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My Daughter Thanks Me All the Time

2025/2/18
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Tiffany: 我想分享我作为单亲母亲的经历。自从14年前离婚后,我一直没有约会,因为我不想让我的女儿经历那些复杂的家庭关系,比如继兄弟姐妹和继父。我的女儿现在16岁半了,她经常感谢我没有给她带来这些家庭闹剧。看到我朋友的孩子们因为父母离婚、再婚而经历各种痛苦,我更加庆幸自己当初的决定。我和女儿的家非常平静,只有我们两个人,这种状态一直很好,我很感谢你,Dr.Laura。 Micah: 我认为有些父母可能只考虑自己,没有把孩子放在第一位。我看到我朋友的父母在离婚后,总是想着下一个约会对象,而不是优先考虑孩子的感受。我认为父母应该优先考虑孩子的需求,而不是只想着自己。父母只想着自己,这可能也是他们第一次婚姻失败的原因。

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A mother shares her experience of prioritizing her relationship with her daughter over dating after her divorce. Her daughter expresses gratitude for the peaceful and drama-free home environment.
  • Mother chose not to date after divorce to prioritize her daughter.
  • Daughter expresses gratitude for a peaceful home environment without step-parents or step-siblings.
  • Mother's decision positively impacted daughter's life and well-being.

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Oh my gosh, thank you so much. Okay, I just wanted to tell you I've listened to you for 25 years. And Dr. Lourke, there's one thing I did right in my parenting. It was not dating. After my divorce 14 years ago, I have a 16 and a half year old daughter and I'm just calling in regards to the lady that called just a minute ago that was dating and had a young daughter, blah, blah, blah. And my daughter, well, my daughter's sitting here with me right now. My daughter thanks me all the time.

that I've never had a man in this home. I have never dated. And...

Yeah. So I just, all because of you, I didn't want, and now her and I always talk about like her friends that have, you know, that are, that have stepbrothers and sisters, stepdads, all the drama. Yeah. Yeah. And my friends that have divorced, remarried, divorced again, and just

having their kids go through all the drama and it's just we just step back and watch and are just she's just thankful and I'm thankful so that's why I just wanted to call it so many of these parents are so short-sighted and self-centered how do you think that could be good question um

Why? Why would you think, Micah? Maybe your daughter has some ideas. I know. She's just sitting here. We're listening right now. I think because maybe the parents are just thinking about themselves. I mean, I can only say that for, like, my friends that have went through divorce. It's like they do not prioritize their kids. They're thinking about...

the next, I say the next dude, you know, like laid up or, I mean, that's what I see out of my girlfriend. You know, I don't know, instead of just... I think you got it. I think you have it right there. They're not prioritizing their children. They're prioritizing themselves, which is probably what happened to their first marriage in the first place. Yes, exactly.

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Yes, I know. She's nervous. I love that. Yeah. But yeah, I just want you to know, thank you so, so much. And I, and she, well, she thanks me. So just for not having, yeah, the drama and it, and it does work. I mean, her home is peaceful and it's just her and I, and it's been good. She's 16 and a half. She goes to college in a year. And so it,

It's been good. And I just thank you for that. What college are you going to? What are you going to major in? I want to be a dental hygienist. God, those are, I love my dental hygienist. She draws any blood out of my gum, she apologizes and looks very upset. That's a good, that's a great job. All right. Thank you very much. Both of you, hugs all around. Yeah, hugs all around. Wow. Yeah.

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