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Is The Bride-to-Be Too Young to See Red Flags?

2025/7/3
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Megan: 我和未婚夫因为婚礼宾客数量的问题与他的母亲产生了矛盾。我希望能有一个小型的婚礼，但我的未婚夫和他的母亲都倾向于举办传统的婚礼，邀请大量的宾客。我觉得很难表达自己的想法，也不知道该如何处理这种情况。 Melissa: 我担心女儿太年轻，无法看清这段关系中的潜在问题。我女儿的未婚夫似乎很听他妈妈的话，在婚礼的筹备过程中，他总是站在他妈妈那边。我害怕女儿将来会后悔，因为如果他现在都不能为她挺身而出，以后恐怕也不会改变。 Dr. Laura: 我认为Megan现在结婚是一个错误。22岁结婚的人离婚率较高，因为她们通常还不了解自己，不知道自己真正想要什么。Megan的未婚夫在婚礼问题上站在他母亲那边，这是一个危险的信号。如果他总是听他妈妈的话，Megan婚后可能会失去自主权，事事都要迁就婆家。我建议Megan推迟婚礼，给自己几年的时间去了解自己，看清这段关系。如果Megan坚持要结婚，我甚至建议她先做输卵管结扎，避免过早生育，以免将来离婚对孩子造成伤害。

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A 22-year-old bride-to-be and her mother call in to discuss wedding planning conflicts with the groom's family. Dr. Laura expresses concern about the couple's young age and the groom's inability to stand up to his mother, highlighting the high divorce rate among young couples.
  • High divorce rate for couples marrying in their early twenties.
  • Groom's inability to stand up to his mother is a red flag.
  • Importance of self-awareness and maturity before marriage.

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Melissa worries that her daughter will regret marrying her momma's boy fiancé. 

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