no interest in girly perfume.

But when I asked the guide about how to go around it, she explained it would be difficult so I might as well just go through it. I am so so glad I did. This little building is now one of my favorite places on earth. It has many different scents kept in airtight cylinders, so you can press a button to release a bit of the aroma, smell it and close it again. No need to dab it on anything.

You can smell the origin of incense, like oud, amber, and musk. Oud was my favorite. I couldn't get enough. I kept going back to that cylinder. And frankincense! Oh my god! No wonder this stuff is legendary! Wait until you smell it. It's amazing. Incense is used all around public spaces in UAE, so to me it's the first thing I remember when I think of being there. Those wonderful smells! I miss them so much.

one of the most interesting men I've ever met. Lucas drove up from Oman and met me with Muhammad Kadhim at the Tamashii storefront. The next four hours with them was one of the most interesting conversations I've ever had in my life. First, since he was described as a wealth of cultural and historical knowledge, I was expecting to meet an old man, but he's younger than me.

And though he's dressed in the full Kuwait-style thobe, he has an American accent and talks just like my old friends. His grandfather built the first building in central Dubai. He went to Boston for college. Back in Dubai after America, he felt that the Bedouin roots of Arab culture were getting lost. He left the world of finance to start two passion projects, Tamashii Traditional Sandals and cultural tours around the Arabian Peninsula.

After I arrived and he gave me the traditional coffee and dates, I asked his interest in traditional Arab culture. He said, In Boston, I was missing home and I read a book about Bedou culture in the 1940s. We used to let nothing go to waste. A foreigner threw a date pit into the fire and the local Bedouin man immediately rescued it, saying, In the desert, we can't afford to waste anything.

Now look around at all the water we waste. We've lost touch with what makes this culture great, so I want to help people reconnect with the roots of our culture. I asked him a question about the local culture, and he said, "Depends if you're talking about the people from the desert versus the coast versus the mountains." I said, "Where's your family from?" He said, "From the desert." But then two uncles got into a fight and splitting the family, and half went to Iraq for a while,

They reunited in Abu Dhabi. But then Islam came along. I interrupted. I said, wait, wait, wait, hold on. Islam came around in the year 620. Have you been telling me your family history from 2,000 years ago? He said, well, 1,800 years ago, yeah. I said, how on earth do you know your family history back that far? He shrugged. We keep good records. I've asked other Emiratis since, and they all seem to know their family history this far back.

Mohamed and Lucas and I ended up talking for hours about cultural, history, religion and more. Now I meet up with Mohamed every time I go through Dubai and I hope to eventually take all of his cultural trips. I want to live there. I've been back to UAE a few times since, getting to know many people that live there and still love it. My best friend grew up in Abu Dhabi and raves about it. My interest in this part of the world feels bottomless. I love the culture and people.

I still haven't been to the other GCC countries, but I want to live there. Then you can all stay at my home so I can return some of that hospitality.

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