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Destination "I Do's"

2025/4/2
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Tammy: 我女儿在一个月后结婚,婚礼地点选在国外。为了参加婚礼,她要求所有宾客提前一年开始攒钱。我知道这给很多人带来了经济压力,也让我很苦恼。我和女儿关系很好,但我不想让她生气,所以一直没有明确反对她的决定。女儿的继父因为经济原因无法参加婚礼,这让我更加焦虑和内疚。 我理解Dr. Laura的观点,女儿的做法确实很自私,但她是我女儿,我不想让她不开心。我爱我的女儿,我们关系很好,但她的行为让我很为难。我该如何处理和女儿的关系,以及如何面对宾客的压力? Dr. Laura: Tammy,你女儿的这种行为非常自私和不体谅人!要求宾客提前一年攒钱参加婚礼,完全不顾及他们的经济状况和其它生活安排,这是对他们时间和金钱的极大不尊重。目的地婚礼本身就存在诸多不便,而她这种做法更是雪上加霜。 作为母亲,你应该明确地告诉女儿她的行为有多么不妥。‘爱女儿’不能成为纵容她自私行为的借口。你应该让她明白,婚礼是关于承诺和分享喜悦的,而不是为了满足她个人的虚荣心。你应该帮助她重新思考婚礼的意义,并为她提供一些更实际、更体贴的建议。你应该为那些因为经济原因无法参加婚礼的宾客感到抱歉,并尽力弥补。不要让你的女儿继续这样自私下去,这会严重影响你们之间的关系,也会让她在未来的生活中付出代价。

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Thank you. So I wanted to give you a little bit of a background. And just my daughter is getting married in a month. And she has had her wedding planned for a year now. It's a destination wedding.

And she's given told everybody, you know, given us all a year to save up for this destination wedding. And we got a call. Oh, stop. Just stop. How gracious of her that all these people have to save money on the account of her party. Oh, my God. You raised that. Gee, sorry. Yeah.

That's hilarious. First of all, I have always refused to go to a destination wedding. I think that's the height of self-centeredness and thoughtlessness. Then it's about their environment and not about the vows and the beauty of having people who care about you and care about your vows there. They can always go to Mexico on their honeymoon. This is obnoxious, telling people they can save up for a year. If I were her mother, I would have gotten in her face and said, how dare you?

There's a recession. There are problems. People have personal things, health things, and you want them to focus a year of their lives on you. I didn't raise you that way. That's what I would have said. But you know me. I'm just a pain.

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Yeah, I, you know, honestly, Dr. Laura, it has been a nightmare. And I understand what you're saying. And yes, I did raise that. And, you know, I love my daughter and I raised her like that. I love my daughter. We're very close. I love my daughter. We're very close. I'm so bored of hearing that. If you love your daughter and you're very close, then you should have read her the riot act and said a lot of people aren't coming. I am going to, uh,

I'm going to do a Trump and rescind that for everybody. They don't have to do that if they don't have the money. So be it. You can they can visit you when you come back. That's what I would have said to my daughter, whom I love. A lot of you call me and use the but I love my daughter and I love my daughter as a way of excusing the daughter getting away with stuff like this. This is awful. So you were calling because what is it? Somebody in particular can't make it and you don't know what to do.

i'm guessing yes um her her stepdad um called called me about two weeks ago and said that her stepdad and his his wife her stepdad how is he a stepdad he's not your your ex-husband he's

He's my ex-husband. Yeah. Got it. Good for him. He doesn't go. That's how obnoxious your daughter is. Good for him. I hope he doesn't go. That's how obnoxious your daughter is. Obnoxious. Please take everybody off the hook.

Please tell everybody you don't support this. Please do the right thing by all these other people. Don't put them in the guilty position of having to sacrifice earnings and savings for your daughter's ego. Please don't do that. Oh, my gosh. Please get all these people off the hook so they don't have to feel guilt.

Why do you think this is my responsibility to do this? Because your daughter is the kind of person she is, and you're not letting her get away with it with family members and friends. If she gave a shit about her stepfather, she'd buy him plane tickets and a hotel room. But this is all about her. Everybody has to sacrifice for her. What kind of a brat did you raise? Seriously.

I love my daughter, so I'm not going to cross her. I don't want her to be mad at me. I want to stifle her maturity by letting her get away with this. No. Anyway, that's my point of view, so you can ignore it or not.

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